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Coolkewlio
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posted April 03, 2019 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolkewlio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted April 03, 2019 05:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not an expert here but here's my take... There's no stellium btw.

I see a focus on domestic/home life but also lots of arguments and power struggles there.

Sun/Mercury on IC - focus on domestic life and a lot of discussions on it. Mars in 4H also shows your combined energies in that area.

However, Pluto on the Asc square Mercury - discussions can easily turn into epic fights as you struggle to have dominion over the other. This will be very obvious as Pluto is on Asc.

Moon on MC means you're both emotional invested in your r/s goals/aspirations. Perhaps this is where you connect, but again the square to Pluto indicates intense power struggles in this area although it also shows deep intimacy.

Usually your MC issues affect IC issues and vice-versa, and it shows in your Composite. Moon on the MC is opposing Mercury/Venus, which makes you chatty with each other but also sensitive to their responses. The opposition to Venus shows a caring nature between you but also differing opinions on domestic matters.

Unfortunately you don't have Sun-Moon or Sun-Venus aspects which will help greatly.

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posted April 03, 2019 05:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolkewlio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Not an expert here but here's my take... There's no stellium btw.

I see a focus on domestic/home life but also lots of arguments and power struggles there.

Sun/Mercury on IC - focus on domestic life and a lot of discussions on it. Mars in 4H also shows your combined energies in that area.

However, Pluto on the Asc square Mercury - discussions can easily turn into epic fights as you struggle to have dominion over the other. This will be very obvious as Pluto is on Asc.

Moon on MC means you're both emotional invested in your r/s goals/aspirations. Perhaps this is where you connect, but again the square to Pluto indicates intense power struggles in this area although it also shows deep intimacy.

Usually your MC issues affect IC issues and vice-versa, and it shows in your Composite. Moon on the MC is opposing Mercury/Venus, which makes you chatty with each other but also sensitive to their responses. The opposition to Venus shows a caring nature between you but also differing opinions on domestic matters.

Unfortunately you don't have Sun-Moon or Sun-Venus aspects which will help greatly.


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posted April 03, 2019 06:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Coolkewlio:
Thank u for answering! Ya we are very chatty our conversations can go on for hours.Very deep intense connection we have. Ofcourse every relationship has some triggers or bad aspects. But we couldn't go beyond friendship level although we feel deeply for each other its been years. Is this something worth waiting for like it can turn to marriage? We know that we will be in touch for long time for lifetime deepest bond i have till now.

You said you can't go beyond friendship even though it's been years. There must be a reason?

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posted April 03, 2019 06:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolkewlio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
You said you can't go beyond friendship even though it's been years. There must be a reason?

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posted April 03, 2019 08:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've listed the challenges I see. If you want to know possibility of reconciliation, perhaps post a Horary chart in the other forum? I'm new to Horary but I believe there're people there who can help.

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posted April 03, 2019 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you post the synastry chart too? So we can see the chemistry between you?

The only thing I would point out in the composite chart is that I would consider the Sun to be a bit lonely. The conjunction to Mercury is a little wide in my opinion, so perhaps because the Sun is not very well aspected the relationship lacks direction? Although being conjunct the IC helps, though that's assuming the birth times are 100% correct?

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posted April 03, 2019 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolkewlio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted April 03, 2019 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolkewlio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I've listed the challenges I see. If you want to know possibility of reconciliation, perhaps post a Horary chart in the other forum? I'm new to Horary but I believe there're people there who can help.

Ya i think that will give clear answer what will be the outcome. Might post there

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posted April 03, 2019 11:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolkewlio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted April 04, 2019 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ I'm confused. You both were never more than friends but you're already considering him as a marriage partner... He cancelled his marriage and came to you but why did you reject him? I only consider it a 3rd party situation if he plans to marry the gal while having a secret affair with you. So you rejected him and he went back to the gal, then why are you hoping for a reconciliation again?

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posted April 04, 2019 02:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolkewlio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted April 04, 2019 04:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Coolkewlio:
I didn't feel it was right that he cancelled to marry her when almost all preparations were done for their marriage so i rejected him. Why did he even think of marrying her in the first place there must be something called destiny i feel.

Maybe he wanted to be sure before he makes that marriage commitment. But since you've rejected him then just be a friend from now on and hope for nothing more.

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This is their composite chart with the girl whom he gonna marry soon. What's there in their chart which pulled them towards each other to marry.Do they have better composite than our composite?

Sun conjunct Venus - for a love r/s this is one of the best aspects to have - and this connection is supported by trines to Jupiter which is on the MC. Mars adds passion but the squares can also cause heated arguments.

Also Sun square Pluto - this aspect is intensely binding. Usually when you see this in Composite, the people involved have a hard time breaking away from each other. But the t-square with Mars will cause a lot of tension.

Moon is nicely placed in 7H - sextile NN, conjunct Dsc and semisquare Venus. I'm only worried of the squares to Saturn/Uranus/Neptune/Chiron. They will place a lot of focus on emotional connection but results may not always be desirable.

Pluto sextile Saturn is helpful in overcoming r/s difficulties.

If you ask me what draws him to her, I would think a combination of Sun-Venus, Pluto, Mars and Jupiter.

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posted April 04, 2019 05:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolkewlio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted April 04, 2019 05:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Coolkewlio:
Do they have a spiritual connection too in their composite ? He and i have that spiritual bonding though and lots of telepathy idk why it's not showing in our composite

Explain your definition of spiritual bonding.

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posted April 04, 2019 05:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coolkewlio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Explain your definition of spiritual bonding.

It can't be explained are u doubting it? Composite can't really show everything accurately between two people or could be subjective to people's interpretations. Thank u all for ur answers and interpretations. Have a good day/night!

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posted April 04, 2019 06:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Coolkewlio:
It can't be explained are u doubting it? Composite can't really show everything accurately between two people or could be subjective to people's interpretations. Thank u all for ur answers and interpretations. Have a good day/night!

I'm not doubting, just that people often talk about emotional connection vs spiritual connection I wonder what's the difference.

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