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Hikaru29
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posted June 10, 2019 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is this a significant love asteroid? Why people only talk about Eros/Psyche but not Cupid/Psyche? I also saw people say asteroid Cupido represents false/shallow love, is it true? I read the myth of Cupid/Psyche and cannot understand how their love was shallow/false. 🤷‍♀️

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Murikhi
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posted June 10, 2019 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Murikhi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Is this a significant love asteroid? Why people only talk about Eros/Psyche but not Cupid/Psyche? I also saw people say asteroid Cupido represents false/shallow love, is it true? I read the myth of Cupid/Psyche and cannot understand how their love was shallow/false. 🤷‍♀️

Cupido in synastry isn't my favorite. Apparently, it's the "look of love to fool another". I had it in synastry with an old flame and it didn't end very well. This may have had something to do with our Venus square Neptune or our Saturn square Venus but regardless, I can only speak from experience. I came away from the situation feeling like I was the only one who cared. I felt very very VERY betrayed. (we did have Sedna touching mercury so that may have been a factor as well, just wanting to give you as much detail as possible.)

His Cupido was touching my Venus. I'm not sure who felt what, but it's a contact I prefer not to have again. Of course, it may show up again in synastry in the future, but I will be very wary. Tread lightly. It's not a fun asteroid. Cupido's an a$$hole.

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Hikaru29
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posted June 11, 2019 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Murikhi:
Cupido in synastry isn't my favorite. Apparently, it's the "look of love to fool another". I had it in synastry with an old flame and it didn't end very well. This may have had something to do with our Venus square Neptune or our Saturn square Venus but regardless, I can only speak from experience. I came away from the situation feeling like I was the only one who cared. I felt very very VERY betrayed. (we did have Sedna touching mercury so that may have been a factor as well, just wanting to give you as much detail as possible.)

His Cupido was touching my Venus. I'm not sure who felt what, but it's a contact I prefer not to have again. Of course, it may show up again in synastry in the future, but I will be very wary. Tread lightly. It's not a fun asteroid. Cupido's an a$$hole.


What you described sounds more like Venus square Neptune which indicates disappointment in love. Venus square Saturn is the rejection of love.

What does Sedna indicate?

How do you feel with his Cupido touching your Venus? Do you feel that he presented a fake image of himself?

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anska5
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posted June 11, 2019 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anska5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Murikhi:
Cupido in synastry isn't my favorite. Apparently, it's the "look of love to fool another". I had it in synastry with an old flame and it didn't end very well. This may have had something to do with our Venus square Neptune or our Saturn square Venus but regardless, I can only speak from experience. I came away from the situation feeling like I was the only one who cared. I felt very very VERY betrayed. (we did have Sedna touching mercury so that may have been a factor as well, just wanting to give you as much detail as possible.)

His Cupido was touching my Venus. I'm not sure who felt what, but it's a contact I prefer not to have again. Of course, it may show up again in synastry in the future, but I will be very wary. Tread lightly. It's not a fun asteroid. Cupido's an a$$hole.


Interesting and I can relate to some extent with someone's cupido conjuncting my mars. Although I'm still convinced that he also had feelings to some extent, it was certainly much more superficial than for me.

How would then strong cupido aspects in composite play out? With the guy I've just mentioned I had composite cupido conjunct composite sun and conjunct composite moon (at 0degrees no less) all in the 7th house. In fact exactly conjunct the composite chart's descendant.

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Murikhi
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posted June 12, 2019 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Murikhi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
What you described sounds more like Venus square Neptune which indicates disappointment in love. Venus square Saturn is the rejection of love.

What does Sedna indicate?

How do you feel with his Cupido touching your Venus? Do you feel that he presented a fake image of himself?


Sedna indicates betrayal [from a man] but I think it also means betrayal in general. It's 90377 if you want to punch it into astro.com to see where it falls in your chart and/or synastry.

And yes, I do believe he presented a false image of himself as well as a false image of caring for me. Maybe he did.. but his actions told me something completely different at the end of the day. So I have to go by actions only, not on specualtions or what I thought I felt he felt. I've moved past it now but there was definitely a lot of hurt.

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