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posted January 31, 2019 03:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
hey @ Luna, was wondering if you saw/ had anything you'd like to say about mine that I posted above?

Also I'm going to edit it soon fyi, so just a heads up.

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Oh, yes. Sure I’ll check it out after libragirl. Sorry I missed it lol

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posted January 31, 2019 04:04 AM            

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Libragirl;
Yikes, this isn’t a good relationship. Doesn’t look like you have much if any emotional understanding, looks like you might have a lot of misunderstandings because you just don’t really get the other person. Basic incompatibility. I feel like you’re not in love either, like this guy isn’t your type really and you don’t have much passion for him or romantic feelings.
I see sexual attraction but that’s about it.
I don’t see this lasting. I think you and probably him as well definitely feel like something is missing and you could do better, find someone who is a better match. I’m seeing that emotional connection missing, like the deep love feelings.
He is more attached to the relationship and you as well. He has the stronger feelings here. How long have you been together? I’m surprised if this lasts more than 3 years.. and if it does looks like you’re just settling..
sorry this wasn’t the most positive but this is just what I see lol

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posted January 31, 2019 04:35 AM            

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We have been together for 3 years(4 this october) we met through facebook in 2015 met in person in Hawaii in march 2016 and moved to New Zealand in July of 2016 to be with him and got permanent residency in March of this year. We are happy together but there have been times I want to go back home due to the fact i sometimes cant handle his outbursts he has. I sometimes find myself emotionally distanced but it's hard for me to talk to him about my feelings I'm like that with anyone it's hard to talk about my feelings but every day I do try my best to make this a happy relationship as I'm trying to fix and heal myself

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posted January 31, 2019 04:44 AM            

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Yes this makes sense. That’s what I meant about the emotional harmony or understanding lacking between you, aka you not knowing how to deal with his emotions (emotional outbursts).
He has an Aries moon and it’s conjunct to Jupiter which is just expanding the anger this moon sign is prone to. That’s tough.

I suggest you really evaluate if this is the right relationship for you (and looking at the charts, it isn’t. You could find someone much better suited for you tbh) and if you want to keep dealing with his behaviour which doesn’t sound too healthy or appealing. You’re still young! Make sure you’re not just settling or putting up with things you shouldn’t be.
Sending you lots of love and I hope you’re happy whatever you decide to do 🥰

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posted January 31, 2019 04:51 AM            

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I'm just quite curious what type of guy would be best suited for me? Thank you for advice and wishes well appreciated❤

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posted February 01, 2019 02:44 PM            

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Bump - great thread

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posted March 07, 2020 07:16 PM            

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Update:

We've been living together for almost a year now and we got married so I would say that he sees me as more than a friend at this point....

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posted March 07, 2020 07:47 PM            

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Fun thread indeed Luna 😊
Here's something for you to have fun with 🤗
http://imgur.com/SCFCRxz http://imgur.com/DEzmty5

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posted March 08, 2020 09:37 AM            

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I was searching for this thread,this is mine,im on the inside,thanks http://imgur.com/gallery/QuPQcrx

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posted March 10, 2020 03:51 AM            

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Hi,
please take a look, this is very important to me:

https://imgur.com/gallery/fSo2Kmi

We are separated for more than 20 year but feelings for him are still alive. I would really like to know if this is happening to him to or are just illusions in my head. Thank you!

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posted March 12, 2020 11:38 PM            

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Oh thanks for reviving this thread guys!
I’ve been busy with life but will get to rest of these eventually. Thanks everyone for sharing your charts/stories 😊

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posted March 19, 2020 09:02 AM            

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Here's the synastry chart and composite between them and I. We have a strong connection which took me a while to admit that we did. I didn't care for them before but I do now, if not for the fact they never stopped chasing. I'm the blue, the libra, in the synastry:

Synastry

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