posted June 02, 2019 04:17 AM            

Saturn square Chiron
Mars square Saturn
Sun square Saturn

posted June 02, 2019 06:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Hmm.. some of those aspects sound quite painful...

Saturn square Chiron
Mars square Saturn
Sun square Saturn

These are heavy and difficult to manage unless one or both of them are strong Saturnian.

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posted June 02, 2019 06:35 PM            

his saturn was conjunct my descendant/moon/nn, square my mars, opposite my venus and i'm pretty sure my saturn had some **** going on with his chart too i can't remember entirely now

and i just never really had any feelings for him and he never knew how to express himself to me (he'd tell other people how he felt about me and **** , but wasn't direct with me) so it just never really went anywhere and was mostly just something i did for a while there

posted June 03, 2019 12:15 AM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
Too many hard saturn aspects are bad. It's tricky because Saturn's bad qualities don't usually show until long after the relationship has developed. It shows up over time.

I really, REALLY do not like mars square saturn. It's especially hard on the mars person.

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posted June 03, 2019 12:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i had hard saturn aspects in synastry with a fwbs i was hooking up with on/off for about a year and a half, hard saturn in the composite too

his saturn was conjunct my descendant/moon/nn, square my mars, opposite my venus and i'm pretty sure my saturn had some **** going on with his chart too i can't remember entirely now

and i just never really had any feelings for him and he never knew how to express himself to me (he'd tell other people how he felt about me and **** , but wasn't direct with me) so it just never really went anywhere and was mostly just something i did for a while there

i didn't feel bad about things ending, but i know he took it hard and from what i know wants things back

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posted June 03, 2019 03:15 AM            

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Originally posted by dribaby:
Yes, very heavy!
He has a few Saturn aspects in his natal but not her. So I'm not sure how she will deal with that much Saturn energy going on. They also have sun square unranus!

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The Uranus square will make them rub each other the wrong way and + Saturn! 😅 Whose Saturn/Uranus?

How long have they been dating and how did your sister feel about the connection so far?

posted June 03, 2019 06:47 AM            

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Originally posted by dribaby:
Wow. Did you guys have any pluto aspect together?

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yeah my pluto squares his sun/uranus conjunction and loosely squares his neptune, and is closely conjunct his ic and his pluto/moon conjunction is conjunct my saturn

in our composite we have sun conjunct pluto in scorpio, and pluto square moon and also have composite saturn conjunct mars and moon (saturn and mars just don't aspect pluto) and square mercury (which also squares mars but not the moon)

i feel confused by it because i never really felt close to him, but he projected a lot of closeness on the relationship in his head and to other people

it's through other people that i've heard he still talks about wanting things to go back to what they were, because he tells them that (we've had no interactions since it ended) and he's gone really off the deep end with binging on drugs, alcohol, and food since (things ended back in january)

you'd think with all that pluto i'd have some sort of feelings but all the intensity is one sided and from him and not actually between us it's very odd

posted June 03, 2019 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
yeah my pluto squares his sun/uranus conjunction and loosely squares his neptune, and is closely conjunct his ic and his pluto/moon conjunction is conjunct my saturn

in our composite we have sun conjunct pluto in scorpio, and pluto square moon and also have composite saturn conjunct mars and moon (saturn and mars just don't aspect pluto) and square mercury (which also squares mars but not the moon)

i feel confused by it because i never really felt close to him, but he projected a lot of closeness on the relationship in his head and to other people

it's through other people that i've heard he still talks about wanting things to go back to what they were, because he tells them that (we've had no interactions since it ended) and he's gone really off the deep end with binging on drugs, alcohol, and food since (things ended back in january)

you'd think with all that pluto i'd have some sort of feelings but all the intensity is one sided and from him and not actually between us it's very odd

even when it came to sex he was really into it and i found him boring, it just mostly happened because he was around a lot and would just show up and leave things here etc

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posted June 03, 2019 09:21 AM            

he has a leo ascendant (conjunct my mercury) and he had this huge tendency to put on a show and it was this constant thing

what's odd is he'd frequently talk to my fiancee about how much he liked me, found me attractive, say that i made him feel special etc but with me he wasn't vocal in that sense and she's told me she thinks he finds me intimidating in a lot of ways but had a lot of feelings for me (which i suppose is obvious in retrospect since there's still a desire to pick things back up on his end and all that)

i know he has issues with his sexuality which was probably part of his issue with expressing himself to me, and i've been someone else's experiment before (i'm on the androgynous side and that makes confused or curious people comfortable, like i'm some stepping stone to figuring themselves out) but i don't care for that sort of thing

things only happened because he was really persistent and he's physically attractive if i'm going to be honest

it's a little awkward because he has a friend who's openly bi and has had/prefers poly relationships who's expressed interest since things ended and has been making attempts to pursue something who's more my type in a lot of ways (except physically) who spoke about how my ex fwbs was still interested and once he found out that wasn't a thing that would happen again started making plans for trips and ****

i have a feeling he'll take that really poorly

edit: i agree all that saturn really made things feel that way, just too blocked and off and i always felt like if things continued they would go to hell pretty quickly

posted June 04, 2019 11:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i had hard saturn aspects in synastry with a fwbs i was hooking up with on/off for about a year and a half, hard saturn in the composite too

his saturn was conjunct my descendant/moon/nn, square my mars, opposite my venus and i'm pretty sure my saturn had some **** going on with his chart too i can't remember entirely now

and i just never really had any feelings for him and he never knew how to express himself to me (he'd tell other people how he felt about me and **** , but wasn't direct with me) so it just never really went anywhere and was mostly just something i did for a while there

i didn't feel bad about things ending, but i know he took it hard and from what i know wants things back

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posted June 04, 2019 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Did the two of you have any 4th,5th,7 or 8th house overlays?

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yeah my pluto is conjunct his ic my saturn is in his 4th, my uranus neptune and mars are in his 5th, my jupiter is in his 8th