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EmGem
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posted April 20, 2019 11:36 PM
  
Tell me what you think!
This is the synastry and composite of a new guy I’ve only just recently become interested in and his ex.
She’s in the same group of friends as his, they broke up in November after a tumultuous relationship of 3 years. Known each other for 11 years. And I feel like she is still hanging around on some level.
Tell me what you see and whether this has the makings of a lasting relationship if they were to get back together.
She always complained of him being in and out and she also went back to her ex who she was madly in love with, which broke the camel’s back. His t.o.b is correct (he’s inside)
Hers is not. The Chiron squares in that composite though 😟 Synastry
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Hikaru29
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posted April 21, 2019 07:39 AM
They must've had a very close, passionate bond with that Scorpio stellium but it's no surprise their r/s was also tumultuous: Scorpio + Moon/Chiron squaring the stellium + Saturn square Venus/Mars. She felt his detachment because his Uranus squares her Venus + he has 8H Uranus/Saturn which shows his hesitancy in emotional/sexual intimacy. But despite this he attracts intense partners. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted April 21, 2019 10:43 AM
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They must've had a very close, passionate bond with that Scorpio stellium but it's no surprise their r/s was also tumultuous: Scorpio + Moon/Chiron squaring the stellium + Saturn square Venus/Mars. She felt his detachment because his Uranus squares her Venus + he has 8H Uranus/Saturn which shows his hesitancy in emotional/sexual intimacy. But despite this he attracts intense partners.
VERY passionate yes. Composite Saturn doesn’t square Venus/mars ?!
But I think his Saturn squares her Venus. He definitely attracts intense partners. He attracted me lol. I currently have tPluto opposing my Venus too. I added their progressed composite! IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted April 21, 2019 11:45 AM
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VERY passionate yes. Composite Saturn doesn’t square Venus/mars ?!
But I think his Saturn squares her Venus.He definitely attracts intense partners. He attracted me lol. I currently have tPluto opposing my Venus too. I added their progressed composite!
Yes, I did mention their Saturn-Venus/Mars square in Composite. In Synastry, his Uranus square her Venus and also as you mentioned his Saturn also square her Venus. Both these contacts are why she felt that he was emotionally unavailable at times + his Uranus/Saturn in 8H natal. He naturally has this tendency to block deep emotions & sexual intimacy. Their progressed chart has the love stellium with Moon biquintile Neptune so I believe they still feel closely bonded in an intuitive way. Mars' aspects to Jupiter/Saturn/Pluto shows a strong drive together and the outer planets sextile/conjunct shows harmonious collaboration. However, Moon is squaring Mars & Pluto so their emotions are intense but volatile. Perhaps also a lot of insecure feelings. If they're just hi/bye friends now and not in close interaction or looking to patch back, some of these may not even play out. tPluto opposing your Venus now? Feeling obsessed? Lol IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted April 21, 2019 07:46 PM
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Yes, I did mention their Saturn-Venus/Mars square in Composite. In Synastry, his Uranus square her Venus and also as you mentioned his Saturn also square her Venus. Both these contacts are why she felt that he was emotionally unavailable at times + his Uranus/Saturn in 8H natal. He naturally has this tendency to block deep emotions & sexual intimacy.Their progressed chart has the love stellium with Moon biquintile Neptune so I believe they still feel closely bonded in an intuitive way. Mars' aspects to Jupiter/Saturn/Pluto shows a strong drive together and the outer planets sextile/conjunct shows harmonious collaboration. However, Moon is squaring Mars & Pluto so their emotions are intense but volatile. Perhaps also a lot of insecure feelings. If they're just hi/bye friends now and not in close interaction or looking to patch back, some of these may not even play out. tPluto opposing your Venus now? Feeling obsessed? Lol
Thanks Hikaru!
Well apparently they hung out the other week, kissed and then he ghosted her. She said she was done with hi after that. No more. She wants to focus on loving Jesus now. But we were all at the same dinner party the other night. He saw that she introduced himself to me and looked concerned. They said bye to each other when he left. Yeah I can tell there’s still something. But I’m wondering if it has ability to last being that it’s a chirotic composite ?! Also I noticed that tUranus is currently transiting through their composite stellium! This must’ve broken them up in Nov I’d say. Yes tPluto is about 2 degrees away from opposing my Venus! Too obsessed! 😭
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EmGem
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posted April 21, 2019 07:47 PM
Todd, are you around to also chime in?? 🙏 IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted April 21, 2019 07:53 PM
In comparison, here’s our progressed composite.That Venus is applying in conjunction to his natal sun, which will make our relationship central to his core identity.  IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted April 22, 2019 02:47 AM
It does sound like there's unfinished business between them but there's also a hesitancy from him to get back with her. Maybe he's running from all those emotions. I don't know about you, EmGem, but I never like to get caught in-between 2 lovers who are not over each other. The last you want is to be his backup plan.
From what I know, Chiron relationships are meant to hurt & heal, especially the hard aspects, because it digs into your wounds. Maybe they've come together to change each other deeply, just like you and him. Maybe he's meant to learn to let his guard down and experience deep intimacy with both of you.From what I see, that Moon in their composite doesn't look happy with mostly squares and it will be difficult in the long run because there's always emotional tension. Perhaps that's the reason of their break-up.
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EmGem
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posted April 22, 2019 02:09 PM
I know, I don’t like this love triangle situation at all. And maybe he’s pulled back until he’s sure so he dowant lead me on. We hung out after church yesterday and it was so nice to catch up with him. There’s something that draws us to one another on more than a friendship level. The chemistry is very apparent, but he’s so guarded. Outside church yesterday I could tell that we were both searching the crowd for one another. We locked eyes and smiled, even though we’d already spoken to each other earlier before service started. Like we just have this vibe between us.
He wasn’t guarded when we went out together the first few times. He was so open with me. Lingering hugs, twinkling eyes, deep conversation, very sparky, trails of messages with updates on his day. Soooo much laughter. Then this stuff happened with his ex. I agree that they seem to have unfinished business.
I waited with him yesterday at church until his friends picked him up. He would do the same for me. We are very supportive to one another. But I’m being very very careful and maybe a friendship at this stage is best. But there is definitely a reason we’ve met. Just trying to figure out what that is for me. My Chiron exactly conjuncts his ascendant. His Chiron conjuncts my sun. Chirotic urghhh. But deeply healing in some way.IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted April 22, 2019 02:15 PM
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From what I know, Chiron relationships are meant to hurt & heal, especially the hard aspects, because it digs into your wounds. Maybe they've come together to change each other deeply, just like you and him. Maybe he's meant to learn to let his guard down and experience deep intimacy with both of you.From what I see, that Moon in their composite doesn't look happy with mostly squares and it will be difficult in the long run because there's always emotional tension. Perhaps that's the reason of their break-up.
Yup! That moon would not be loving all those squares at all. Ouch. Our composite Venus actually conjuncts his natal sun/moon midpoint and SN. And our moon conjuncts his natal moon. Composite sun widely conjuncts my natal moon. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted April 23, 2019 05:05 AM
I just looked at your progressed Composite.Uranus on MC opposing Jupiter on IC is showing the r/s uncertainty. The desire to be closer cannot be achieved now, so it's good you're giving him space but keeping the connection. 👍 Uranus isn't making other harsh aspects so that's good. Venus in detriment in Scorpio hardly aspected seems like love will not blossom for awhile 😟 but the 9H placement shows your common love in the higher mind. I also still see a nice, emotional connection between you two - Moon nicely aspecting Mercury/Saturn/Neptune/Pluto/SN. How long have you known him btw? Have you looked at your First Meeting chart? IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted April 23, 2019 12:39 PM
First Meeting chart yes! What a great idea 🤗
So he officially first saw me in summer last year but we officially met on super bowl this year. So should I do the super bowl day? I don’t remember the exact time so it’ll be an estimate 🤔 IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted April 23, 2019 12:55 PM
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First Meeting chart yes! What a great idea 🤗
So he officially first saw me in summer last year but we officially met on super bowl this year. So should I do the super bowl day? I don’t remember the exact time so it’ll be an estimate 🤔
When he first saw you last summer it was from a distance, like you weren't introduced? IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted April 23, 2019 01:14 PM
No we weren’t introduced. He just noticed me and asked about me 🥰IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted April 23, 2019 01:47 PM
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No we weren’t introduced. He just noticed me and asked about me 🥰
Oh, then use the date you officially met on super bowl. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted April 23, 2019 02:52 PM
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Oh, then use the date you officially met on super bowl.
ok so here's the thing. a group of friends and i turned up to his place to for his super bowl party. we weren't officially introduced then when he opened the door for us. But then later before we were leaving to go to a bar all together he heard my accent and asked his friend in front of me "oh are we Australian?" - like he couldn't directly look at me because he was nervous or something.
Then he came to the bar later and that's when he sat next to me and we had our first conversation. So which moment should I put? lol IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted April 23, 2019 02:52 PM
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Oh, then use the date you officially met on super bowl.
ok so here's the thing. a group of friends and i turned up to his place to for his super bowl party. we weren't officially introduced then when he opened the door for us. But then later before we were leaving to go to a bar all together he heard my accent and asked his friend in front of me "oh are we Australian?" - like he couldn't directly look at me because he was nervous or something.
Then he came to the bar later and that's when he sat next to me and we had our first conversation. So which moment should I put? lol IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted April 24, 2019 12:42 AM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
ok so here's the thing. a group of friends and i turned up to his place to for his super bowl party. we weren't officially introduced then when he opened the door for us. But then later before we were leaving to go to a bar all together he heard my accent and asked his friend in front of me "oh are we Australian?" - like he couldn't directly look at me because he was nervous or something.
Then he came to the bar later and that's when he sat next to me and we had our first conversation.So which moment should I put? lol
So complicated, lol. 😅 For me, I used the time we said our first 'hello' to each other cos' that was the first real interaction. IP: Logged |
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