posted September 27, 2013 12:28 AM            

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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
LovelyAries, was the relationship with guy number 1 more meaningful that guy #2? sun/pluto synastry is really no joke. At least ime...I've had this aspect before in synastry, and it was very intense, heavy. I thought he'd be "the one" for me...i don't find sun/Pluto to be entirely sexual, but more like this incredible fascination with each other. And a compulsive need to dig deeep, and know everything about the other. Ime, it was life changing for me and the other person... Its Like we came together to change something, or realize something's about each other, that we hadn't known before. Sun/Pluto really feels karmic to me. But I find that it doesn't exactly mean the two people are meant to STAY together. more like that they are 'destined' to meet and experience a meaningful change..
I think more aspects are needed that would make them stay together..

Lol, Your synastry with the second guy looks VERY sexual. I bet you two still have each others handprints on each others bodies

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I actually didn't have sex with EITHER guy for the reasons you mentioned above!! Sex *clouds* things and I want to be clear on who you are before getting very attached to you. I was very AWARE that both guys would have been sexually "addicting" for me, and vice versa. I ended both courtships somewhat quickly...this did not go on for a year or anything like that.

You are dead on about Guy #1. We had an intense attraction to each other on a *DEEPER* level. I wasn't in love with him yet but I was close! We fed off of each others SPIRITS as a whole, it was wild! That's why it was somewhat hard to get over him!!! I have a very strong WILL when it comes to dating -- I can cut you OFF at the drop of a hat if I need to, no matter how much I like you. I don't waste my time on you if I sense that you aren't totally "legit".

Guy #2 was *extremely* charming. One of the smoothest men that I've ever encountered! But I spotted his B-S games right away -- player to the fullest! His ego was crushed by the time I was done with him LOL. But I'll tell ya...he was SEXXXY. *We* would have had some f*cking amazing love-making FOR SURRRE!! I don't doubt that for one minute! He gave me chills with just (1) kiss of my lips and caress of my back -- I've never wanted to devour a man on a *1st date* like that ever.

posted September 27, 2013 12:45 AM            

"No matter what, this relationship has a powerful impact on both of your lives. You find your partner utterly fascinating, intriguing, and even mesmerizing. You are drawn to the Pluto person in a way that can be hard to verbalize. After meeting him or her, you feel like a fish out of water if that person is not around! The fascination is mutual, in fact, although your partner tends to have the "upper hand", so to speak, when it comes to the ultimate fate of the relationship. Why? Because you feel intensely expressive and unique—special, if you will—as a direct result of the Pluto person's attention, and he or she may feel the need to control that expression as the relationship passes the initial stages (which is likely to have been characterized by intense mutual attraction). Your partner can sometimes feel threatened by your displays of independence, ego, pride, and autonomy. He or she has an extraordinary window into your soul, and can easily see both your strengths and vulnerabilities. What your partner does with this privileged perception is the question. He or she can certainly help you grow, but there can be a temptation to subtly undermine your confidence if your partner would rather keep you dependent.

posted September 27, 2013 11:37 AM            

He had mars in scorpio, me mars in cancer

posted January 26, 2019 08:12 AM            

I find Mars-Mars quite nice. Intimacy tends to be fun. So i think it a lovely aspect to have.

Another thing with Mars-Mars contacts is tht you two may work well together in and outside the bedroom.

posted January 26, 2019 08:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I must be the strange one here.

I find Mars-Mars quite nice. Intimacy tends to be fun. So i think it a lovely aspect to have.

Another thing with Mars-Mars contacts is tht you two may work well together in and outside the bedroom.

For those who have Sun in incompatible signs, trine
Mars contacts makes it easier to understand where the other is coming from.

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I agree about even outside the bedroom. For example I think this would be a nice aspect for exercising together.

posted January 26, 2019 09:12 AM            

Husband: Cap Mars (I’ve got a Cap Moon)
Me: Virgo Mars conj Asc (conjunct his Virgo Pluto, Dsc)

We are sexually VERY compatible but we are also VERY compatible in terms of arguments..

posted January 26, 2019 09:31 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I agree about even outside the bedroom. For example I think this would be a nice aspect for exercising together.

What would the parallel between Mars indicate? I know it’s similar to the conjunction. But I wonder how it would work between two Mars signs that are in different elements.

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I think it the same as a conjunction tbh. The fact that they are in differing elements could have one intrigued by how the other goes about doing things?

Mars is spirit and energy. Sometimes people get on your nerves just by them entering a room. And you just want to hide or avoid them etc.

So perhaps with the parrallel aspect, that is not the case. This even with the elements being classically "incompatible" etc. You like each other and don't agitate each other etc.

posted January 26, 2019 09:37 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Not sure I�ve responded to this before (too lazy to go through all pages..)

Husband: Cap Mars (I�ve got a Cap Moon)
Me: Virgo Mars conj Asc (conjunct his Virgo Pluto, Dsc)

We are sexually VERY compatible but we are also VERY compatible in terms of arguments..

It�s the best sexual experience of my life (I�m 42 and have had quite a few partners..) but the electricity is also grating a lot of the times.

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Mars is a double edged sword lol. The more you get on, the louder the arguments when you are off.

I never fail to get on with Libra Mars. But the disagreements are just as feisty as we get on. So yeah.

I always see arguments as constructive when people say what they really mean(from the heart). It could be my Mars conj the Dsc speaking here.

But i think healthy relationships means that you two WILL spar now and then. It keeps the sexual tension on.

posted January 26, 2019 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I think it the same as a conjunction tbh. The fact that they are in differing elements could have one intrigued by how the other goes about doing things?

Mars is spirit and energy. Sometimes people get on your nerves just by them entering a room. And you just want to hide or avoid them etc.

So perhaps with the parrallel aspect, that is not the case. This even with the elements being classically "incompatible" etc. You like each other and don't agitate each other etc.

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posted January 30, 2019 06:34 AM            

I had this with a workmate, and the feeling was mutual. Unfortunately he was married, and part of senior management, who were all related. I had to turn him down, and it took an awful lot of eating humble pie to convince him that I did like him, and wanted to be his friend (which, being an Aquarius, he accepted - we don't see each other very often, but he was very generous with the hugs and kisses last time).

posted February 09, 2019 11:45 AM            

I find Mars in Aries to be the hottest partner I've had in bed. The push and pull between the opposition creates explosive chemistry. He would come on to me and I would reciprocate back by playing coy. It made him want me even more.

Mars in Cancer is a bit too unassertive for my taste and also too indirect. The guy I love has this, although it's only square by sign. His is at a very early degree and my Mars in Libra is much later. We've had a few arguments about it but I learned to live with it.

I haven't been paired with Mars in Capricorn. Maybe it would be hot too because it will trine my Venus, but I wouldn't know for sure.

posted February 09, 2019 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I had sex with someone who had Mars in Aquarius once and although it was exciting, it really wasn't that hot. There was little physical chemistry. We just had the same sexual tastes.

I find Mars in Aries to be the hottest partner I've had in bed. The push and pull between the opposition creates explosive chemistry. He would come on to me and I would reciprocate back by playing coy. It made him want me even more.

Mars in Cancer is a bit too unassertive for my taste and also too indirect. The guy I love has this, although it's only square by sign. His is at a very early degree and my Mars in Libra is much later. We've had a few arguments about it but I learned to live with it.

I haven't been paired with Mars in Capricorn. Maybe it would be hot too because it will trine my Venus, but I wouldn't know for sure.

I haven't tried Mars in Gemini either.

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