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MMarie
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posted March 03, 2019 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MMarie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please share what you think and if you had any expierences with these aspects.

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posted March 03, 2019 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to know too.

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posted March 03, 2019 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bismarck     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Composite doesn't "cause" anything. Here's a good guide on attraction using synastry: https://www.leeloosesotericorner.com/blog/category/sex

"General rules:

- More than one of the sexual aspects and at least a DW (double whammy), simple or combined.
- Mutuality

Number one aspect: Venus/Mars in DW or in combination with another erotic aspect (combined DW). *for example, Venus/Mars, Mars/Moon

Sexual aspects:

1. All Mars, in order, to: Venus, Moon, Pluto, Jupiter, Neptune, Saturn, Uranus, Sun, Mercury; from both sides, both Marses aspected like this.

2. Mars to an angle, especially ASC

3. Pluto aspects

More than two-three of these; the DWs/combinations should contain hard + soft, and soft aspects, at least a trine, a sextile, should be there, for longevity; especially the trine, the most longeval aspect; for example, a Venus/Mars, Venus/Pluto, Mars/Pluto trine does a great deal with this. But balance between hard and soft in the sexual part of the synastry is the most important thing: too much soft leads to boredom followed by separation, too much hard to intensity followed by separation.

4. 8th rulers in aspect or combinations with 8th/5th. 8th/5th overlays.

5. Also, 2nd house rulers or 2nd house overlays

6. Saturn and/or Pluto in some sort of connection to sexuality in synastry/composite

7. Only in addition to the planets, significant EROS (to personal planets and angles), and/or mutual aspects with personal planets/angels and erotic asteroids: Lilith, Lust, Amor, Aphrodite, etc."

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posted March 03, 2019 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MMarie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Bismarck:
Composite doesn't "cause" anything. Here's a good guide on attraction using synastry: https://www.leeloosesotericorner.com/blog/category/sex

"General rules:

- More than one of the sexual aspects and at least a DW (double whammy), simple or combined.
- Mutuality

Number one aspect: Venus/Mars in DW or in combination with another erotic aspect (combined DW). *for example, Venus/Mars, Mars/Moon

Sexual aspects:

1. All Mars, in order, to: Venus, Moon, Pluto, Jupiter, Neptune, Saturn, Uranus, Sun, Mercury; from both sides, both Marses aspected like this.

2. Mars to an angle, especially ASC

3. Pluto aspects

More than two-three of these; the DWs/combinations should contain hard + soft, and soft aspects, at least a trine, a sextile, should be there, for longevity; especially the trine, the most longeval aspect; for example, a Venus/Mars, Venus/Pluto, Mars/Pluto trine does a great deal with this. But balance between hard and soft in the sexual part of the synastry is the most important thing: too much soft leads to boredom followed by separation, too much hard to intensity followed by separation.

4. 8th rulers in aspect or combinations with 8th/5th. 8th/5th overlays.

5. Also, 2nd house rulers or 2nd house overlays

6. Saturn and/or Pluto in some sort of connection to sexuality in synastry/composite

7. Only in addition to the planets, significant EROS (to personal planets and angles), and/or mutual aspects with personal planets/angels and erotic asteroids: Lilith, Lust, Amor, Aphrodite, etc."


Thank you for all of this! A little confused why composite would not cause anything? For instance Venus conjunct Pluto and Sun in composite would not cause passion?

And if there is a moon/ mars or Venus/ mars aspect in synastry but it is one way, I guess it would not be felt mutually? Or mutually the same?

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posted March 03, 2019 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bismarck     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MMarie:
Thank you for all of this! A little confused why composite would not cause anything? For instance Venus conjunct Pluto and Sun in composite would not cause passion?

And if there is a moon/ mars or Venus/ mars aspect in synastry but it is one way, I guess it would not be felt mutually? Or mutually the same?


Synastry shows how we interact, what buttons get pushed when we're together. Composites are different: http://theinnerwheel.com/2012/04/18/composite-charts-etched-in-stone-or-sand/

All aspects are mutually felt, but in different ways for each person.

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posted March 03, 2019 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about Mars Inconjunct Moon, Pluto square Moon, Pluto opposition Sun, Mars trine Pluto.
Venus conjunct Mars (the orb is 9 degrees though).

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posted March 03, 2019 01:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bismarck     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What about Mars Inconjunct Moon, Pluto square Moon, Pluto opposition Sun, Mars trine Pluto.
Venus conjunct Mars (the orb is 9 degrees though).

No, yes, yes, yes, and not really, but you might feel it faintly. Although, keep in mind, hard aspects to pluto can also be repulsive.

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posted March 03, 2019 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Planets in the 5th and 8th house as well.

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posted March 03, 2019 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MMarie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do sun sextile Pluto DW count? I’m not sure if sextile count with Pluto at all?

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posted March 04, 2019 01:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MMarie:
I’m not sure if sextile count with Pluto at all?

Why not? It's a nice energy.

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posted March 04, 2019 01:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about Pluto sextile/trine the IC/MC?

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posted March 04, 2019 02:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bismarck     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
What about Pluto sextile/trine the IC/MC?

Yes and no. Sextiles aren't intense aspects, but they will cause attraction.

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posted March 04, 2019 02:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus conjunct Pluto (very strong sexual feelings, but we also had the following
Venus opposite Mars
Mars opposite Sun
(my) h22 Lilith conjunct his Eros/Pluto
(my) Pluto conjunct his Lilith
Lust square Mars (my Lust)
Venus square Mars (his Lust)
his Priapus opposite my Jupiter

And the list goes on.
With others that were really attractive there was
mars in 5th
mars in 8th
moon in 8th
sun in 5th
his Lilith conjunct my Venus (he found me reaaallly sexy he said).
His Mars conjunct my South Node

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posted March 04, 2019 03:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Bismarck:
Yes and no. Sextiles aren't intense aspects, but they will cause attraction.

What about an out of sign square to the angles? Would the effects be lost if out of sign? (28 Leo/Aqua to 3 Sag)

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posted March 04, 2019 03:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bismarck     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
What about an out of sign square to the angles? Would the effects be lost if out of sign? (28 Leo/Aqua to 3 Sag)

It would diminish it, yah.

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posted March 05, 2019 08:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is confusing because people say the composite chart is more important than the synastry chart.

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posted March 05, 2019 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bismarck     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
This is confusing because people say the composite chart is more important than the synastry chart.

This thread isn't about what's more "important." This thread is about what causes passion in a relationship.

Learn more about the composite here: http://theinnerwheel.com/2012/04/18/composite-charts-etched-in-stone-or-sand/

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