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Topic: 7th ruler and how/where you met your spouse
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LunaIscariot
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posted July 15, 2019 03:22 AM
  
I want collect more data on this  For people who don’t know, the house your 7th ruler is sitting in will tell you how/where you’ll meet your spouse. Also if any planets conjunct your 7th ruler, what house that other planet rules will come into play too. For those with accurate TOB, what house is your 7th ruler sitting in your chart?
(If you have two planetary rulers the ex. Scorpio DSC use Pluto and mars) I have Scorpio DSC and mars is in my 6th; I’ve met all my partners thru work. My first partner also had digestive/health problems lol (6th house/Virgo rules health/diet/digestion). Astrology never fails 😂👍. I feel like I need to make this clear that this is for SPOUSE, not people you date or dated, but the person you’ll actually marry.
And l noticed people have been commented who haven’t or aren’t married which doesn’t apply. IP: Logged |
itsmeyaz
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posted July 15, 2019 05:55 AM
I have Taurus DSC, with Mercury & Mars there as well. And my Venus rx is in Gemini in the 8th house. So that will suggest I'll meet my partner in a business institution or ???? 😂😂😂😂 please not through sex lolol! But I read Juno can indicate the same too. I have Pisces Juno conjunct my Aries Saturn in the 5th, so my partner will likely be older than me, and he will somehow bring stability and discipline to our relationship. He will probably also have an important position at his work place, or making good money off of it due to this placement, and also due to my Venus being in the 8th. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
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posted July 15, 2019 06:13 AM
Virgo descendant and mercury in the 11th. I’ve met all my partners and lovers in bars or at parties.IP: Logged |
cultstatus
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posted July 15, 2019 06:18 AM
Juno also in the 11th, however it’s in Cap.IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 15, 2019 07:50 AM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
Virgo descendant and mercury in the 11th. I’ve met all my partners and lovers in bars or at parties.
That sounds more like a 5th house thing lol. Are you sure your tob is correct? Do you have your BC?
Is mercury conjunct your 5th house cusp? Any planets in your 7th? IP: Logged |
MMarie
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posted July 15, 2019 08:03 AM
I don’t have a spouse. But I have DESC in Aqua and Uranus (cap) is in 5th house on the cusp of 6th. I’ve met everyone I pretty much dated in a social event related to work or is someone I knows coworker. Last person I dated was one of my vendors friends and I met him at a work related party. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
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posted July 15, 2019 08:42 AM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
That sounds more like a 5th house thing lol. Are you sure your tob is correct? Do you have your BC?
Is mercury conjunct your 5th house cusp? Any planets in your 7th?
I know right!? I recall reading about some other placement ages ago that indicated meeting partners out in bars/parties, and I was like wow, on point. I can’t remember what it was but I had it. I really wish I could remember because I think about it from time to time haha. Maybe it was an Asteroid idk. But I’ve had three long term relationships and heaps of love connections. But I’ve also had plenty (a LOT) of different jobs, big family, big social media following etc. There are so many ways for me to meet people but that has been tried and true in love. I have no planets in my 5,6 or 7th house. Time of birth is def correct. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 15, 2019 09:28 AM
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Originally posted by MMarie:
I don’t have a spouse. But I have DESC in Aqua and Uranus (cap) is in 5th house on the cusp of 6th. I’ve met everyone I pretty much dated in a social event related to work or is someone I knows coworker. Last person I dated was one of my vendors friends and I met him at a work related party.
Your Uranus is more likely in your 6th house if it’s close. Our tob even in bc are usually off up to 15-20 minutes sometimes. It’s just whenever they get around to actually filling out the form or paying attention lol
So I would change it a few minutes to put it in your 6th.
Work related is always the 6th house 👍
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LunaIscariot
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posted July 15, 2019 09:33 AM
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Originally posted by itsmeyaz:
I have Taurus DSC, with Mercury & Mars there as well. And my Venus rx is in Gemini in the 8th house. So that will suggest I'll meet my partner in a business institution or ???? 😂😂😂😂 please not through sex lolol! But I read Juno can indicate the same too. I have Pisces Juno conjunct my Aries Saturn in the 5th, so my partner will likely be older than me, and he will somehow bring stability and discipline to our relationship. He will probably also have an important position at his work place, or making good money off of it due to this placement, and also due to my Venus being in the 8th.
You could meet them thru something tax, death, or occult related. Funeral 😂. Graveyard. Loans/banks, someone who works with other people resources.
That’s actually tough because your 8th ruler is in the 7th and your 7th ruler is in the 8th.. you’re more than likely going to be a widow. Your spouse will die before you.
They will also be VERY jealous/possessive but loyal, sensual, passionate and love sex smart, witty, dominant, assertive, masculine but also very reserved/calm and stable. Cool, calm, collected. That will be your spouse. IP: Logged |
itsmeyaz
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posted July 15, 2019 10:06 AM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
You could meet them thru something tax, death, or occult related. Funeral 😂. Graveyard. Loans/banks, someone who works with other people resources.
That’s actually tough because your 8th ruler is in the 7th and your 7th ruler is in the 8th.. you’re more than likely going to be a widow. Your spouse will die before you.
They will also be VERY jealous/possessive but loyal, sensual, passionate and love sex smart, witty, dominant, assertive, masculine but also very reserved/calm and stable. Cool, calm, collected. That will be your spouse.
Lol! God Forbid! If he ever dies before me, he'll die very old!!😂 How could you tell that to my 8th Venus lolol, I'm scared just by the thought of it.
I think Juno describes more the where, the ruler of the 7th can describe more their traits.
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Dons2angelss
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posted July 15, 2019 11:01 AM
Sagittarius on the cusp of 7H, Uranus conjunct South node and descendant with Jupiter in the 8H retrograde. It makes a trine to venus in the 12H and sextile Saturn in the 6H. I'm not married though I've read with the ruler of the 7H retrograde no matter where its located, you'll marry a lot later in life. IP: Logged |
Keela Dal
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posted July 16, 2019 10:12 AM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
For people who don’t know, the house your 7th ruler is sitting in will tell you how/where you’ll meet your spouse. Also if any planets conjunct your 7th ruler, what house that other planet rules will come into play too. For those with accurate TOB, what house is your 7th ruler sitting in your chart?
(If you have two planetary rulers the ex. Scorpio DSC use Pluto and mars)
DSC in Aquarius, Uranus in 4H Libra (antiscia Moon in Pisces 8H, Pluto in 4H Libra again so mutual reception for Moon), Saturn in 12H Cancer. Coincidentally my Saturn is more loosely antiscia my Mars as well, though I rarely remember it like the other one. Mars is in my (intercepted Gemini) 11th house, reinforcing feedback loops. I don't meet people and I don't _want_ anybody who lives where I'm again stuck for the time being. If people don't volunteer to meet me online, I'm not going to meet them at home - and I'm not crawling prisons or hospitals or institutions of any kind either, least of all for partners. So... what other meanings or suggestions would you see for the house/s involved? I've also seen book mentions of the composite ruler (ASC in one, as recall) describing where you met or the start of the relationship in such terms. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted July 16, 2019 11:58 AM
I remember once tVenus was conjunct tMars, Susan Miller said I'd meet someone playing sports or as spectators at a sporting event - spot on. That is where I meet them generally.I also meet a fair amount in my dreams, as in, I dream them first or they reveal their feelings to me in my dreams. 7HR Neptune in 4th. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 16, 2019 01:33 PM
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Originally posted by Keela Dal:
DSC in Aquarius, Uranus in 4H Libra (antiscia Moon in Pisces 8H, Pluto in 4H Libra again so mutual reception for Moon), Saturn in 12H Cancer. Coincidentally my Saturn is more loosely antiscia my Mars as well, though I rarely remember it like the other one. Mars is in my (intercepted Gemini) 11th house, reinforcing feedback loops. I don't meet people and I don't _want_ anybody who lives where I'm again stuck for the time being. If people don't volunteer to meet me online, I'm not going to meet them at home - and I'm not crawling prisons or hospitals or institutions of any kind either, least of all for partners.So... what other meanings or suggestions would you see for the house/s involved? I've also seen book mentions of the composite ruler (ASC in one, as recall) describing where you met or the start of the relationship in such terms.
You’ll probably meet your spouse from your hometown. So if you moved, whenever you go back and visit there is when you’ll most likely meet him, or somewhere that is your spouses hometown if you moved. Could also meet through your family/relatives somehow. And yes! That’s true what you said about the composite and the asc ruler describing how you met etc. I’ve studied this myself and can 100 percent confirm IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted July 16, 2019 03:23 PM
7th ruler is venus in cancer in my 9th house conjunct my MC.
I met him through a friend, but he was a foreigner so I guess that makes sense?IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted July 16, 2019 03:47 PM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
That sounds more like a 5th house thing lol. Are you sure your tob is correct? Do you have your BC?
Is mercury conjunct your 5th house cusp? Any planets in your 7th?
You are a failure in both tarot and worse in astrology. 11th house is for friends and social gatherings.
Please don't talk more you just make yourself look stupid. Thank you and im out! IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted July 16, 2019 04:03 PM
This is a system of scriptures rooted in Vedic (Jyotish) astrology so please only apply the rule to the Vedic D1 chart (not your Western chart). the information of 7th lord placement and it’s radix sign for symbolic circumstances revolving around the spouse meeting.I’ve run this method by four different married couples I know and they’ve all been correct. Here’s a video explaining the method: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cbRvzpOE4tE IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 16, 2019 04:23 PM
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You are a failure in both tarot and worse in astrology. 11th house is for friends and social gatherings.
Please don't talk more you just make yourself look stupid. Thank you and im out!
Omg dude, you’re such a loser lol so butt hurt over my honesty in your readings before 🤦♀️. You’re so toxic. That’s why I didn’t want to read for you anymore, get over it! You REALLY have nothing better to do than come on my thread to be the petty, spiteful, toxic trash you are 🤦♀️. Like, This is why your co-workers don’t like you! Take an honest look at yourself and how you act, it’s not hard to see and then you won’t have to ask strangers on a forum why you have problems with people. You’re the problem. You can’t handle any even PERCEIVED criticism, your ego is insane, and you’re ridiculously petty and immature. Grow up. And stop coming on my threads making YOURSELF look stupid. The fact you’re on my thread when you clearly don’t like me and apparently think I’m “stupid” lol like why are you here. But we know why, it’s because you have such a toxic ugly energy that’s spiteful and petty you can’t help yourself 👍. And you wonder why I didn’t want to read for you before. I’m a psychic so I can literally feel your energy. You gave me a headache when I would channel for you before. I’m not going to lie to you, when I say you’re toxic it’s because you are. Energetically. I felt that. And your behaviour 100 percent confirms that.
So stop commenting on my threads, nobody wants your negativity. You’re cancer. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
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posted July 16, 2019 04:23 PM
@LunaIscariotThis person in my life now, his Desc (Virgo) ruler Mercury in Virgo as well in his 6th, but conjunct the 7H cusp. I'm curious where such person would meet their spouse? In this case, the way this went about us meeting is he was at his sister's house where my friend was at as well at the time and yeah. So do family/friends fall into the 7H category? And given that it's in the 6th but conjunct the 7th, which house traits would it take upon, 6th or 7th? And another question, given that it's Virgo in every way his Desc style... (Virgo Desc with its' ruler Mercury in Virgo as well and in a Virgo house) I have no Virgo in my chart. I dunno if I match his 'style' but I'm curious, bear with me lol. Virgo is intercepted in my chart (in the 4th). Meaning there's no trace of Virgo in me lol. The only thing coming close to it is my Pluto sitting in the sixth which opposes my Sun and trines my Mars. I'm anal to a fault when it comes to anal-yzing stuff loll. But if I don't decide to be involved with something then it'll just not be on my to do list at all. Plus I'm a health nut, was at least. Well the habits and knowledge is still there lol. The second closest thing that comes to this... My chart ruler and Moon ruler is Mercury (Gemini). But again that squares his stuff (even though his Moon is Gemini too) especially when my Mercury is in Aries which totally doesn't mesh with Virgo.
One positive I guess... His Gemini Moon which conjuncts his IC also conjuncts my AC. And my Venus is in Cancer (only opposing his Uranus though) which kinda matches his Moon/IC idea. I dunno why I'm stuck on this guy lol he's not even my dream guy. But something keeps me there I'm not sure why. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 16, 2019 04:29 PM
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
@LunaIscariotThis person in my life now, his Desc (Virgo) ruler Mercury in Virgo as well in his 6th, but conjunct the 7H cusp. I'm curious where such person would meet their spouse? In this case, the way this went about us meeting is he was at his sister's house where my friend was at as well at the time and yeah. So do family/friends fall into the 7H category? And given that it's in the 6th but conjunct the 7th, which house traits would it take upon, 6th or 7th? And another question, given that it's Virgo in every way his Desc style... (Virgo Desc with its' ruler Mercury in Virgo as well and in a Virgo house) I have no Virgo in my chart. I dunno if I match his 'style' but I'm curious, bear with me lol. Virgo is intercepted in my chart (in the 4th). Meaning there's no trace of Virgo in me lol. The only thing coming close to it is my Pluto sitting in the sixth which opposes my Sun and trines my Mars. I'm anal to a fault when it comes to anal-yzing stuff loll. But if I don't decide to be involved with something then it'll just not be on my to do list at all. Plus I'm a health nut, was at least. Well the habits and knowledge is still there lol. The second closest thing that comes to this... My chart ruler and Moon ruler is Mercury (Gemini). But again that squares his stuff (even though his Moon is Gemini too) especially when my Mercury is in Aries which totally doesn't mesh with Virgo.
One positive I guess... His Gemini Moon which conjuncts his IC also conjuncts my AC. And my Venus is in Cancer (only opposing his Uranus though) which kinda matches his Moon/IC idea. I dunno why I'm stuck on this guy lol he's not even my dream guy. But something keeps me there I'm not sure why.
Post the charts girly 😊 I’ll check em out for you But if his 7th ruler is in the 6th, probably at work or in a work environment, a co-worker etc. Spouse might work in a medical/health profession. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 16, 2019 04:33 PM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
7th ruler is venus in cancer in my 9th house conjunct my MC.
I met him through a friend, but he was a foreigner so I guess that makes sense?
Yes the foreign aspects is definitely the 9th house lol, so is sag and Jupiter connected to the DSC or DSC ruler somehow.
Being in the 9th, your spouse the person you actually end up marrying, you’ll meet them thru a class or somehow you’re learning something or studying. Could be a dance class, cooking class, travelling somewhere or someone who’s spiritual/open-minded and he’s, foreign from a different culture or background IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 16, 2019 04:39 PM
Guys, I wanna make it clear this is for your SPOUSE, the person you end up marrying or married in the past. This isn’t for people you just date or dated. That’s why it’s not matching up for people. This is only for spouse (marriage). So if you haven’t been married, I can just give you my best guess how you’ll meet/where.
But I wanted to collect date for people who actually are or have been married
Thanks!!For people who’ve just dated, check your 5th ruler!! Where it’s placed. My 5th house is Leo, and my ruler the sun is in my 11t, and I met my first bf thru my friend/mutual friends (11th house) and it was at a party (5th cusp in Leo) 👍 IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted July 16, 2019 05:23 PM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Yes the foreign aspects is definitely the 9th house lol, so is sag and Jupiter connected to the DSC or DSC ruler somehow.
Being in the 9th, your spouse the person you actually end up marrying, you’ll meet them thru a class or somehow you’re learning something or studying. Could be a dance class, cooking class, travelling somewhere or someone who’s spiritual/open-minded and he’s, foreign from a different culture or background
Thank you he is my ex husband. Swedish. Together 10 years, married for 2.5. Been divorced for 4 years now.
As it happens I have now moved overseas and the man I’m in love with has also moved overseas. We are from the same city back home. Anyway his dsc ruler is Jupiter in Leo in his 3rd house. Also has neptune conjunct his DSC. Do you think this could point to an element of our attraction towards one another? Would be funny if we ended up marrying IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
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posted July 16, 2019 05:24 PM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Post the charts girly 😊 I’ll check em out for you But if his 7th ruler is in the 6th, probably at work or in a work environment, a co-worker etc. Spouse might work in a medical/health profession.
Thanks so much, I'll create a new post for it. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
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posted July 16, 2019 05:29 PM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
Thank you he is my ex husband. Swedish. Together 10 years, married for 2.5. Been divorced for 4 years now.
As it happens I have now moved overseas and the man I’m in love with has also moved overseas. We are from the same city back home. Anyway his dsc ruler is Jupiter in Leo in his 3rd house. Also has neptune conjunct his DSC. Do you think this could point to an element of our attraction towards one another? Would be funny if we ended up marrying
Oh cool my Desc ruler Jupiter as well in Leo in 3rd lol. Noice IP: Logged |
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