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Topic: Suspicious relationship blossomed out of the blue... How do we feel about each other?
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Lalafortunaea
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posted October 20, 2018 09:39 AM
  
It is strange, yet timely. I feel suspicious. Something about this whole thing feels kind of supernaturally motivated. I'm not one to really think like that, but that's the best way I can describe it.There's something fishy going on here... I feel like there's some kind of ultimate purpose to our sudden "click" together. (We've known each other some years, casually as acquaintances) We're not romantically involved, but we've gotten closer. Like the in-between state between friends and lovers, if you see what I mean. I'm forcing it to the friendship spectrum because I am very skeptical... But it is odd. I feel some sense of "trust" but because I do, I feel suspicious of that as well.
I'm just being very skeptical of this whole thing O-O What do you see? What stands out? Any comments about our charts? Synastry: (he's blue) (added bottom box later while I was lookin' at asteroids. didn't bother to remove them. ignore asteroids if you like)   Composite:  
I don't trust my feelings...
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Lalafortunaea
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posted October 20, 2018 10:24 AM
And I am also suspicions because Venus is retro now, and we became suddenly closer during that time >.>IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted October 20, 2018 10:34 AM
**turns eyes into distrustful slits**
=.=
what could happen....
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Lalafortunaea
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posted October 20, 2018 10:42 AM
OH and here is our Davi:   And if someone wants, I can show our relationship asteroids, too. They also look suspiciously good >.> IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted October 20, 2018 10:57 AM
Why cut off the bottom part of the charts? In the future if you can include the whole thing that would be great, more information that way.What is wrong with friends with benefits? Is not that serious, that is more life experiences, more memories. Like if you feel that desire to be with him, go for it and enjoy it while it lasts. Looking at the Davison you have venus on an angle with Transit Uranus trining your Venus exact right now, this is why maybe it feels out of the blue. Even more so your DC ruler Neptune conjunct the 5th cusp was recently activated by Tr Saturn at early degrees in Capricorn hence you growing closer together and things getting a bit more serious than before. So why now? Transits. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted October 20, 2018 11:17 AM
Lol I knew you'd answer at some point ;D <3
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Why cut off the bottom part of the charts? In the future if you can include the whole thing that would be great, more information that way.
I often am used to using my snip tool, so, I put them back. You can see them now. Sorry bout that. Was also looking at asteroids, so decided to leave em there. Ignore them if ya want ~ quote:
What is wrong with friends with benefits? Is not that serious, that is more life experiences, more memories. Like if you feel that desire to be with him, go for it and enjoy it while it lasts.
Oh, nothing wrong with it. But I feel it is not time to just jump right in, anyway. As far as I can tell, it's not so much I (we?) feel lustiness. Attraction, yes. But lust hasn't grown, and have no idea if it will. And that's not my main concern now anyway. Should it ever develop into a deeper close friendship, or include FWB type things, that remains to be seen. I just feel EXTREME apprehension for some reason. Another thing to consider, practically speaking, is that no one really knows him. Sure, we suddenly bonded, but I don't know much about him. Perhaps some day I could ask, but from what I DO know, right now, he's not interested in FWB stuff anyhow.
I do like, however, how he is actually managing to take my mind off of that other guy.
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hypatia238
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posted October 20, 2018 11:31 AM
Snip tool!? sounds cool.Oh I see, is not like you feel that desire as of now, you are trying to understand why he kind of makes you feel anxious and why you don't trust him. I wonder if Saturn right on the IC could explain that apprehension you feel to not trust or get closer to him. IC is such an intimate point, your deepest self but saturn is there so you feel a hesitancy to get closer maybe and some anxiety around it. Huh is interesting his moon in scorpio falls right on the Davison IC conjunct Saturn though but your natal does not link back to that point. Maybe he feels a pull to get closer to you bc his moon falls on the Davison IC although his moon in scorpio is probably a bit paranoid too and apprehensive about you two. Hell maybe the apprehension comes from having davison IC in scorpio, you two are suspicious of each other and slow to let your guard down and get closer with saturn on the IC there as well. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted October 20, 2018 12:41 PM
Hmmm....And Saturn plays a big part in fear, what we're afraid of... Fear of getting close, showing our "core."
The fear of rejection. I just noticed something I find a bit offputting. The Davi chart is arranged almost exactly as the chart of the man I'm trying to forget about. Eerie similarities in some placements. Which leads back to that initial feeling I had, about something "supernatural" being afoot (I'm skeptical if that's even true, but I call it like I feel it, rational or not). I think this new relationship needs to be played out, to figure something out...
What do you advise? IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted October 20, 2018 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Hmmm....And Saturn plays a big part in fear, what we're afraid of... Fear of getting close, showing our "core."
The fear of rejection. I just noticed something I find a bit offputting. The Davi chart is arranged almost exactly as the chart of the man I'm trying to forget about. Eerie similarities in some placements. Which leads back to that initial feeling I had, about something "supernatural" being afoot (I'm skeptical if that's even true, but I call it like I feel it, rational or not). I think this new relationship needs to be played out, to figure something out...
What do you advise?
oh oh oh OMG! Get out! Fascinating. I see metaphysics play out in my life like that, its just not a coincidence, is like a version of the law of attraction playing out. I know what you mean, like the davison with my last lover activates my solar return in an obvious way and I thought that was odd/eerie/crazy. Like our Chart ruler Moon is part of tsquare and the tsquare falls on a tsquare in my solar return. I think you are right, you should follow your gut. You are coming together for a reason, you will learn something interesting about yourself at the very least and who knows maybe it will surprise you beyond that... I mean that Sun in libra at aries point conjunct chart ruler mercury in libra at aries point I would say is a confirmation of your gut that you should go for it, he could be an important soulmate even if it doesn't evolve to something romantic but when the sun conjuncts the chart ruler that is significant and is exact at aries point in libra, add that is squaring the DC ruler Neptune conjunct the 5th. I imagine once you get past the saturn on the IC hesitation that this can be a very binding placement specially in scorpio, so again he could end up been a good long term close friend or more.
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Lalafortunaea
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posted October 20, 2018 01:53 PM
Glad you see what I mean!!! It is kinda freaky, right??I'll respond more thoroughly but I must dash atm. <3 IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted October 23, 2018 10:38 AM
Still mulling things over, but also, I wanted to add another kinda "freaky, creepy" thing.So you know how I said the Davi looks like the birth chart of the guy I'm trying to get over? Well, I saw something that made me go: 8| One guy I was FWB before, I got his info, looked it up - his chart looks similar to the davi/him. Even same moon sign, same house, nearly freakin' same degrees asc/dsc... IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted October 23, 2018 11:02 AM
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Still mulling things over, but also, I wanted to add another kinda "freaky, creepy" thing.So you know how I said the Davi looks like the birth chart of the guy I'm trying to get over? Well, I saw something that made me go: 8| One guy I was FWB before, I got his info, looked it up - his chart looks similar to the davi/him. Even same moon sign, same house, nearly freakin' same degrees asc/dsc...
Insane, I swear metaphysics is a real thing. I see stuff like that happen in my life. IP: Logged |
Maylene1852
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posted October 23, 2018 12:19 PM
Sorry guys I'm new how do u get chart to appear like that. I tried all the bb code doesn't seem to work on my own post???IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted October 23, 2018 03:48 PM
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Originally posted by Maylene1852:
Sorry guys I'm new how do u get chart to appear like that. I tried all the bb code doesn't seem to work on my own post???
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