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manderin
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posted June 02, 2019 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know how Chiron works. If a person's chiron is square to someone's moon does the moon person feel pain or the chiron person? Or does it have to be under a certain degree for it to matter?

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Hikaru29
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posted June 03, 2019 03:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From what I read it's usually the Chiron person who feels the pain. The planet person may also feel hurt by feeling that they don't measure up to Chiron person's expectations. I extracted 2 paras from theinnerwheel.com:

"In a relationship of this type, typically the Chiron person will subjugate themselves over and over again. He or she will shake the pain off only to be hit by it again the next time around. They will make excuses for the cruelty, claiming the partner doesn’t realize the hurt they are causing. Many times, the wounding partner is blissfully unaware. Often, the Chiron person lives in a world of potential and possibility for the relationship. “If only” and “when.” The sad truth is that the Chiron person sees the full potential of the relationship. Chiron’s shamanic gift gives the ability to see beyond the mundane, through to other worlds and other levels of awareness. When Chiron is activated between charts, the planet person inadvertently fires up these special abilities, causing Chiron to see the planet person for what they may become, not what they are. Unfortunately, Chiron mistakes the potential for reality, and relates to the planet person on this level. This causes the planet person to begin to itch under the Chiron person’s scrutiny. Sadly, again, the Chiron person will not realize why.

The ‘planet’ person may feel inadequate, or in need of healing, vulnerable, when they were perfectly okay before the Chiron person came along. Mainly, they sense that they don’t measure up in some mysterious way. The Chiron person may declare desperate, undying love, and yet the planet person will only hear and feel the negativity, the lack. The more the Chiron person declares, the more the planet person will want to remove him or herself from the uncomfortable situation. The planet person will ultimately want to escape Chiron—imagine being scrutinized through the eyes of a god all the time. Often, the planet person reacts with fear, a fear of their own potential."


IME even with a wider degree it can still be felt. A very painful relationship I had have my Chiron widely conjunct his Saturn.

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