posted January 13, 2019 12:20 PM            

It seems that the person who has their Sun in your 10th or conjunct your MC are like the biggest role models in your life. They have qualities that you only wished you had yourself or are working towards getting. They inspire you to be like them since they embody the ideal image you want to present to the world.

I have noticed even when there are stressful aspects from one's own planets to the person's Sun, there is still that deep admiration for them. It manifests differently, like envy or competition, but it's still there.

I have my Sun sitting my boyfriend's sister's 10th house. My Sun is also conjunct my own sister's MC (although it is in the 9th house). They admire me very well and look up to me, especially my own sister since our Sun-MC are conjunct by 1 degree. They are both younger than me, which probably helps a lot too.

With my own chart, I admire 1st decan Aries suns very much. They have strong willpower and are very courageous. A lot of them could care less what anyone says about them. This is one difference between Aries and Leo since Leo suns still thrive on the love and admiration from everyone else. I always said that if I couldn't be a Leo, I would be an Aries. I also admire Pisces suns. They have their Sun conjunct my MC or in my 10th house unless it's in a very early degree. Even though I don't like Neptunian influence, I still have some admiration for them. They create things with their soul and are very compassionate. They also seem very ethereal to me.

I knew this girl from my school who I thought to be absolutely beautiful. She looked like a goddess to me and I deep down wished I looked like her. She had Sun conjunct Venus in Pisces. Right on my MC. One of my boyfriend's exes has her Aries sun in my 10th and Mercury/Venus in Pisces conjunct my MC (in the 9th). I admired her confidence and I thought she was the only one of his exes that were on the same level as me. Her Mercury/Venus is opposite my own. I thought she was delusional about love and also kinda slow with her thought processes. However, I always thought to myself, "How does she think she's beautiful without looking at herself first?", or "How does she just love without rules?". I did not think she was beautiful because of her facial features. I thought she was way over her head, but that part of her that was able to let go was one thing I also admire about Pisces placements.

In romantic placements, the house person seems to idealize the Sun person. They put the Sun person on a pedestal because they think the Sun person is perfect for representing their ideal image. When the Sun person shows even just the slightest imperfection, they go into panic mode.

I have seen this manifest in my own relationships. A guy I used to see had his Aries stellium in my 10th, with his Mars in Aries exactly opposite my Mars in Libra. That added to the sexual attraction. I thought he was the best thing that ever happened to me and that I was very lucky he chose me. He was perfect and I wanted to show him off to everyone. I would do everything for him and would be very upset with myself if I didn't live up to his expectations. I failed to see that he was a narcissist.

posted January 13, 2019 12:45 PM            

i never meet cancers so i dont know anyone with their sun on my midheaven and can't relay how that is for me

posted January 14, 2019 05:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
my sun is conjunct my mother's midheaven by 1 degree, i doubt it's like that

i never meet cancers so i dont know anyone with their sun on my midheaven and can't relay how that is for me

i dont usually admire people though, i can appreciate qualities they have but i don't feel that sense of what i imagine admiration is

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