posted November 07, 2018 01:09 PM            

Curious to hear what your opinion/experience with someone who has sun in Taurus and Moon in Scorpio. His Pluto is also in Scorpio and possibly conjuncts his Moon.

posted November 08, 2018 02:48 AM            

I am 40 and have never uttered the words I love you to a man. I have told my cat I love him though. And only told one friend I loved her. But it was the ecstasy pill I took to help me say it. Couldn't do it with a straight head on me.

I can't even tell you what I'd be like in a relationship either, those things elude me.

However, I watch and observe everything around me, and watch how I play with every game in life. Its my manipulative side and use everything against people, but only of they mess with me, so hurt me, and I'll do everything in my power to destroy you.

posted November 08, 2018 10:18 AM            

One thing I can say, if you're TOO EAGER to find out this person's secrets, they'll retract. This person is likely distrustful, and they like to keep their secrets, only reveal them when they feel safe. If you try to poke them out when they don't feel safe, or expect them to give it up when you haven't earned them, they can become stingy (scorp) and worse case headbutt you (bull). So just be yourself, be self possessed, without too much neediness. Display loyalty, love. Don't toy with them. Light gentle loving teasing is okay, but make sure they understand you intention is to playfully tease in a flirty way. This'll help them come out of their shell a little. Make sure the flirting isn't too hot and heavy at first, as this will make the Taurus aspect extra shy, and make Scorpio suspicious.

Also if you've got 8th house contacts, it helps with revealing things to each other.

I wouldn't be surprised if this person secretly thinks you're some kind of secret agent sent by the forces of evil to infiltrate them xD But don't mock their paranoia if you find anything like this out. This person will just want to see if you are trustworthy or worth it, and that takes time. Your own earth sign staying power could help.

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:

However, I watch and observe everything around me, and watch how I play with every game in life. Its my manipulative side and use everything against people, but only of they mess with me, so hurt me, and I'll do everything in my power to destroy you.

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But I do getcha!

posted November 08, 2018 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Ahhh yep you've found yourself a real enigma of a mixture. Taurus is shy, reserved, and doesn't trust people.
Scorpio is the same, only worse LOL They reveal very little of themselves. You almost have to be a lil' psychic to discern them. Got any Pisces in ya?

One thing I can say, if you're TOO EAGER to find out this person's secrets, they'll retract. This person is likely distrustful, and they like to keep their secrets, only reveal them when they feel safe. If you try to poke them out when they don't feel safe, or expect them to give it up when you haven't earned them, they can become stingy (scorp) and worse case headbutt you (bull). So just be yourself, be self possessed, without too much neediness. Display loyalty, love. Don't toy with them. Light gentle loving teasing is okay, but make sure they understand you intention is to playfully tease in a flirty way. This'll help them come out of their shell a little. Make sure the flirting isn't too hot and heavy at first, as this will make the Taurus aspect extra shy, and make Scorpio suspicious.

Also if you've got 8th house contacts, it helps with revealing things to each other.

I wouldn't be surprised if this person secretly thinks you're some kind of secret agent sent by the forces of evil to infiltrate them xD But don't mock their paranoia if you find anything like this out. This person will just want to see if you are trustworthy or worth it, and that takes time. Your own earth sign staying power could help.

That side of me rarely comes out, but if it does, it comes out in relationships (scorp dsc). Been betrayed in a real way by someone who toyed with me. I kinda did destroy him, socially especially. He also activated my Lilith to make matters worse LOL ahhhh just be thankful he's still alive...

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posted November 08, 2018 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Ahhh yep you've found yourself a real enigma of a mixture. Taurus is shy, reserved, and doesn't trust people.
Scorpio is the same, only worse LOL They reveal very little of themselves. You almost have to be a lil' psychic to discern them. Got any Pisces in ya?

Also if you've got 8th house contacts, it helps with revealing things to each other.

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And yes, I agree with the enigma part...he was exactly what you describe - very sweet, not necessarily shy but there was this sense of being reserved but at the same time I could just feel this depth about him when we talked and the intensity of emotions under the surface. I actually thought that he was a Scorpio at first because of his eyes. The stare and the intensity was so magnetic that I couldn't shake it off even after we were not in close proximity with one another.

The thing about it is that he was super nice and sweet, while asking a few probing questions, smiling, etc but I could just feel he was scanning me, trying to figure me out. And although I don't have any Pisces in me (well my SN is in Pisces), I pick up on people's energy so easily that I could just see all this happening under the surface. When we hugged several time it was the best feeling in the world, so warm, healing and comforting. I am not a big huger but when it came to him, that was the most welcoming feeling I've felt, so natural and effortless, really hard to explain.

posted November 08, 2018 01:05 PM            

What everyone said above is true, I can vouch for it. This guy isn't secretive per se, nor private, but you're never going to REALLY get into their inner lives. You'll think they're "confessing" something to you, but that tidbit of information has already been carefully vetted by them for a long time so to them it's a casual piece of information, but the person receiving it thinks that they're finally getting them to open up. Nope.

They're also very much into games. They like to have the upperhand - it's an insecurity thing. They want to make sure the other person likes them more than they like the other person.

Very sexual, very sensual.. yes they're sensitive. They pretend like they aren't but they are.

Likes philosophy, hates small talk, likes analyzing the deeper meaning behind media, stuff like that.

posted November 08, 2018 01:28 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
I'm casually dating a Taurus Sun/Scoprio Moon right now

What everyone said above is true, I can vouch for it. This guy isn't secretive per se, nor private, but you're never going to REALLY get into their inner lives. You'll think they're "confessing" something to you, but that tidbit of information has already been carefully vetted by them for a long time so to them it's a casual piece of information, but the person receiving it thinks that they're finally getting them to open up. Nope.

They're also very much into games. They like to have the upperhand - it's an insecurity thing. They want to make sure the other person likes them more than they like the other person.

Very sexual, very sensual.. yes they're sensitive. They pretend like they aren't but they are.

Likes philosophy, hates small talk, likes analyzing the deeper meaning behind media, stuff like that.

They've slept with upwards of 50+ people but only three have ever been made girlfriends, so they're picky

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Ah, yes! We were talking and when I asked about how he ended up where he is now, he was telling me about his parents, them moving, his sister, etc...and it seemed like a conversation but then I thought, he didn't really disclose much, was kinda vague about everything.

And I don't understand how it's fair to the other person. I mean to play games. I get the whole being cautious thing having my ASC and Venus in Scorp but I just don't understand a point of games because it doesn't allow for the other person a chance to know who they are dealing with. You can't expect someone to open up to you and trust you if you are not extending the same in return. It never works. Eventually the other person will feel like they are always trying hard to just be there, establish a connection, keep that connection going, digging for more...gets very tiresome and old after a while, at least for me. I had to drop a few Scorps for that reason in the past.

posted November 08, 2018 04:00 PM            

But, listen, it's okay if you "blow it" with someone, simply by confessing your feelings. If you 'blew it' that easily, means it probably wasn't a worthwhile investment of your time and affections.

Friend of mine sent me an interesting quote the other day. I'll paraphrase from memory.

Person 1: A man confessed his feelings to a girl. She did not reciprocate. The man, afterwards, was not sad.
Person 2: Why wasn't he sad? He was rejected.
Person 1: Why be sad to lose someone who doesn't love you? Leaves room for someone who does love you to come into your life!

posted November 08, 2018 04:45 PM            

Also, people who express interest in me really early into our friendship makes me feel like they just like the idea of me and acting on their passions that might be temporary. I just want to say, “Whoa, slow down, you haven’t really got to know me yet.” I want someone to be patient and like me for me — all the good and bad rather than what’s on the surface. It lets me know they got staying power.

I don’t know if you can fix this, and I don’t know how long you were friends. Him pulling away can mean a lot of things. You were brave to confess, and maybe he was still considering whether to move things further with you or not and ithe confession caught him off guard. Maybe he was just not ready. Maybe he’s really thinking and calculating what to do next. I guess just wait and see what happens

posted November 08, 2018 05:50 PM            

Einfuhlung, thank you for your input. I didn't exactly say "I like you" or anything to that extend but I did let him know that I felt a very strong magnetic pull towards him and that I wished that we spent more time together so we could get to know each other better and that I felt very sad as I watched him walking away on the last day when we hugged each other goodbye. So it was not straight up - I really like you confession but I think it was pretty clear from my message that I was very attracted to him but I am thinking the choice of words and how I said it might've been perceived by him as too much considering that we barely know each other...idk...all I know is that he took about 4 days to get back to my previous messages and now he is doing it again.

posted November 08, 2018 06:04 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Moon in Scorpio isn’t going to show their emotions lol.
Pretty much ever. Until they trust you and have developed real feelings for you, but even then, you’re only going to get the basic/surface level. They’re never going to want to reveal everything or be effusive.

With Scorpio moon; it’s their actions, patience, tolerance and acceptance of you that is going to show the true depth of their feelings. They will tolerate a ridiculous amount of ******** when they love you. Lol it will be almost impossible to push them away once you’ve won them over. That’s the loyalty of a Scorpio moon.
Also, they take the words saying “I love you” super duper seriously. So if they say it, you know they probably mean it.

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LunaIscariot - so how does one even know if they like you, especially in the beginning? I mean how do you decipher between them just holding in their feelings versus not being interested in you? If they don't reveal any emotions, how can one know that it's worth their time to stay and continue interacting in hopes that it will eventually progress into something meaningful?