posted February 15, 2012 02:43 PM            

me and the fellow in question have natally:

his moon cj uranus
our moons opposed
my moon opp uranus
his sun cj my moon

all in rather close orb (his sun, my moon, and my uranus, within one deg).

in composite we have moon cj venus square uranus. natally and synastrically we do not. we do have venus trine venus.

so, we are both very uranian with strong uranus-moon energy and that axis is very active in synastry. MY take on this is that we are both very used to and even COMFORTABLE with that need for emotional freedom. that it manifests as a square in composite just indicates the issue carries over into our relationship, but the themes exist in our natals. with the exception of venus-uranus.

what can i say? i believe he is my twin soul. we are not together, but we did get back together a year and a half ago after not seeing eachother for 17 years and having had the most intense and crazy and life-altering relationship of both our lives. the weird thing is, as much as i almost always feel we truly belong together, i don't feel a need to see him or be with him 24/7 (which is sorta amazing for my taurus moon! even though i don't usually indulge it, the yearning is there), and even when i see him walking with other women down the street i don't feel jealous or worried at all, which surprises me.

yes our initial relationship was kind of eratic, as was our brief reuinion. but the feeling of renewal and excitement is so incredible.. i don't even know how to explain it. when we see eachother we tingle like crazy and there is an actual *physical* jolting that occurs. every moment is new. i think if you're a person who can deal with that then you can handle this aspect. i'm an aquarius, so it's fine with me. he has a LOT of midpoints in aqua including sun/moon so i hope to high heaven it suits him.

posted February 15, 2012 09:08 PM            

Now on to another question for those who have venus square uranus in synastry...

Does the relationship (with this aspect) always start in a very unusual way or under very unusual circumstances or situations?

posted March 24, 2012 09:42 PM            

Synastry and composite for both of us was Venus square Uranus.

It was an odd r/s.
He wanted like Capriaquarius said...he wanted everything.
The constant fights got to me. I realized I wanted out after he let me down. Idk why when he would tell me he was sorry and that it was hard I would try and understand it from his view and make excuses for him etc.
Eventually, I sat down and tallied all the things in the relationship, and yeah, I got the feeling he was using me and that in fact it was in the negative for me.

It's hard to step away from a relationship. Man, I do NOT want to do this again. Arranged marriage for me please.lol

posted March 24, 2012 09:50 PM            

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Originally posted by ProudestLeo:
I once read something (honestly can't remember where) about this Venus square Uranus aspect making the relationship start under very unusual circumstances, or making the relationship very unusual in itself.

Mi question is (to those who have had this aspect in synastry to a lover)...is all this true? Does it by rule have to start in a very unusual way? I would like to hear some experiences.

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posted March 24, 2012 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Mine was a long distance relationship. 1000+ miles hehe

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posted March 24, 2012 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
long distance relationships are painful :/

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Yeah esp when you want to cuddle or go for a walk.

But...but I loved the quality of the relationship, because it seemed so old fashioned. Guy meets girl. Girl and guy haven't seen each other and then they fall for each other. Even after he revealed himself to me; I held out for various reasons and he ....still cared for me and loved me? I thought that was odd but very endearing. That was the main reason I fell in love with him despite his being from a different religion, culture, career placement, education. Despite the fact that our families would be opposed. We found a lot of comfort in each other. We had similar problems at the same time. And the fact that he loved me without seeing me....made me love him a 100 times more.

posted April 21, 2013 07:53 PM            

They can be out of touch with each other for weeks, then they suddently hang out and out of nowhere either one or both are burning for the other. And the unusual part of it... She is getting married in a month with another man...

posted April 22, 2013 01:21 AM            

same with the moon, his uranus squares my moon but his saturn also trines my moon

i feel like having saturn in the mix with uranus would definately tame it more

posted April 23, 2013 08:32 AM            

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Originally posted by ProudestLeo:
Does anyone know of a relationship with this aspect that lasted a lifetime untill death?

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Gosh, you're still here after all this time?!
What happened?

posted April 23, 2013 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by LoVeLy:
I'm not 100 % sure but I have Venus in the 11th house he has Venus in Aquarius maybe this helps too

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posted April 23, 2013 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Gosh, you're still here after all this time?!
What happened?

And, no. I haven't seen a Venus/Uranus relationship last a lifetime..

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Yeah, well things are nowhere hehe

posted May 02, 2019 03:32 PM            

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posted June 21, 2019 04:52 AM            

I had a male's Uranus almost exact square my natal Venus. The relationship lasted 7 years. It was me who broke it off, he didn't want to break up. It wasn't particularly unstable, but was lacking in deep emotional connection.
I think how this plays out will depend on the natals. We were both Aquarius Suns and Mercuries, but I think our Capricorn Venuses gave us some stable energy to bring to a relationship.

In the end, I am virtually positive it was Pluto hitting my Venus/South Node that made me break it off. I felt we weren't going anywhere anymore, no more to learn.

So, to paint the picture: t.Pluto conjunct both our Venuses/my South Node, square his Uranus, square my Mars/Saturn/Pluto.

I was feeling the break-up for about a year before I broke it off. The closer Pluto got to my Venus/South Node, the less connected I felt to the relationship. Don't get me wrong, I tried to reconnect the whole time, but I just wasn't feeling it anymore (many reasons that I could no longer accept/ignore). By the time Pluto hit my Venus/South Node exact, I was ready.

Still, no regrets. I don't think he is as resolved as me, although he may be now 6 months later, but he wasn't at the time, and it was his Uranus squaring my Venus. So, again, depends on natal. I would probably have been devastated had my South Node not also been there. It gave the solid realisation that it was over and so there was no need to resist.