posted May 15, 2019 11:52 AM            

Most of their planets fall into your 8th house, usually this means the house person is obsessed, but I’ve read that it can sometimes be the other way around. Your Pluto is opposite their Sun, which they don’t have in their own natal chart, so this energy is new to them, very exciting. On top of that their Lilith is conjunct your dsc with mars close by, again, typically it’s said that the dsc person is the one who feels this connection, but you might naturally give off an energy that your friend finds attractive.

If you met them through an astrology site, I can see why they were eager to find your birth time. Most of us are. I just like knowing where people’s ascendants/placements are. It’s weird to ask people who aren’t into astrology for their birth time, so when I find someone who already knows why I’m asking, because I’m sure they’ve asked other people too, it feels easier.

With that said, no means no. They shouldn’t have went digging for your time of birth. At the least, if they did find it they should have kept it quiet. But the 8th house is said to make people share uncontrollably. This person is also a Gemini, with Mercury conjunct your Sun, so you know they can’t keep a secret in general.

posted May 15, 2019 04:49 PM            

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posted May 15, 2019 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I don't think you're over-reacting. If they annoy you, just block them!
Besides their Sun opposite your Pluto, their Mars (in 8th house) square your Uranus/Neptune... I wouldn't trust them, and btw, I don't think they're being respectful to you.

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Hello Stoika!
Ugh... I know. It's starting to really irritate me. I've clearly stated that they were being a weirdo. And still they would just do/say creepier things. I don't mind giving my birth time to an astrologer-friend. But they started playing dumb and rushing me into giving it to them. And even when I said "no", they entered random BT until they got the combination of the placements they know I have. Like??????? How much free time one can have to do this?? And this is not normal.

I've already blocked them a long time ago, and they created another account and started looking for my social media again. I didn't want to be rude, so I thought ok maybe I'm just crazy and they're a nice person. But wow...... this can't be normal....

posted May 15, 2019 06:44 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:

If you met them through an astrology site, I can see why they were eager to find your birth time. Most of us are. I just like knowing where people’s ascendants/placements are. It’s weird to ask people who aren’t into astrology for their birth time, so when I find someone who already knows why I’m asking, because I’m sure they’ve asked other people too, it feels easier.

With that said, no means no. They shouldn’t have went digging for your time of birth. At the least, if they did find it they should have kept it quiet. But the 8th house is said to make people share uncontrollably. This person is also a Gemini, with Mercury conjunct your Sun, so you know they can’t keep a secret in general.

If you only know this person online, I’d say give them one warning, tell them to stop digging up old posts and going behind your back to do things. If they don’t, just block them.

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Hey Lacey! Thank you for the reply.
As I said in my earlier reply, I don't mind giving my BT to a friend, but the way they kept rushing me AND on top of it just started to randomly try different charts until they got mine, is a major red flag. This isn't normal to me. It's really disrespectful, I wouldn't waste a whole day, or God knows how much time, entering different birth times just so I can have someone's chart. Is it really worth it???? I find this to be really creepy.

I don't think they have a crush on me. It feels more like they're obsessed with me. They copy everything I do, ask me about every little thing I do/did/say/said...... It's just...not okay.

posted May 15, 2019 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by itsmeyaz:
Hello Stoika!
Ugh... I know. It's starting to really irritate me. I've clearly stated that they were being a weirdo. And still they would just do/say creepier things. I don't mind giving my birth time to an astrologer-friend. But they started playing dumb and rushing me into giving it to them. And even when I said "no", they entered random BT until they got the combination of the placements they know I have. Like??????? How much free time one can have to do this?? And this is not normal.

I've already blocked them a long time ago, and they created another account and started looking for my social media again. I didn't want to be rude, so I thought ok maybe I'm just crazy and they're a nice person. But wow...... this can't be normal....

Why do I keep having such weird experiences like this! I just want a normal friendship. I'm tired... ^^'

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posted May 16, 2019 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Oh, it's not you, socials are full of weirdos, I had a few like that too, lol
With one of those whom I felt a little bad about cause I knew he was actually coming from an harsh situation, I just stopped talking to him and started to completely ignore him... he still tried to get close to me in tricky ways, but eventually he left me alone. fact is that he knew *everything* about me, so he seemed to spend a lot of time investigating about me, creepy... so I agree with you, this one of yours is creepy! Maybe they just really like you, but since you don't know him in "real" and since there's too much 8th house/Pluto/Mars square Neptune involved, I honestly dont like how he's acting with you!

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posted May 16, 2019 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by itsmeyaz:
Oh Gosh... I'm glad you got over him and that whole situation.
Yes! It's creepy, I'm going to ignore them and see how it goes. It just sometimes I keep thinking "omg i'm being such a bad person" and then I answer them. LOL. I blame my Cancer Moon! But this time it's a major red flag. I hate it when people don't respect my privacy, and being a Gemini with an 8H, that's a deal breaker lol.
Thank you Stoika! You're so kind! Always helping me with my none sense craziness. Haha!

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posted May 23, 2019 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by itsmeyaz:
Oh Gosh... I'm glad you got over him and that whole situation.
Yes! It's creepy, I'm going to ignore them and see how it goes. It just sometimes I keep thinking "omg i'm being such a bad person" and then I answer them. LOL. I blame my Cancer Moon! But this time it's a major red flag. I hate it when people don't respect my privacy, and being a Gemini with an 8H, that's a deal breaker lol.
Thank you Stoika! You're so kind! Always helping me with my none sense craziness. Haha!

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posted May 23, 2019 06:15 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
Cancers are usually very weary of ppl like that and can't stand their privacy being invaded. I have a Cancer moon and I would not feel guilty for cutting out someone who so blatantly crosses the line. Did you feel obliged to this person somehow ?

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posted May 24, 2019 02:14 AM            

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Originally posted by itsmeyaz:
It was rather a feeling of me saying "what if I was wrong and they're actually a good person and I'm just over reacting", I was trying to give them the benefit of the doubt, but it was getting too much. Sometimes I'm stupid ^^'.
I usually feel bad when deciding to cut people off because I get scared I'd hurt their feelings, it's usually the worst step/feeling I go thru. Except when I been forgiving them tooooooo much, that's when my feelings just kind of go *dead* and I cut them off in a split second.
But I only do that when they over-over cross the line. Which is not a healthy thing for me, I'm aware of it now..

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posted May 24, 2019 07:06 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:

ok so it's more a matter of you not entirely trusting your own feelings...
Glad you managed to cut them out. Their behaviour even felt uncomfortable for me and I only read about it lol

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posted May 25, 2019 03:58 AM            

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Originally posted by itsmeyaz:
Yeah, because I'm very radical when it comes to making a decision. Once I cut someone off it's over as long as my soul lives lol. That's why I try to be as "open minded" as possible. But that's not going to get me anywhere tbh lol.

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