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ChildofVenus
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posted July 21, 2019 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We met on an online forum and we’ve been texting each other. He says that he wants to come see me. But based on our synastry I don’t see why he likes me so much.

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posted July 21, 2019 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It’s your Pluto conjunct his Sun/Mars. That can bring on intense and quick feelings.

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posted July 21, 2019 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
It’s your Pluto conjunct his Sun/Mars. That can bring on intense and quick feelings.

But it’s just sexual feelings right?

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posted July 21, 2019 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
But it’s just sexual feelings right?

I think it just means deep or strong feelings, the type depends on the relationship.

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posted July 23, 2019 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I think it just means deep or strong feelings, the type depends on the relationship.

He likes to talk to me all the time and when I don't reply he keeps messaging me. Or say that I always leave him on read. I told him that we don't have to talk every day. And he said he wants to that he wants to get to know me. I think he's ok to talk and he's kind of attractive. He says he thinks I'm gorgeous I told him he just wants sex. And he said it's more than that. I don't know I'll just keep talking to him I guess.

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posted July 23, 2019 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
We met on an online forum and we’ve been texting each other. He says that he wants to come see me. But based on our synastry I don’t see why he likes me so much.

Hey

Not super knowledgeable and can't really make out aspects from the chart alone (tables girl ), so going out on a limb here but I'd say:
Suns in opposition: big attraction, oppositions aren't so bad, difficult, but the magnetism surely is there.
Venus opp venus too?
Moons in trine: super comfy, true love aspect (again, really not sure but it seems from the drawing)
Your Pluto conjunct his Sun/Mars: BIG amplifier of feelings and since he's the planet person he'd be more likely to be the 'victim' of it, hence why you might not completely get why he's so intense.

The composite shows a trine between the sun and mercury, that could explain why the conversation is so pleasant, though you should feel it too.

Also, maybe you're just a nice person and he's been through poor relationships before and clings on to the hopes of good one?

That's all I have, hope it helps

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posted July 23, 2019 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
Hey

Not super knowledgeable and can't really make out aspects from the chart alone (tables girl ), so going out on a limb here but I'd say:
Suns in opposition: big attraction, oppositions aren't so bad, difficult, but the magnetism surely is there.
Venus opp venus too?
Moons in trine: super comfy, true love aspect (again, really not sure but it seems from the drawing)
Your Pluto conjunct his Sun/Mars: BIG amplifier of feelings and since he's the planet person he'd be more likely to be the 'victim' of it, hence why you might not completely get why he's so intense.

The composite shows a trine between the sun and mercury, that could explain why the conversation is so pleasant, though you should feel it too.

Also, maybe you're just a nice person and he's been through poor relationships before and clings on to the hopes of good one?

That's all I have, hope it helps



Thank you for your input would you mind looking at another chart for me? I'll post the table

I'm the horizontal person in the table thanks.

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posted July 23, 2019 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thank you for your input would you mind looking at another chart for me? I'll post the table

I'm the horizontal person in the table thanks.

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I'm a real noob so I don't see much, you'd really need to have someone with experience and better knowledge to look to have an honest appraisal, all I see are sort of disconnected elements, I can't really see a whole picture, also, without the signs the planets are in, it's even more incomplete for me, I think signs do matter

Anyway:

I see a Sun trine Moon DW, which to me is true love, I'm so fond of moon trines, it can't just be that but the comfort of a sun trine moon, or moon trine moon, to me, feels like pure acceptance of who the other is, inside, their emotions and it's true love, as a DW it's made mutual so: yay

Venus sextile venus
Venus conjunct mars
both are said to be great aspects for romantic relationships, but I've never had them.

Then there's a bunch of squares to Venus
moon, ASC and sun, those could create difficulties, but again, depends on the signs involved, mutable signs are more likely to enjoy losing themselves in the others and adapting, also with the other positive aspects there's no way at my level to know which aspect would be more powerful and more likely to be prominent.

Pluto conjunct Pluto is a bet. Depends on how you handle your Pluto, they handle theirs and how it plays out between the two of you. It could be a super intense, karmic, union with a love resisting all incarnations, or a nuclear level type of disaster where the species has ended because one of you didn't lock the bathroom door. Who knows? Tis Pluto, measure isn't is forte. Forte is his forte lol

Chiron trine your moon worries me (but I had a big talk with my Chiron today so I might be highly subjective), you basically don't want someone's pain to snuggle with your emotions, sounds rude.
And Chiron conjunct sun, that time it's your pain... I don't know if it counts as a DW when it's not the same aspect, but it sounds like a potential grey cloud over the relationship Chiron aspecting personal planets, even if trines are smooth and it might brings healing, I'm not sure the conjunction would always feel fuzzy.

There's also a bunch of squares to your NN. Could it be a relationship that feels comfortable, has its dose of attraction, but that you don't see carrying on as fulfilling in the long run?

Saturn seems to pop too, with conjunctions too but I wouldn't know what to do with it. I do like to defend Saturn but it can put a huge damper on things, the square to you sun could make you feel blocked, would the trine to Uranus stabilise it or frustrate it, I do not know ^^

Your venus houses seem quite intense, 12th and 8th aren't light, fun, merry houses, not necessarily the best home for prissy venus, so I don't know in the long run if those two would elevate each other through understanding of their respective demons or if they would drag each other down, again, signs may help.

That's about it. I'm sorry, I really am no good at this, anyone with actual experience and knowledge please don't hesitate to educate me, and @ChildofVenus I hope it makes you tick in some way: good or bad, but that it triggers a reflexion for you, or that someone better at this finds you

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posted July 23, 2019 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moonbeth don't be so hard on yourself lol I actually learned a lot from your input. I appreciate your insight. I think you do a good job. And it takes a while to really learn about astrology.

We are actually just friends but I was just curious about what you'd say since you said you read tables I figured I'd ask lol.

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posted July 25, 2019 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Moonbeth don't be so hard on yourself lol I actually learned a lot from your input. I appreciate your insight. I think you do a good job. And it takes a while to really learn about astrology.

We are actually just friends but I was just curious about what you'd say since you said you read tables I figured I'd ask lol.


Awww thank you , you're adorable I don't mean to be hard on myself as much as I mean to be gentle on others. I know how impactful both readings and words can be, I wouldn't want anyone to feel poorly because of something I said, especially if I was mistaken which is likely to be the case when it comes to astrology because there's so much I don't handle (yet ), but I'm really glad if I've geiven you anyting useful

And, sun trine moon is absolute to me, it does not depend on a specific type of relationship as long as love is involved, I had that with my grand-mother, it was beautiful

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posted July 25, 2019 09:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Awww thank you , you're adorable I don't mean to be hard on myself as much as I mean to be gentle on others. I know how impactful both readings and words can be, I wouldn't want anyone to feel poorly because of something I said, especially if I was mistaken which is likely to be the case when it comes to astrology because there's so much I don't handle (yet ), but I'm really glad if I've geiven you anyting useful

And, sun trine moon is absolute to me, it does not depend on a specific type of relationship as long as love is involved, I had that with my grand-mother, it was beautiful


Yes I know sometimes people get upset if it's something that they don't want to hear. I am guilty of this myself but I try to be more open minded.

I've read that Sun/Moon aspects are nice. I'm guessing that this aspect indicates that there is love between two people? Or at least they like each other? Moon conjunct Moon or Moon trine Moon feels like a sibling aspect to me. I don't really know how that would work in a romantic relationship for me.

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posted July 25, 2019 09:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yes I know sometimes people get upset if it's something that they don't want to hear. I am guilty of this myself but I try to be more open minded.

I've read that Sun/Moon aspects are nice. I'm guessing that this aspect indicates that there is love between two people? Or at least they like each other? Moon conjunct Moon or Moon trine Moon feels like a sibling aspect to me. I don't really know how that would work in a romantic relationship for me.



Nobody likes to hear something that's not exactly what they want to hear! lol But it's one thing to unwillingly hurt someone with the truth, with a mistake, it's quite a shame, so I prefer to offer that safety since it exists, if don't like what I say, it's OK, I could be very wrong lol

Sun trine moon more felt like I was loved for who I was and nothing else. I'd say it's blissful for any type of personal relationship. Every personal relationship should have at least one of those aspects, it's such comfort, such true love.

For a romantic relationship, it could be flat on its own, if there's no attraction or healthy divergences of opinions to propel both intellects forwards, it could feel flat and not be enough. But in itself it's just pleasant and reassuring and is great foundation for any kind of love. It means that who you truly are is seen and in tune with who the other is and I think sun trine moon can also be a bit sexual because sexuality is an expression of the sun moon polarity, I think

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