posted May 06, 2019 04:38 AM            

My Pluto Square his venus 1°
My Venus trine his Pluto 2°

But we also have other pluto aspects

My Sun Square His Pluto 2°
My Mars Opposition His Pluto 4°

From what i read on internet,every story/relationship that had pluto square venus on their synastry, always ended badly and the relationship was painful.

□ I want to know if you have beautiful long lasting relationship with this aspect? Everything i read is creepy. It kinda scare me ☹

□ From my experience, in the beginning Venus is the obsessed one, pluto is the possessive and jealous one. but when the relationship starts,pluto even become more obsessed than venus. Is it only at the beginning of the relationship or it stays like that (the possessive, jealousy, obsession) for the entire time of the relationship? I thought the jealousy only happened in the beginning of the relationship.

□ How do you feel as the venus person in relationship? Obsession? do you hate the pluto person for the pain? Do you think its only obsession but not love? Do you feel you really need to stop the relationship?

posted May 06, 2019 09:26 AM            

Her Venus squares his Pluto. He is very possesive of her and can be quite jeaolous when she spends time with other people.

They alsa have his Venus square her Neptune. I dont know how it is playing out in their relationship. They love eachother a lot.

posted May 07, 2019 02:02 AM            

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Originally posted by sis:
Yes. My friends They have been together for 36 years
And famous for being the ideal couple.

Her Venus squares his Pluto. He is very possesive of her and can be quite jeaolous when she spends time with other people.

They alsa have his Venus square her Neptune. I dont know how it is playing out in their relationship. They love eachother a lot.

So, nevermind synastry aspects. Love is a mystery and synastry can not determine if a relationship will work or not.

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posted May 07, 2019 10:23 AM            

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Love is a mystery and synastry can not determine if a relationship will work or not.

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I agree with this, personally I seem to prefer a bit of hard aspects in synastry, so **** $ that are not supposed to work can work for me, and different people might have a preference for different sort of relations in their heads, so might prefer different sort of synastry aspects as well, calling a particular aspect as favourable or unfavourable tends to dismiss this preference.

posted May 08, 2019 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by winnertivanigrace:

Woow 36 years is a long time!
good to hear that
They must have other good aspects in their synastry as well right? Or saturn helps?
Thank you for stopping by! 😊

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Here is Saturn ( personal planets and angles ) on their synastry

his sun squares her saturn
his mercury squares her saturn
his venus semisquares her saturn
his mars inconjuncts her saturn
his saturn opposes her ascendant

Good aspects;

her sun sextiles his moon
her sun trines his venus
his sun trines her neptune ( but her sun squares his Neptune )

her moon sextiles his moon
her moon trines his jupiter
her moon trines his uranus
her moon conjunct his mc

his moon sextiles her uranus
his moon quintiles her pluto ( exact )
his moon trines her chiron ( this is a marriange aspect. %100 of the marriages I know have moon chiron contact. Does not have to be trine or sextile, squares, oppositions work too )

but they also have
her moon opposes his moon
her moon opposes his mars

oh and they have her venus square his mars

some of their mercury, jupiter aspects are good too. ( they were highschool mates )

her chiron and neptune make very favourable aspects to his planets.

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the people I know who are married for a long long time, have so many unfavourable aspects on their synastry charts.

posted May 08, 2019 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I agree with this, personally I seem to prefer a bit of hard aspects in synastry, so **** $ that are not supposed to work can work for me, and different people might have a preference for different sort of relations in their heads, so might prefer different sort of synastry aspects as well, calling a particular aspect as favourable or unfavourable tends to dismiss this preference.

Personally I never mind a bit a heart-wrenching ending as long as I've enjoyed most moments of the relationship, and even for that "enjoyment" different people might have "different" tastes, and for someone like me a Venus square Pluto in synastry is perfectt!!

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