posted December 10, 2018 10:18 AM            

How does Lilith aspects differ from Pluto aspects in terms of sexual attraction?

Are Lilith contacts all bad?

In synastry we've Lilith opp/square Mars DW. His Lilith also conj my Venus & opp my Moon, and my Lilith opp his Mercury. I find my lust for him hitting the roof and it drives me crazy. I know he feels the lust too becos he's so dirty & horny with me. But is this all Lilith or other aspects causing it?

posted December 10, 2018 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Is anyone here well-versed with Lilith in synastry? I read about the obsession but mostly talk about the conjunction. How about the other aspects like trines, oppositions and squares? And is it always the planet person who's enamoured?

How does Lilith aspects differ from Pluto aspects in terms of sexual attraction?

Are Lilith contacts all bad?

In synastry we've Lilith opp/square Mars DW. His Lilith also conj my Venus & opp my Moon, and my Lilith opp his Mercury. I find my lust for him hitting the roof and it drives me crazy. I know he feels the lust too becos he's so dirty & horny with me. But is this all Lilith or other aspects causing it?

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I read that if the man's Lilith is the one being aspected by the personal planet or point of the woman it's him who will find her incredibly sexy but also kinda scary. But I also think it's usually both people feeling the aspect and finding the other one equally sexually appealing. Maybe the woman here is just not as intimidated by the man (if it's her personal planets or point being aspected by his BML) as he is by her.

posted December 10, 2018 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
I read that if the man's Lilith is the one being aspected by the personal planet or point of the woman it's him who will find her incredibly sexy but also kinda scary. But I also think it's usually both people feeling the aspect and finding the other one equally sexually appealing. Maybe the woman here is just not as intimidated by the man (if it's her personal planets or point being aspected by his BML) as he is by her.

I have experienced Lilith aspects before. A guy I had a fling with had his Lilith tightly conjunct my Venus and he said that finds me sooooooo sexy (his words lol).
With the other guy I was telling you about in the other thread we have his mean BML bang on my Pluto, and it's conjunct almost to the second and consequently his BML is also square to my moon and ascendant. My h22 is conjunct his Eros/Pluto conjunction. Extremely obsessive sexual attraction.

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In our case it's definitely mutual. He's the first guy to bring out such lust in me...I feel like a shameless sex addict, while he also finds me extremely attractive and seductive.

posted December 22, 2018 03:16 AM            

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Originally posted by HieronymusTush:
Which Lilith is this -by astro codes-?

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Good question.

I checked a few: 1181, h13, h21, h58.

My Asteroid Lilith (1181) conjunct his Venus/Saturn.
His Black Moon Lilith/Mean (h21) conjunct my Venus.

posted December 22, 2018 08:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Good question.

I checked a few: 1181, h13, h21, h58.

My Asteroid Lilith (1181) conjunct his Venus/Saturn.
His Black Moon Lilith/Mean (h21) conjunct my Venus.

Which one should we look at?

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posted December 22, 2018 09:00 AM            

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Originally posted by kani:
I look at those who make a significant aspect. Either his to mine or mine to his. you can then look up the interpretation of the aspect and then decide whether it applies or not. It definitely did fit with me and the guy I had/have this insane attraction with

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I would think Lilith conjunct Venus is definitely significant and I feel it strongly. Just wonder which Lilith I should use?