posted March 31, 2014 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
other aspects may help this but - in general - this is a tough aspect for any attraction on the part of venus. venus doesn't like the look of the ASC person at all; there is something about the ASC person that is highly unattractive to them - whether is clothes, height, weight, etc. whatever they dislike the ASC person will have in some form and it'll be glaring and hard to get past. although venus may be drawn to the person for other reasons; you'd have to check synastry for that. you would have to have a lot of sexual/attraction factors in synastry or through house overlays to combat this aspect. the ASC won't always like the venus in the square, but the venus won't be attracted by the looks of the ASC, there is just "something" they could never easily like.

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Oh wow I mean he always stares at me but I doubt its because he finds me "unattractive" but who knows that may be that's why haha...? Our synastry isn't that great either to be honest so maybe I should just forget him haha.

posted January 20, 2019 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
other aspects may help this but - in general - this is a tough aspect for any attraction on the part of venus. venus doesn't like the look of the ASC person at all; there is something about the ASC person that is highly unattractive to them - whether is clothes, height, weight, etc. whatever they dislike the ASC person will have in some form and it'll be glaring and hard to get past. although venus may be drawn to the person for other reasons; you'd have to check synastry for that. you would have to have a lot of sexual/attraction factors in synastry or through house overlays to combat this aspect. the ASC won't always like the venus in the square, but the venus won't be attracted by the looks of the ASC, there is just "something" they could never easily like, and it's (usually) the thing their venus is best known for. for instance, a virgo square to a Gemini, the virgo wouldn't like the messy appearance of the Gemini (given virgo venus taste for tidiness). with pisces square Gemini the pisces wouldn't see the empathy and softness in the Gemini.

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posted January 20, 2019 06:11 PM            

It was exactly like that for me.
I've been the Venus person. I liked him a lot both superficially (his appearance, face and body) and as a person (personality, mind) however his style was bothering me so much, I couldn't stand it. Of course I never told him about it since we were dating for just a month or so.
All my planets are in trine or conjuction with his ASC except of 2 (one being my Venus) So even though almost every planet positively aspected his ASC still wasn't enough to make up for that Venus square ASC aspect.

posted January 21, 2019 12:04 AM            

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posted January 21, 2019 03:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
[b]starmoon

It was exactly like that for me.
I've been the Venus person. I liked him a lot both superficially (his appearance, face and body) and as a person (personality, mind) however his style was bothering me so much, I couldn't stand it. Of course I never told him about it since we were dating for just a month or so.
All my planets are in trine or conjuction with his ASC except of 2 (one being my Venus) So even though almost every planet positively aspected his ASC still wasn't enough to make up for that Venus square ASC aspect.

What's your opinion about the opposition?
Would it be similar to the square? [/B]

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posted January 22, 2019 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by kani:

What do you mean with "style"?
Do you mean his clothes?

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Yes.
It's superficial, I don't choose men based on smth like that by any means. Actually I don't remember ever liking someone's clothing style (I'm talking about the ones I've fallen for), but I never really cared.

It was the first time that it bothered me so much, it was kind of in the back of my head turning me off.

I dress up simple myself but I guess I'm more on the classy side. People tend to think my clothes are more on the mid-expensive side but I buy cheap ones because I can't afford anything else.
He would dress up simple too, his clothes weren't looking old/dirty/extreme or smth like that. I'm wondering myself what made me feel so repelled.

I got a comment from a friend telling me that he is attractive and all but something style wise makes her feel like I'm too good for him. She told me actually that she would be ashamed to be seen by him.
Now keep in my mind that we have the same Venus sign and aspects with my friend (we're born almost 3 days apart same year so our Mion is different and houses of course) and she isn't that superficial herself. It is the first time she told me smth like that.

I discussed it with her but we couldn't really find what it was that made him look that bad when it comes to his clothing style.

posted January 22, 2019 08:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Yes.
It's superficial, I don't choose men based on smth like that by any means. Actually I don't remember ever liking someone's clothing style (I'm talking about the ones I've fallen for), but I never really cared.

It was the first time that it bothered me so much, it was kind of in the back of my head turning me off.

I dress up simple myself but I guess I'm more on the classy side. People tend to think my clothes are more on the mid-expensive side but I buy cheap ones because I can't afford anything else.
He would dress up simple too, his clothes weren't looking old/dirty/extreme or smth like that. I'm wondering myself what made me feel so repelled.

I got a comment from a friend telling me that he is attractive and all but something style wise makes her feel like I'm too good for him. She told me actually that she would be ashamed to be seen by him.
Now keep in my mind that we have the same Venus sign and aspects with my friend (we're born almost 3 days apart same year so our Mion is different and houses of course) and she isn't that superficial herself. It is the first time she told me smth like that.

I discussed it with her but we couldn't really find what it was that made him look that bad when it comes to his clothing style.

Very weird.

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Sounds very interesting.
Are there other friends of yours who thought he dressed badly somehow?

My bf's ascendant is sextile my Venus and I don't particularly like his clothes and he doesn't like mine either that much. My ascendant and his Venus have no contact...

Was that the reason you broke up with him?

posted January 22, 2019 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
Sounds very interesting.
Are there other friends of yours who thought he dressed badly somehow?

My bf's ascendant is sextile my Venus and I don't particularly like his clothes and he doesn't like mine either that much. My ascendant and his Venus have no contact...

Was that the reason you broke up with him?

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No there weren't other friends that saw him just that one. I'm generally very secretive, I don't reveal someone I like unless it's been like a year or so that I've been in love with him and that is to some special people (just 2). So dating with him for just about 2 months while I was never in love with him there is no way I would mention it (my friend was with me when I met him).

We weren't in a relationship we were just dating and flirting. No I didn't stop dating him because of that otherwise I wouldn't had started dating him in the first place.

What about your Venus aspects?
Everyone i liked has Cap Venus conjucting my DSC but in quincunx with my Venus.
Maybe that is why it never bothered me.
However the one I've dated had not only his ASC but also his Venus in square with mine too. Plus since my Venus is conjuct my Mars whatever aspect I mentioned applies to my Mars too.

I must start seeking people that I like their style and search for their Venus and ASC

Does your Venus aspect your boyfriend's Venus?

posted January 22, 2019 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by kani:
[b] Sounds very interesting.
Are there other friends of yours who thought he dressed badly somehow?

My bf's ascendant is sextile my Venus and I don't particularly like his clothes and he doesn't like mine either that much. My ascendant and his Venus have no contact...

Was that the reason you broke up with him?

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No there weren't other friends that saw him just that one. I'm generally very secretive, I don't reveal someone I like unless it's been like a year or so that I've been in love with him and that is to some special people (just 2). So dating with him for just about 2 months while I was never in love with him there is no way I would mention it (my friend was with me when I met him).

We weren't in a relationship we were just dating and flirting. No I didn't stop dating him because of that otherwise I wouldn't had started dating him in the first place.

What about your Venus aspects?
Everyone i liked has Cap Venus conjucting my DSC but in quincunx with my Venus.
Maybe that is why it never bothered me.
However the one I've dated had not only his ASC but also his Venus in square with mine too. Plus since my Venus is conjuct my Mars whatever aspect I mentioned applies to my Mars too.

I must start seeking people that I like their style and search for their Venus and ASC

Does your Venus aspect your boyfriend's Venus?

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there is no aspect between my Venus and my bf's Venus. They are trine by sign though.
And my Venus is trine his Mars and sextile his ascendant, also sextile his sun and conjunct his moon, sextile Neptune and trine his PLuto. So plenty of good aspects

posted January 23, 2019 06:29 AM            

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Originally posted by kani:
there is no aspect between my Venus and my bf's Venus. They are trine by sign though.
And my Venus is trine his Mars and sextile his ascendant, also sextile his sun and conjunct his moon, sextile Neptune and trine his PLuto. So plenty of good aspects

The other guy, whose Venus squared my ascendant, was really attracted to me. But other than this aspect we had a bunch of very sexual aspects so I guess the whole cocktail of aspects created the strong effect on him (and me)

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Yesterday I tried to find celebrities' oufits in order to find someone that I find attractive style wise for the majority of his outfits but it failed since I liked only a few of their outfits. Maybe I'll search more.

It is one guy I liked with Capricorn Venus (as always) and late Sag Mars but I dom't know his ASC.

I had pretty good nice synastry with that guy other than the stressful asoects I mentioned. Actually I found him very attractive in total except of his clothing style.

Since your planets make only positive aspects to your boy's ASC is weird that you don't at least find his clothes ok. What should we look at to decide?
Maybe it has to do with their progressed Venus and ASC? Maybe it's a combo of other planets even though our ASC (appearence) and Venus (tastes) should be enough for deciding someone's clothing style. For sure the natal aspects they have are playing a huge role now that I'm thinking about it.

posted January 09, 2023 10:11 AM            

the tension started from the first moment, as if it’s always been there waiting to awaken. we didn’t even feel embarassed by it, we openly stared and flirted with one another before we even knew each other’s names.

posted January 09, 2023 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by plutomercjup20:
Alright I've been looking around everywhere to try to find a specific answer but I cant seem to find many! I have my crush's Venus (Pisces) squaring my ascendant(Gemini) (0'24)and I am very curious how this aspect is and means. Apparently the ascendant person is very attracted to the Venus person (which is true in my case) but how would Venus person feel towards the ascendant person? I know that others aspects matters but I just really want to know everything about this specific aspect. Thanks in advance.

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