posted July 27, 2019 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
Someone’s Mars is about 7 degrees away from my Venus and conjunct my Jupiter exact. I am wondering if you could still feel the Mars conjunct Venus at that wide an orb. I don’t feel much but maybe it is because both my Jupiter and Venus are in the 12th house although Venus very close to ASC. Wondering if the Mars person might feel it?

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Mars is very jarring. You are likely to feel it-especially if someone's Mars sits on your angles.

With this orb,more time spent with the person may be needed to infer what is happening. Typically speaking the Mars person relates to you in a way that is brusque.

The result is often that they either annoy you or warm you. The tight orbs react faster. I don't like Scorpio Mars to my Venus in Scorpio.They irritate me.

But be that as it may however,I had a sexual "encounter" with one and couldn't understand why I felt both irritation and attraction for him?

I was actually ashamed of letting that happen. Sleeping with someone that I had initially judged as wholly "inappropriate" and crasp.

Then BAM! I learned that his Mars is conjunct my Venus in Scorpio exact. Mars/Venus also creates confusing love(Venus)/ hate(Mars) vibes.Its sometimes hard to know what is happening coz the Mars person can (at worst) be very mean to the Venus individual.

posted July 27, 2019 10:40 AM            

While we had no problems what so ever getting along i didnt feel an ounce of attraction.

posted July 27, 2019 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
Thank you Aries23degrees and Scandinaviancrab for your thoughts! Do you think the 7 degrees is too wide to be felt? I’m wondering if they feel something even though I am not. They do tease in a mean manner sometimes and could be cold/moody.

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Do you know their birth time?

For example a Cancer Sun with a Virgo Mars in its 12th house (thats me) will/can be subtle as hell. You can be left "bread crumbs" that has to be deciphired for signs of affection.
It depends on the synastry.

posted July 28, 2019 04:15 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
Thank you Aries23degrees and Scandinaviancrab for your thoughts! Do you think the 7 degrees is too wide to be felt? I’m wondering if they feel something even though I am not. They do tease in a mean manner sometimes and could be cold/moody.

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I think what should be emphasized here is that not every Venus/Mars interplay will lead to physical attraction.

I have Mars opposite my sister's Venus and I think here it manifests as an ability to get along.But with Venus /Mars, one must "manage" relationship because it can also escalate towards arguments and dislike.

Any planet either influenced by Mars/ in house 8 or 1 or ruled by Mars, needs supervision ans management in personal and interpersonal relationships as it tends to go to "war" easily.

So for you, as I stated in the previous thread, examine how the nature of your relationship unfolds as you get to know each other. Wider orbs may take more time to get started.

You could just have a platonic friendship that allows you to get on. But with Mars therein, there will likely be bottleneck situations as Mars either irritates or is the one who is irritated.

This is especially so when Mars is in Aries or Scorpio. Whilst if Venus is in Aries or Scorpio, there is either strong like or strong dislike of the other. You are either getting on or not even interested in each other's names etc.

@ScandinavianCrab

I lived with someone whom had Venus Libra conjunct my Mars in Libra within a tight 2 degree orb. Add to that Moon in opposition to Mars also tight.

We didn't get on to a point of friendship. But we were cohabiting and so we were civil to each other.

As time went on however and we were around each other much more, there was a rapport. Albeit there were instances where he sorely annoyed me (His Moon square my Moon), I am sure my Mars also irritated him.

Strangers at a job may not immediately gravitate towards each other because of this aspect alone. As I am surmising from your post that you liken it to physical attraction. No.Not at all. At least not always.

You can also feel a strong physical attraction for someone who does not have Venus/Mars contacts to you. This Venus/Mars contact is based on the ability to get along long-term as Planets do not "dictate", they support.

People with aspects in synastry between Venus/Mars tend to get on on one hand as they don't have the spirit(Mars) or actions of one party constantly undermine the positive state of mind(Venus) or outlook of the other.

Whilst also on the other hand, it is true that formidable opponents/ competitors can have a Venus/Mars aspects because Mars is heat and may not kautau to Venus' love for peace and understanding. Mars can spur Venus to be more competitive or reflectct Mars' more aggressive energy.

If there is physical attraction,Venus/Mars can compound it so much that the two people rush(Mars) into an agreement/marriage/relationship or sex(Venus).

A break-up is of course almost always imminent as Mars is(once again) heat.But so is a make-up soon after that "break-up".

posted July 28, 2019 05:30 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
I’m wondering if they feel something even though I am not. They do tease in a mean manner sometimes and could be cold/moody.

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Venus can show Mars how to be more sensual and responsive, whereas Mars is able to prompt Venus to go spontaneously and directly for what they desire. (Lyn Birkbeck - Relationship Astrology.)

Teasing, appearing to be indifferent and being moody are sometimes used by (a not yet mature) Mars to say "I like you, so come and get me - if you want to". ... And, denial of feelings for Mars, is sometimes used by Venus to say 'I like you, so come and get me - if you want to".

posted July 28, 2019 11:49 AM            

@graham you are probably right about the teasing and moodiness being an immature Mars. I can see how he is immature in some ways but does not bother me that much. He is also a Gemini so I think the teasing and moodiness can just be a part of his personality lol.

posted July 29, 2019 11:41 AM            

Sorry about the long information and detail. I have Sun/Jupiter conjunct in Sag and Mercury/Sun parallel Jupiter in 9th.