posted November 07, 2018 09:30 PM            

Here the FMC of my ex and I

What stands out to me is the venus/mars conjunction, in the 5th and conjunct Jupiter as well lol. I think I read before that it means you’ll be intimate with the person (venus/mars conjunction) And that was true! 😂 I lost my virginity to him. Not this night but a couple months later. lt was intense attraction from the beginning, we dated for almost 3 years. We always had crazy chemistry.

posted November 08, 2018 04:19 AM            

And the DSC ruler is Jupiter, which is in the 5th and conjunct Venus Mars.... so that was positive.

What I have read is that you want to see benefic planets in the angular houses, and malefic planets in the succedent.... I think succedent. At least not in the angular! And neptune is the only one in the 10th house....

FMC only last three months, then they are taken over by the next phase. So when you consummated the relationship, that chart presides.

Can you post your natals so we can compare them to the FMC?

posted November 08, 2018 04:26 AM            

FMC:

his natal: TOB is best guess only

my natal:

posted November 08, 2018 07:17 AM            

Here’s his (both TOB accurate 👍

posted November 08, 2018 03:22 PM            

and neptune involved in a grand trine with sun and moon., romantic! that venus mars conjunction right on your moon, tis was a big spark for you?

posted November 08, 2018 04:09 PM            

Our relationship was very intense and turned toxic though after awhile. I think it’s our composite. We’re still in each other’s lives though. Been through hell and back but there’s always this pull back to each other lol.

posted November 08, 2018 07:03 PM            

You’re very Capricorn, aren’t you? Even your Uranian side is sextile to Saturn, and your mars. A little Aries vibe. But that same mars is opposite Saturn, so here comes Capricorn again! And what else I find very interesting- your Saturn in Aries opposes by mars (ruled by Aries) . It’s this lovely little interplay throughout your chart. I feel like universe is smiling at you, really emphasizing what it is you are here to do in this life! And then your moon on your north node, trine your venus offers you that softness and grace you need to take the edge off of all that Cap. Really beautiful chart!

And he appreciated your Capricorn nature, but he also echoed this for you with his dsc. love that moon Neptune trine too- follows the romance from the FMC. Your Saturn sextile his sun too as well as your mars in trine... it was a good deal for both of you. He helped steady you, you invigorated and stabilized him too.

You are young, so I imagine that could be the nature of this relationship not being more long term. It was a powerful learning relationship. It helped both of you grow.

posted November 08, 2018 09:35 PM            

I’ll post the composite yes

posted November 08, 2018 09:40 PM            

I like our Venus/Jupiter conjunction in the 7th. Jupiter was also our 7th house ruler, so having it in the 7th conjunct Venus I feel was a blessing. That’s why we were so tolerant and forgiving of each other despite all the crap and fights lol.

posted November 09, 2018 10:05 AM            

moon's biggest aspect is chiron conjunction. So this would have become a focal point, especially as it mirrors both of the natal charts. You both would have had to face emotional insecurities and wounds. Salt in the wound for sure. This was widely conjunct the NN so it just reinforces it again!

Mars opposite Saturn would have been tough for sure. Just limits and boundaries left and right. I have not had that in composite, so I can only imagine what you felt. This squares the AC/DC axis, and I have been wondering lately if that makes for a "rub you the wrong way" feeling. Like someone who isn't aware of their actions on others, who doesn't see the wake they leave behind. So in a relationship it could be this feeling of frustration and struggle because you are trying to be one thing (the ASC) and wondering why you are moving in a totally different direction (Mars square) and not being able to make the connection that it is something within...

Its interesting to me to see the echoes of the FMC in the natals and composite. 5th house venus mars in FMC echoes your composite moon/chiron/node in the 5th, echoes his 5th house moon node.

Check out the size of the 12th/6th houses in the FMC- complete echo of your huge 12th/6th houses in your natal. Only reversed! The FMC places planets in the 6th, Sun Mercury and Saturn, while you have Saturn in your 12th. Its like this is telling you point blank, this is what we are working on! I always feel like when certain houses are huge in the chart it's an important area of focus.

Furthermore, your natal chart has Aries and Libra intercepted, but the FMC has Taurus Scorpio intercepted. With interceptions you gain access to these houses by the preceding house/sign. So you personally would do well to have a Pisces let you in to your Aries self, but the FMC is showing you Aries can let you in to the Taurus side of things. Composite is the same as FMC- 12th and 6th houses are huge, and Taurus and Scorpio are intercepted.

I wonder if you couldn't move past the chiron moon wounds and mars saturn bcs you haven't accessed your Mars/Aries self, and in order to unlock the Taurus in the composite and FMC you need that first. And the charts were fighting you as Mars was directly opposed by Saturn. You being very Saturnian, I kind of feel like this was a massive growth opportunity for you. This was completely karmic and needed for you for sure.

If you look at him, just like the FMC and composite, his Taurus Scorpio signs are intercepted. Just different houses. This was a big relationship for both of you, but so big for you.

Really fascinating and my brain is on overload trying to make sense of the connections. I know they are there, but I hope I am a little more cohesive in my text here than I am in my brain at the moment!