posted November 09, 2018 02:05 PM            

we've been together 14 years,only recently got engaged and go back and forth between whether or not we should even bother but we've lived together 13 years and share everything

which is really about the same

that being said you want to look at other houses to flesh out the picture because a planet in the 7th house wont necessarily mean anything

because everything counts as a whole and 7th house placements can be business or not always romantic or even positive

i can think of 2 people who have my sun fall on their descendant, they both dont like me as a person (one is my brother so obviously thats not romantic, but the fact is that neither likes me)and have spent a good deal of their time trying to put me down and so on

the other is a straight guy

not sure how that translates so well into open hostility (the straight guy and i actually dont have anything particularly negative in our synastry, it's all mostly really positive i just rub him the wrong way somehow anyway) but it does

examining a single aspect without the rest of the chart usually isnt the best

posted November 09, 2018 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
my fiancee's moon is in my 7th, and my moon is in my 7th

we've been together 14 years,only recently got engaged and go back and forth between whether or not we should even bother but we've lived together 13 years and share everything

which is really about the same

that being said you want to look at other houses to flesh out the picture because a planet in the 7th house wont necessarily mean anything

because everything counts as a whole and 7th house placements can be business or not always romantic or even positive

i can think of 2 people who have my sun fall on their descendant, they both dont like me as a person (one is my brother so obviously thats not romantic, but the fact is that neither likes me)and have spent a good deal of their time trying to put me down and so on

the other is a straight guy

not sure how that translates so well into open hostility (the straight guy and i actually dont have anything particularly negative in our synastry, it's all mostly really positive i just rub him the wrong way somehow anyway) but it does

examining a single aspect without the rest of the chart usually isnt the best

edit: i mention him being straight because it makes things not a possibility, and im sort of wondering if anyone's noticed overlays that would be positive being soured by sexuality and such when it comes to the individuals

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