posted April 07, 2019 11:45 AM            

So I'm both excited and really scared about this. Lol. I haven't been in a date since my last relationship. I was too scared to try again for so long.

A guy asked me out recently, and I want to know your thoughts about our chart. Just tell me your raw honest opinions. Even if you think it's negative. I really don't mind it.

I couldn't read our charts in an objective way, because the fear of trying again was going to make me see the bad side of things more than I should have.

A quick recap of our charts ; Him / Me :
Cancer Sun (+Psyche) 4th / Gemini Sun 8th
Gemini Moon 2nd / Cancer Moon (+Psyche) 9th
Leo Venus 5th / Gemini Venus 8th
NN Aries 10th / NN Libra 12th (So we have both of our NN/SN conjunct)
Aries Rising / Scorpio Rising

Here is our Composite :

Our Davison :

posted April 08, 2019 08:25 PM            

Are both TOB accurate? And who’s inside/outside and can you post the aspect grids/bottom portion of the synastry chart where it says the degrees of each planet, would help me out a lot

posted April 08, 2019 08:51 PM            

wow there is certainly a strong emotional/sexual chemistry between you.venus with the nose and square to eris might even too much chemistry as eris is extremely sexual and wanton but not much for really intimately getting to know so one.ith psyche also conjunct he node and the node on the descendant , this relationship is very romantic. with the node involved on the descendant there may be immediate feelings of soul mate . the south node on the ascendant can be very uniting as it shows your psychic/mental energies and in synch. but the south node brings a lot of desire with it and sometimes this can make differences get in the way of learning bout each other.

with the mercury/venus midpoint opposed to Uranus, the attraction besides being very romantic, it has a electric edge to it. this pattern shows you will have lot of fun and share thought you have thought about before. it is very high energy .

chiron with the vertex can add a transcendent feeling like you and he create a separate reality around you. but Chiron can be very argumentative and critical. but with all the initial attraction, I don't think this will come out now. it can add to your already strong psyche connection.

the only tension that stands out is that Jupiter is square to pluto. this usually shows one of the partners is too into themselves. usually this shows a ambitious soul that doesn't what to compromise for a relationship.
it looks very very hot and entertaining.

posted April 08, 2019 08:58 PM            

His moon is his 5th ruler, and it’s being heavily stimulated by your Gemini planets, plus a great/strong symbolism match with your sun being in cancer (5th cups is cancer) and the ruler is in Gemini (you have 4 planets in Gemini), plus mercury itself is sitting in his 5th house which again shows that he’s very attracted or Gemini/mercury energy. You strongly fit the bill!
Now for his DSC, it’s libra and the ruler is Venus in Leo in his 5th house.
BUT Pluto is there, you’re a Scorpio rising with an 8th house stelllum, so you very much fit this. But you’re lacking the Leo/5th house/sun energy of his Venus. And his Venus looks to be unaspected, this is a problem because Venus is his DSC ruler, and you’re not putting any planets in there to make up for it. And Venus is an important planet (doubly so for men) anyways but especially if it’s the DSC ruler. So this is a BIG red flag to me. It’s mainly his 5th and 8th house that is being activated and matches. So this tells me that he won’t want to commit to you, or see you as anything serious or long-term/marriage potential. 5th house is the gf-bf/fling/fun house, and 8th house is sex etc. So without the 7th house and Venus activation, he is probably interested in only a friends with benefits or fling type of situation......

Your Venus opp his Uranus is a bit worrying and showing this lack of stability or commitment as well

The composite confirms my suspicions to be that this won’t last or turn into anything of substance...
the heavy 6th house energy shows this connection/relationship will be very unbalanced and you won’t get what you want or need out of it, one person will be more invested or giving more than the other. Venus opposite Uranus again (unstable/hot and cold, erratic feelings towards each other) and opposite Neptune as well is showing illusion/disillusionment/disappointment and maybe even deception or projection.
Saturn inconjunct sun/mercury... not good.
Mars square moon and widely square sun.. again not great for a long term connection.

But looking at the Davison REALLY shows exactly what i figured would happen, lol the tight Venus/mars conjunction in the first.. sex, attraction, and more sex. This is a GREAT fling, sexual connection but I don’t see anything more happening tbh. Sun is opposite Uranus again in the Davison and Saturn is in the 7th.... no real relationship/commitment is likely to ensue, the synastry showed this already but it’s always fun to look just in case and see and sure enough the other charts always confirm it too.

posted April 09, 2019 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
First off, just wanna say props for putting yourself back out there again! And either way, there’s nothing to fear. Rejection, breakups etc. It come and it goes 👍 just take it as blessing or a lesson/learning experience regardless of what happens and if it’s meant to be, it will be, but I’m sure you’re looking to see if this could be your mr.right so I’m more than happy to give my opinion as well.

Are both TOB accurate? And who’s inside/outside and can you post the aspect grids/bottom portion of the synastry chart where it says the degrees of each planet, would help me out a lot

For now I’ll interpret the composite

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posted April 09, 2019 02:18 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi itsmeyaz

wow there is certainly a strong emotional/sexual chemistry between you.venus with the nose and square to eris might even too much chemistry as eris is extremely sexual and wanton but not much for really intimately getting to know so one.ith psyche also conjunct he node and the node on the descendant , this relationship is very romantic. with the node involved on the descendant there may be immediate feelings of soul mate . the south node on the ascendant can be very uniting as it shows your psychic/mental energies and in synch. but the south node brings a lot of desire with it and sometimes this can make differences get in the way of learning bout each other.

with the mercury/venus midpoint opposed to Uranus, the attraction besides being very romantic, it has a electric edge to it. this pattern shows you will have lot of fun and share thought you have thought about before. it is very high energy .

chiron with the vertex can add a transcendent feeling like you and he create a separate reality around you. but Chiron can be very argumentative and critical. but with all the initial attraction, I don't think this will come out now. it can add to your already strong psyche connection.

the only tension that stands out is that Jupiter is square to pluto. this usually shows one of the partners is too into themselves. usually this shows a ambitious soul that doesn't what to compromise for a relationship.
it looks very very hot and entertaining.

todd

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Wow. I can't even tell you how accurate this feels. Before starting to date him, I had a whole conversation with myself that I need to be more out there and learn how to express myself to him, because when you're single for 2 years, you can't really help it but close up on yourself. And it also made me feel like relationships are not something worth compromising for... So I think you can already guess who that partner is.

posted April 09, 2019 03:14 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
First off, just wanna say props for putting yourself back out there again! And either way, there’s nothing to fear. Rejection, breakups etc. It come and it goes 👍 just take it as blessing or a lesson/learning experience regardless of what happens and if it’s meant to be, it will be, but I’m sure you’re looking to see if this could be your mr.right so I’m more than happy to give my opinion as well.

Are both TOB accurate? And who’s inside/outside and can you post the aspect grids/bottom portion of the synastry chart where it says the degrees of each planet, would help me out a lot

For now I’ll interpret the composite

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posted April 12, 2019 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi itsmeyaz

wow there is certainly a strong emotional/sexual chemistry between you.venus with the nose and square to eris might even too much chemistry as eris is extremely sexual and wanton but not much for really intimately getting to know so one.ith psyche also conjunct he node and the node on the descendant , this relationship is very romantic. with the node involved on the descendant there may be immediate feelings of soul mate . the south node on the ascendant can be very uniting as it shows your psychic/mental energies and in synch. but the south node brings a lot of desire with it and sometimes this can make differences get in the way of learning bout each other.

with the mercury/venus midpoint opposed to Uranus, the attraction besides being very romantic, it has a electric edge to it. this pattern shows you will have lot of fun and share thought you have thought about before. it is very high energy .

chiron with the vertex can add a transcendent feeling like you and he create a separate reality around you. but Chiron can be very argumentative and critical. but with all the initial attraction, I don't think this will come out now. it can add to your already strong psyche connection.

the only tension that stands out is that Jupiter is square to pluto. this usually shows one of the partners is too into themselves. usually this shows a ambitious soul that doesn't what to compromise for a relationship.
it looks very very hot and entertaining.

todd

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Hi again todd. I've been reading a little bit about 6th house placements in a composite as it's been mentioned on this thread as well. I would love it if you can share with me your input about it. Is it too much of a "business partnership" or too routine-like to be a romantic relationship? Keeping in mind that me and him didn't meet in a work place or anything like that. We work in 2 completely different fields.