posted March 17, 2019 06:50 AM            

To answer the question:

We feel a deep connection. Our past challenges and wounds are almost identical. Our point of view on life seems very similar. Our ideals also are the same. For this reason we fancy ourselves deeply in love.

From the onset we were both physically and intellectually attracted toward one another. Both of us very shy we became friends. He was really flirtacious. I called him out and he said he was just complimenting me.

He warned me about the Leo. I broke things off with him and felt bad a while. Mr. Sag kept pursuing.

It was strange. Because I had told him not to pursue me and called him a flirt he feigned innocence. But suggested a relationship. I told him I didnt want to try another LDR. He said no pressure. That it wasn't impossible. We could try it. So subtle a suggestion. I said yes.

Ever since each moment with him feels like we'd known each other previously. I finish his sentences though we have a language barrier. Though hes busy hes always present texting me. Hes protective. Hes jealous when others spend time with me. He very quickly announced his love and wants-almost demands I put forth 100% of my love

He sensed due to my past hurt I was withholding my passion and intensity and being cautious. So he encourages me often to pursue my passions and give him all my love and enthusiasm.

We've only had one real fight or argument. I felt insecure that he might be unfaithful. I kept talking about it. So one day he became upset as though I were directly accusing him with no proof a d how its illogical. I indicated I was not accusing him just sharing my mind and feelings as hed asked since I am.so private. Agywr this fight I told him I wont share because he cant handle my feelings. He said he doesnt like to share his either. We were very loving and attentive toward each h other after the arguement for a few days because we were both hurt deeply. That was a big issue between the two of us but we've since overcome it. Despite how illogical my insecurities were he took steps without me asking to ensure I have no reason to worry. That was really touching for me. That's why I asked if it's a soul mate match.

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posted March 17, 2019 04:09 PM            

I would be wary of the cheating but only because Lilith/Juno conjunction is not usually equipped to handle a solid, steady relationship of one/one. The Long Distance might be making it easier right now, but if it were a living together situation I would not want to see how that goes. ( I speak from experience as I have this conjunction as well. )

But from what you describe of him and how he acts he seems very manipulative. I am never okay with hearing about possessiveness/jealousy etc or wanting 100% of someone's time (which would be hypocritical because I can almost guarantee they would hate that in a in-person relationship).

posted March 17, 2019 09:03 PM            

Perhaps I didnt explain well and I feel terrible writing novels but I think the background might help with your interpretations not sure.

I wouldn't say hes controlling or possessive. Example if I say I'm going on a business trip he asked me where and when I might return then said or is that too much for a boyfriend to ask? If i think so dont reply and he will just be concerned and miss me. I told him i dont mind if he asks where I'm going or when i might return because I expect to be able to ask him the same and like that he cares what I am up to but would still respect my space if I asked. I hope that clarifies it. As far as the all my love we always say I love you...I love you more. Once I tried to top him and said I love you most (out of the two of us) he thought I meant most out of everyone I know. In the beginning if I saw a cheater in a movie I'd get a little moody and be less flirty with him and he could tell I was pulling back so he asked me to give him all my love.

Then when my sister said I shouldn't be so flirty with him or say I love you until we've developed a longer relationship he said he wants all my love and passion. She got upset when we met I ran and jumped into his arms kissing him...she was like this isn't the notebook. But I love him and am enthusiastic. He reciprocates. He seems very optimistic when others down play pur relationship or say long term wont work. So he makes an effort to visit frequently. He o ly admits his jealousy when I say I'm visiting with others like friends or my nephew. He says hes jealous because he wishes he can be here too. I dont know if that's over much but I feel the same way when he has plans too. I just want to spend my time with him. I think he feels the same.

posted March 17, 2019 09:20 PM            

The double whammy of Lilith/Neptune conjunctions is a biiiiig red flag as well, to me. That is a REALLY hard time seeing clearly where the other person is going to be wholly independant. It can be a lot of projection on both sides, and a lot of idealization without seeing what's really there. (Also controlling feelings, or feeling 'controlled' on both sides by the most MINOR of things). The Uranus conjunction in there too makes me think it may not be very steady.

It seems more like you both may have a period of time with each other (like others have said, it does look Karmic), but I wouldn't see this as a long term thing. I definitely wouldn't see this as a live-together kind of relationship either, unless there was a LOT of growing and learning first. I would say be friends for years first lol, but that's just me.

The fact they are so very Sagittarian and with Uranus there makes me think they are having more fun in the fact that it IS long distance. They may get very restless should it ever get closer physically.

posted April 25, 2019 09:07 PM            

There is reciprocity between his Sun/Moon and your Sun/Moon regardless of the aspects between them. I would recommend questioning people that provide input on synastry without taking a look at the natal.

Your Sun/Moon in Pisces are in the 9th house. The 9th house's natural ruler is Jupiter and Sagittarius rules that house. This gives your Sun/Moon a Sag vibe which is a little intensified by your Moon quincunx your Jupiter. As an aside, I love the energy that a quincunx generates, it's a very creative and interesting energy. If there were more aspects between Jupiter, there would be an even stronger Sag flavor.

So where is the reciprocity? His Sun is in Sagittarius and his Moon is also in the 9th house.

I have a stellium (4 planets; water sign) in the 3rd house conjunct one another. Well, this creates a very Gemini feel to each planet and in my chart. Gemini is actually the second most dominant energy in my chart because of this...btw I only have planets in water/earth. Don't underestimate the power of the houses, they can alter the flavor of the planet (depending on the intensity as seen with aspects).