posted October 22, 2018 10:40 PM            

It talks about Pluto in aspect to the lumanries of another person...
the big three - Sun, Moon and ASC

LOVE ADDICTIONS AND CONTROL!
THE MOST INTENSE LIFE CHANGING RELATIONSHIPS.
Pluto interaspects in Synastry
Pluto is the planet of total control, possession and domination. Pluto gives you black and white relationships, it either is or it is not, love and hate, no shades of grey and no in between. If you meet someone who has his or her Pluto close to your Ascendent, Sun or Moon, you will feel this very strong and intensely!
These relationships are karmic, unrequired love and the most life changing relationships that you will experience, and these relationships, even if not brought to a physical level, will leave a mark on you for the rest of your life.

From intense desire, obsession, jealousy and acting completely out of the norm, something is triggered by one person and you are never the same again.

Usually when these relationships end, it is very VERY hard for these two people to be friends, and sometimes these relationships ten years down the line can still bond the two of you and just the thought of that relationships can trigger an emotional response. Intense I know! The arguments in these relationships can make one literally feel like they will die or breakdown is the relationship should end. It is as if they cannot live without the other person. One can get so fearful that one argument can be the end of the relationship,,,,this is because Pluto has such a strong powerful influence over the other person.

Usually the Pluto person ends up wanting to have total control over the other person. The sun moon or ascendant will provoke the person with Pluto to start exuding power, and will continue to do so, when they see the reactions of the other person. Even if this is not the common characteristics of the person, it happens subconsciously. Let's say for example the Ascendent, Sun or Moon person is very attracted to the Pluto person but then becomes un interested, this can make the Pluto person quickly become addicted to this emotional high and will act in very strange and obsessed ways to re-gain the reaction.

Usually, when someone's moon is close to another persons Pluto in a relationship will be the toughest one. The most emotionally attached. If it is the sun or the ascendant, this can create a lot of power struggles , as the reactions are very strong, all the time. The Pluto person creates deep intensive emotional roller coasters for the other person, and the other person can become so afraid of losing this! It can become like a drug, in an obsessive way!
Also, the Pluto person will notice the power they have over the other person, and the Pluto person can become very jealous and possessive if the other person starts showing attention to someone else.
That is why the Pluto person tries to penetrate, and find the secrets of the sun ascendant or moon person so they can manipulate, play games and control them.
The person with Pluto triggers addictions and emotional highs and intensities if they meet someone who has a moon that is close to their Pluto. The person with the moon becomes OBSESSED with the Pluto person, and are fascinated and can be manipulated and controlled by the Pluto person.
Pluto is powerful psychic insight, like an x ray machine and can cut through crap and see IMMEDIATELY what the other person is about, and the person with the Pluto will know when the other person is lying or telling the truth!

This can give the person an ability to size the other person up quickly and figure them out from day one. Sometimes the person with the Pluto can really take a lot of stuff from someone, and will put up with a lot in trade of the power they hold over the other person. The Pluto person will trigger the darker side of the Sun, Ascendent or Moon person, and can be there for that person to face themselves and their shadow side. This is why these people come into our lives, to cut the crap out and become aware of your dark side.

The Pluto person is there to see through you and help you change as its such a powerful transforming planet. They will trigger buttons you may have never thought were there and purge out things that have been hiding deep inside of the other person.

This strong emotional reaction, this can really happen to anyone, even the most cheerful people. From jealousy, to insecurity to sexual desires. To the calmest and to the sweetest, explosions galore like a volcano can happen over and over again to the person who is being triggered by the person with the Pluto.

The nicest people, all of a sudden can display the most aggravated and frustrated emotions from sexual obsessions to violent anger, when their buttons are pushed by the Pluto person. They can go their entire life not reacting that way in relationships, but then someone with a powerful Pluto comes along and literally reveals like a mirror the shadow self of the other person, the side that we keep hidden! Dark energies that need to be transformed, things we bury and suppress. We deny our dark side and our evil and our trauma, and this person comes along and pow!

They bring it out and force you to deal with it! Sometimes these are actually memories from a past life where you knew this person and had painful memories with them, and they are here to help you transform in this life. They bring the powerful psychological under currents to the surface, can escalate any obsessions addictions or phobias too.
It is painful but these relationships can be very healing, if the person with the Pluto is highly evolved and uses the power and influence over the other for the greater good. This can work if the other person is ready to recognize their weaknesses are and work on them.
On a lower level they will play games with you. Just remember that if you are in one of these relationships that you can really bond if both want the same things.