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Hikaru29
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posted November 12, 2018 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, these are the charts of my friend and her boyfriend of 2+yrs and she recently has been talking about breaking up. I've been asking her not to but just wondering based on their charts, do they have long-term potential?

She's in blue.

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posted November 13, 2018 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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llewsacm
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posted November 13, 2018 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, your friend is probably feeling the effects of a few things happening right now with the transits.

Uranus is currently passing over her asc, and his Saturn. She may feel the desire for change with this, and her boyfriend is feeling the pressure as well since Uranus is challenging stable sautrn.

Additionally, the nodes are square the asc/dsc axis, which will also put emphasis on any of her relationships that are not solid.

She looks to be middle aged, correct? A woman at this phase of her life probably has a stronger grip on what they want...lol. shes probably pondering that with this relationship now. The current transits are provoking this more than likely.

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posted November 14, 2018 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Hi, your friend is probably feeling the effects of a few things happening right now with the transits.

Uranus is currently passing over her asc, and his Saturn. She may feel the desire for change with this, and her boyfriend is feeling the pressure as well since Uranus is challenging stable sautrn.

Additionally, the nodes are square the asc/dsc axis, which will also put emphasis on any of her relationships that are not solid.

She looks to be middle aged, correct? A woman at this phase of her life probably has a stronger grip on what they want...lol. shes probably pondering that with this relationship now. The current transits are provoking this more than likely.


Thanks for replying, llewsacm! Yes, the couple are both middle aged and divorced. My friend feels that her boyfriend doesn't love her... any way to tell from the charts? And how long will this transit lasts? Interestingly, their pMoon is changing signs in a couple of months. Any relation to how she's feeling as I read that when pMoon is changing sign, it will affect the "tone" of the r/s?

Can I trouble you to also look at my own r/s in another thread?? Uranus should be passing over my Taurus Sun/Mercury now and I'm feeling very unsettled. Tks!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/008413.html

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posted November 14, 2018 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there. These transits are long term so if things are getting shaken up now, chances are theres something not quite right with the union. A more stable relationship will survive the transits...not to say things will be blissful throughout, but survive nonetheless.

Her boyfriend is heavy cap, so he may come across as reserved with his affectionate side. I think that may be one of the things that initially drew her interest to date him in the first place actually. Her placements show a need for some stability in a mate...maybe that's not enough for her right now?

I am sure the progressions have some weight on her as well, but I am unfortunately not well versed in that area. There has been some specilation that pmoon to the natal asc, sun or another inner planet can signal the end (or beginning) to a relationship, but honestly I have not studied that in depth to know for sure that there is in fact a distinctive pattern. You might want to put up another post with the progressed chart synastry to see if anyone else with knowledge of that will chime in.

I did reply to your other thread btw. 😉

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posted November 15, 2018 07:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Hi there. These transits are long term so if things are getting shaken up now, chances are theres something not quite right with the union. A more stable relationship will survive the transits...not to say things will be blissful throughout, but survive nonetheless.

Her boyfriend is heavy cap, so he may come across as reserved with his affectionate side. I think that may be one of the things that initially drew her interest to date him in the first place actually. Her placements show a need for some stability in a mate...maybe that's not enough for her right now?

I am sure the progressions have some weight on her as well, but I am unfortunately not well versed in that area. There has been some specilation that pmoon to the natal asc, sun or another inner planet can signal the end (or beginning) to a relationship, but honestly I have not studied that in depth to know for sure that there is in fact a distinctive pattern. You might want to put up another post with the progressed chart synastry to see if anyone else with knowledge of that will chime in.

I did reply to your other thread btw. 😉


Yes, she wants someone stable and affectionate but her heavy-Cap boyfriend is not warm enough for her. In addition, he doesn't seem to get along well with her friends whereas she's chummy with all his close friends, so it's a bit unbalance.

I saw your reply to my other thread. Thanks so much!

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posted November 19, 2018 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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