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Topic: Should I give this a shot?? Synastry doesn't look so great
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itsmeyaz
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posted July 24, 2019 06:05 AM
  
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itsmeyaz
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posted July 24, 2019 06:11 AM
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itsmeyaz
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posted July 26, 2019 09:34 AM
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Ashes2Phoenix
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posted July 26, 2019 11:02 AM
Yes, give it a shot. Astrology is great, but don't allow it to be THE determining factor in the decisions you make. I see a lot of aspects between the two of you so you will definitely feel strongly (positive or negative) about one another.I did notice that you have Mars square Saturn and Venus square Uranus in the synastry. Do either of you have this natally? I think I may be the only person that hates looking at synastry wheels and prefers the table. It also wouldn't be appropriate to look at the composite at this point in time. IP: Logged |
itsmeyaz
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posted July 26, 2019 12:56 PM
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Originally posted by Ashes2Phoenix:
Yes, give it a shot. Astrology is great, but don't allow it to be THE determining factor in the decisions you make. I see a lot of aspects between the two of you so you will definitely feel strongly (positive or negative) about one another.I did notice that you have Mars square Saturn and Venus square Uranus in the synastry. Do either of you have this natally? I think I may be the only person that hates looking at synastry wheels and prefers the table. It also wouldn't be appropriate to look at the composite at this point in time.
Thank you for replying @Ashes2Phoenix! I think you're right. I agree. I just wanted to know if there are any supportive aspects from an outside perspective, as I tend to spot how it may not work out more than the latter. I don't have those aspects you mentionned, neither does he. I have Mars sextile Saturn, and he doesn't have any major aspects between those planets. IP: Logged |
itsmeyaz
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posted July 28, 2019 06:59 AM
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ChildofVenus
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posted July 28, 2019 01:43 PM
Yes you should because synastry shows potential it’s not going to tell you what will happen for sure.IP: Logged |
itsmeyaz
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posted July 28, 2019 05:25 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yes you should because synastry shows potential it’s not going to tell you what will happen for sure.
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itsmeyaz
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posted August 01, 2019 06:04 AM
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Moonbeth
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posted August 01, 2019 07:53 AM
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Originally posted by itsmeyaz:
Hello everyone, The synastry kind of troubles me, we have a lot of harsh aspects. I don't know if we'll be emotionally compatible... So far things are great but again... Please let me know your thoughts about our synastry. I will also link the composite for reference. Thank you! I'm the inside circle:
Side note: he has 2 intercepted houses : Cancer rules both his 5th and 6th House, and Capricorn rules both his 11th and 12th House.
Hey
Do go for it if you feel like it. Astrology is a magnificent tool for analysis to help us understand, which helps us making our decisions, it is not a decision maker in itself
Take what I see with lots of grains of salt, I am not a reader at all, but I wouldn't be so harsh on the synastry, there's a sun and moon sextile venus, and sun trine ASC plus your suns are in complementary elements, not to mention the fact there *is* a relationship that according to you so far is going well I know it sounds early for a composite, but if we see it as "potential", that lovely sun/venus/moon stellium in the 5th house may mean that this is the reward for overcoming the harsh aspects in the synastry? Every relationship comes with challenges, it's about your will to work on them, or not. Wishing you the best @Ashes2Phoenix I'm not an actual reader, I very much only dabble, but I too prefer the tables, it's just clearer, I need to see the chart for signs and houses, it appeals to me that way, but I need the tables for aspects otherwise I'm never sure of what I see IP: Logged |
itsmeyaz
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posted August 01, 2019 09:37 AM
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
Hey
Do go for it if you feel like it. Astrology is a magnificent tool for analysis to help us understand, which helps us making our decisions, it is not a decision maker in itself Take what I see with lots of grains of salt, I am not a reader at all, but I wouldn't be so harsh on the synastry, there's a sun and moon sextile venus, and sun trine ASC plus your suns are in complementary elements, not to mention the fact there *is* a relationship that according to you so far is going well I know it sounds early for a composite, but if we see it as "potential", that lovely sun/venus/moon stellium in the 5th house may mean that this is the reward for overcoming the harsh aspects in the synastry? Every relationship comes with challenges, it's about your will to work on them, or not. Wishing you the best @Ashes2Phoenix I'm not an actual reader, I very much only dabble, but I too prefer the tables, it's just clearer, I need to see the chart for signs and houses, it appeals to me that way, but I need the tables for aspects otherwise I'm never sure of what I see
I know and I agree. As I stated before, I just wanted an outside perspective astrologically speaking. Thank you for your input! The comp. stellium sounds nice indeed, but the Saturn aspects we have in synastry makes things look a little bit effy. IP: Logged |
Moonbeth
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posted August 01, 2019 12:31 PM
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Originally posted by itsmeyaz:
I know and I agree. As I stated before, I just wanted an outside perspective astrologically speaking. Thank you for your input! The comp. stellium sounds nice indeed, but the Saturn aspects we have in synastry makes things look a little bit effy.
I get you, I very much understand having a second, thrid, even Nth pair of eyes when I examine something Which saturn aspects in particular worry you?
I tend to think that harsh aspects to personal planets are rapidly felt, so if they don't already irk you there are chances they could manifest in other ways or not at all...? IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted August 02, 2019 06:24 AM
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itsmeyaz
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posted August 02, 2019 09:25 AM
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
I get you, I very much understand having a second, thrid, even Nth pair of eyes when I examine something Which saturn aspects in particular worry you?
I tend to think that harsh aspects to personal planets are rapidly felt, so if they don't already irk you there are chances they could manifest in other ways or not at all...?
His Saturn opposition to my Mars, Venus and Mercury. And trine my Saturn. Which adds more spice to it all lol. IP: Logged |
Moonbeth
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posted August 02, 2019 10:34 AM
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Originally posted by itsmeyaz:
His Saturn opposition to my Mars, Venus and Mercury. And trine my Saturn. Which adds more spice to it all lol.
First of all I don't think oppositions are that bad, it's not a square between two fixed signs, oppositions are a big yin-yang dynamic, there's back and forth so even if the energy is quite different, it resonates in a similar way somehow and contacts happen. I think it requires maturity and willingness to open yourself to different ideas and ways of doing but it's not incompatible. Also, here it's between 2 mutable signs, they basically want to interact with everything else lol
I think Saturn trine Saturn sounds good, I mean if what structures you (with the risk of blocking you too ok  ) both is in harmony, you may work together at you Saturn energy, I don't know if it's an acceptable interpretation but that's what it inspires me
Sometimes I meet people and something irks me, they don't let me talk, or they have a weird vibe when I am myself, then I get to know them and adore them but suddenly some big hurt happens and it's usually the fruit version of that first irk seed. I think a real bad synastry aspect is like that, you don't discover it after a while, it's personal planets, there's a preview, you just decide to ignore it, and maybe sometimes, it's right because it doesn't turn out to be so big.
Someone read a composite for me and it appears the relationship is very dangerous, none of the aspects read were about personal planets or even the synastry, it showed how it's apparently destined to play out. I think the synastry and its aspects just tell you what the ingredients are, what you do with them is something else (composite or free will or both, I haven't figured that out for myself yet lol).
So what I'm saying is deep down inside you know how you feel, if you find things he does that make you feel uncomfortable and that match readings for those Saturn aspects, then all you can do is try to sort it out and hope for the best. That's what my pair of eyes has for you: trust your own eyes
I don't see anything that says "eehw", I don't see anything that says "OMG that's the ticket" either, but then again I see very little. I'm sorry I can't really help because I really love your approach
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itsmeyaz
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posted August 03, 2019 01:25 PM
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
First of all I don't think oppositions are that bad, it's not a square between two fixed signs, oppositions are a big yin-yang dynamic, there's back and forth so even if the energy is quite different, it resonates in a similar way somehow and contacts happen. I think it requires maturity and willingness to open yourself to different ideas and ways of doing but it's not incompatible.
Oh! I love this approach if yours! quote:
Originally posted by Moonbeth:
So what I'm saying is deep down inside you know how you feel, if you find things he does that make you feel uncomfortable and that match readings for those Saturn aspects, then all you can do is try to sort it out and hope for the best. That's what my pair of eyes has for you: trust your own eyes
I don't see anything that says "eehw", I don't see anything that says "OMG that's the ticket" either, but then again I see very little. I'm sorry I can't really help because I really love your approach
Thank you for your reply! I'll see how things go for now, but I do hope someones chimes in and tell me their opinion about our comp or synastry. It's always helpful to see things from a different perspective.
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Moonbeth
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posted August 03, 2019 03:13 PM
It's mostly experience, as a Virgo I really find Pisces pleasant and good mates, the compatibility strikes me more than the differences I wish you all the feedback from all the experts around, I'm in a similar position and those views and the exchanges that stem from them are pure gold for the thinking/decision process <3 IP: Logged |
itsmeyaz
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posted August 05, 2019 06:54 AM
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