posted October 28, 2018 05:53 PM            

I can’t seem to let go of my “friendship” with this person. It has been an on/off thing for many years now, but we never been a couple. We always coming back to each other after our relationships end with others. We reach out to each other for advice when something bad is going on. We always hook up when we see each other to matter what is going on in our lives.

Any clue why this is based on our composite or synastry?

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posted October 29, 2018 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome!

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posted October 29, 2018 06:32 PM            

I think the problem may be the outside person's Sun/Venus/Mercury stellium receiving only squares from the inside person's Neptune. Not only is this quite an impersonal contact, it is also potentially frustrating, causing difficulties with trust and motives, and feeling misunderstood.

posted October 30, 2018 10:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Venus conjunct Mars, Sun/Moon opposite Saturn, Sun opposite Moon - these will explain both the attraction and why you feel pulled back together.

I think the problem may be the outside person's Sun/Venus/Mercury stellium receiving only squares from the inside person's Neptune. Not only is this quite an impersonal contact, it is also potentially frustrating, causing difficulties with trust and motives, and feeling misunderstood.

Hopefully someone with more astro-smarts than I will be along soon!

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posted October 30, 2018 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Skye99:
Hello,

I can’t seem to let go of my “friendship” with this person. It has been an on/off thing for many years now, but we never been a couple. We always coming back to each other after our relationships end with others. We reach out to each other for advice when something bad is going on. We always hook up when we see each other to matter what is going on in our lives.

Any clue why this is based on our composite or synastry?

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Synastry:

Any help with this would definitely be appreciated.. I can post the progressed composite if that helps.

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I think Venus Opposite Pluto in your composite plays a part especially since its exact

posted October 30, 2018 06:04 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
You really have a strong composite and synastry, but there is also a lot going on with neptune... but based on the overall picture of both synastry and composite there is a lot positive aspects, so should be able to cope and balance neptune on the long run. Just be aware of not taking advice from each other too literally, cause there is a chance you don't have a realistic picture of one another. Neptune can create a distorted picture, and you could be telling each other small lies, just to feel more comfortable and not hurt the other persons feelings.

But again, I don't think this is major red flags, it's just something you have to deal with and try to not make it into a big deal or start a power struggle between you, since you also have some oppositions to pluto. You could be a little bit jealous of each other, and build up some resentment towards each other, but as long as you communicate honestly and forgive each other, I would say it will keep being interesting between you, and theres a great attraction and excitement from being together.

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posted October 31, 2018 04:31 PM            

The first thing I noticed, when looking at your synastry, is that the inner person(A) might be more affected by the other person(B). I assume the inner person is you?
The 5th house gets activated by outer planets and the Moon! B’s emotional side and basic day-to-day personality triggers A’s romantic feelings. B also puts their Sun-Venus-Mercury conjunction right in A’s 8th house! This triggers very deep, compulsive reactions in A, and makes A crave B even more.
But the most significant pull to me would be A’s Asc conj B’s SN!!
I’ve seen relationships like that, I’ve also been in some.. even with bad aspects this is usually very irresistible and binding, at least for a while. It’s a karmic past life connection, where Person A feels a compulsive pull to attend to person B’s needs.

You also have a venus/mars conj and a juno/Chiron conj. !! According to Magi Astrology juno conj chiron is called the Ultimate Lifetime Sexual Linkage. The sex you have isn’t just for fun, it’s also healing and transformative.

In the composite chart vertex is not conj the Dsc, nor is it in 7th or 8th house. I made the observation that this usually doesn’t lead to a partnership, but is more a sign of people who are there to support each other. But I might be wrong..
Having Juno in 1st house sextile sun and Jupiter is actually a good sign.
Also your Venus and Mars are supported by Saturn and Neptune, which adds a stabilizing factor. The Sun-Jupiter conj in 11th house shows a very beneficial union in the house of friendship, hopes and dreams.
But overall .. despite the Sun-Jupiter conj .. all aspects are rather wide. It’s still a significant relationship for both of you.. Person A’s sun/moon conj gets activated by the comp Asc. Person B’s Sun/Mercury/Venus gets activated by the comp Moon!
This shall be the answer why you both can’t let go.
How this ultimately plays out and why you’re not able to turn your relationship into something substantial .. I can not tell. I find it hard, by just looking at the charts. I would need the aspect lists and much more time, to get into it.

But hope this helped you as an overview.
The relationship definitely has a lot of compelling aspects!