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Topic: met someone else & seriously considering changing everything for them?
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Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1971
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 24, 2019 07:21 PM
  
interesting.. we have a lot of plans in june, to have our band go on tour. & yeah, my head is kinda stuck up there right now. maybe all those pisces transits in my 8th house....IP: Logged |
Bismarck2
Knowflake Posts: 499
From:
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted March 26, 2019 01:08 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Selenite:
wow I didn't expect you to say any of that. to me it's the most healthy and functioning relationship i've ever been in, but obviously there are some issues. i never in a million years thought i'd cheat and i've often felt like i want to be with him for the rest of my life, and i don't even like that idea. loli often develop crushes on people; that's just who i am. but i usually keep contact to a minimum with those people. i don't know how i let myself do this with this other guy. i think the yods point to that uncontrollable feeling. honestly i thought we were really compatible because of our chart mirroring, we both have grand trines with the same planets in the same houses (sun/merc in 5th, mars in 1st, moon in 9th -- well his is basically in the 9th). we both have NN in the 4th. and lots of other things...
plus i'm always attracted to earthy types, my draconic is actually the same placements as my boyfriend's and his is almost the same as mine. honestly everything was 1000% fine before i did this. i guess i'm just a flighty b*tch
So you did cheat on him? You should be honest with him. This is a cruel game you're playing on both these men. quote:
Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
I noticed with your current guy, your venus makes no aspects to his personal planets...
Her Venus quintiles his mars. Quintiles are powerful aspects. This means they have a mars/venus DW. Sun/pluto opposite is also a powerful aspect. A nice moon/venus sextile. Her Chiron is also very triggered. As you said though, ultimately this looks like a mainly 7th house relationship. IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1971
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 26, 2019 05:58 AM
Thanx 4 the input guys........
Hmm.. i have my venus quintile mars with one, and my mars quintile venus with the other.I'm realizing it's really dangerous to take relationship advice from people on here if i'm in a state of confusion. Nobody knows what theyre talking about because it's all symbolic and hypothetical lol. but i do appreciate the speculation now that i feel more grounded. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 127688
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 02, 2019 04:55 PM
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Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1971
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 09, 2020 04:16 AM
so this is still going on, but just as in 'we're making music together' --- thoughts? i think this is a healthy way to channel the energy.... but i can't tell if i'm setting myself up to fall for him outside of the music connection? it all feels out of my controlIP: Logged |
Stoika7
Knowflake Posts: 875
From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted June 09, 2020 07:10 PM
Hi Selenite,
I doubt you will ever find clearity in this relationship cause of Neptune square the nodes and Saturn square ASC/DSC, you're bound to a karma with this person, and this has to do with your artistic activity, from which there seems to be an awareness to be gained in terms of personal path. As transiting nodes will go through the ASC/DSC axis in next november, this will trigger the Saturn square, he might then choose to follow his own life direction away from you or you both might definitely become aware that expectations and stability of any kind are very difficult to be realized and maintained in this relationship.IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1971
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 09, 2020 08:19 PM
Thank you Stoika, I hadn't noticed that before! I hope it's a more solidifying realization than anything... I don't need his love, but I do need his vocals. Lol
We were meant to meet, if only for this project. I just want it to move forwardIP: Logged |
Stoika7
Knowflake Posts: 875
From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted June 09, 2020 09:00 PM
"I don't need his love, but I do need his vocals."As a musician myself, I know what you mean :-D Hope to be wrong of course, some aspects in the Composite suggests that what you share is temporary and the nodal transit will trigger those aspects... but in any case the Grand Kite also shows that it's an important experience that will leave the mark for both of you, in artistic and self-growth matters. Good luck for your project :-) IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 127688
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2020 05:35 PM
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