posted January 13, 2019 11:43 AM            

Originally posted by ScoSag:

"The synastry looks soooo easy (or should I say enabling), yes. There's the Moon Uranus conjunction for the continued spark of interest and instant relating. Venus Sat opposition might make Venus feel lonely after some time, Neptune square Mercury might cause misunderstanding and foggy communication. And those are the only red lines I see…"

My natal 10H Venus sextile Saturn, and 9H Mercury oppose 3H Neptune.

"Both of you have Moon-Uranus in natal so you mirror each other…nice! Both with airy DC, her ruler of DC on your ASC is great, Suns in trine, Sun conjunct Jupiter, great…looks really good.
Don’t know about the Uranus opposition there…different values due to age difference I guess but maybe that serves to refresh your individual perspectives.
No Plutonic interaction makes for an obsession free interaction which is good if there’s no predilection to that in natal. Not much action from Saturn to personal planets… just that wide opposition to Venus and trine to Mercury…so don’t know about the staying power here."

Staying power is important for me.

"My doubt comes from a more philosophical perspective. Honestly, I see people go for more difficult interactions in synastry …as if they need a level of challenge to maintain interest or just to mirror back to them their natal issues. Such an easy relating might lead to boredom?"

I prefer Ease and Flow within my primary relationship. There will likely be enough challenges with others outside our pair bond.

"On the other hand your Venus doesn’t get much action in the synastry…but maybe you are searching for more of the Moon archetype in a partner…"

Actually I'm more attracted to Venus. Note her Leo Venus conjunct my ASC and chart ruler Mars. My first wife has Taurus ASC.

"Another thought is about what each of you expects from a relationship based on your life experience. I don’t know your personal history but after being in several relationships and going thru some difficult experiences one theoretically learns to expect less for others to fulfill us and learn more to fulfill ourselves…which frees the potential other from unrealistic expectations. Let’s just say we look for company while we fulfill ourselves rather than for the company that fulfills us (as a shift from outer to inner)."

I'm twice divorced with 4 other long term romantic relationships. My goal has become stable cohesive mutual empowerment, fulfillment and success as a couple unit.

"She is younger so she still might be at that stage where there are a lot of idealizations about what relationships are and what part the other person is playing or should play in our lives. I don’t think you can see these things from the charts though…or maybe progressed charts might give hints but you never know if one meets the challenges on the inside or just reacts to the outside projection of them."

Unknown for her. I'm very sovereign minded and inner directed. My expectations include personal sincerity, loyalty, honor. Taurus and Leo?

"The composite…no! Sun-Moon conjunction yes but square to Pluto-Uranus…no…"

Ouch! Somehow I overlooked this: not resonant with my long term intent. Still I would love to meet her.

posted January 26, 2019 01:32 AM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Comdoc, have you meet this person?

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