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Topic: Is this connection toxic?
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ktmiuna
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posted August 01, 2019 03:37 AM
  
Honestly he has already done some crappy things but he seems to be remorseful and open to learning. I'm uncertain though, and would appreciate insight. [IMG]https://i1380.photobucket.com/albums/ah188/Ktmiuna/astro_61gw_k t_miuna_jorge.26860.80228_zpsuhgekxqu.png[/IMG] [IMG]https://i1380.photobucket.com/albums/ah188/Ktmiuna/astro_621gw _kt_miuna_jorge.26940.84371_zpsjzgrksgx.png[/IMG] IP: Logged |
Moonlight17
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posted August 02, 2019 04:23 AM
I believe toxicity in relationships has to do with Pluto in synastry. Most probably the more negative aspects, and if you also have the aspect in your chart it could go either way.(that is if you are familiarized by the energy and you know how to handle it or you don’t wanna deal with it again.) I believe this since Pluto is usually about power struggles, control and manipulation. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted August 02, 2019 07:18 PM
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Originally posted by ktmiuna:
Honestly he has already done some crappy things but he seems to be remorseful and open to learning. I'm uncertain though, and would appreciate insight. [IMG]https://i1380.photobucket.com/albums/ah188/Ktmiuna/astro_61gw_k t_miuna_jorge.26860.80228_zpsuhgekxqu.png[/IMG] [IMG]https://i1380.photobucket.com/albums/ah188/Ktmiuna/astro_621gw _kt_miuna_jorge.26940.84371_zpsjzgrksgx.png[/IMG]
Are you inside or outside? IP: Logged |
ktmiuna
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posted August 04, 2019 03:35 PM
I am inside, sorry late reply I didn't think anyone would respond. IP: Logged |
ktmiuna
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posted August 04, 2019 03:36 PM
I am just tired of being lied to and pressured into things against my will.
If you see signs of abuse I want to just leave it as is I don't want to explore this anymore. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
Knowflake Posts: 406
From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted August 05, 2019 11:46 PM
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Originally posted by ktmiuna:
I am inside, sorry late reply I didn't think anyone would respond.
Hi ktmiuna,
you both seem to look for mutual support and there is a certain comfort zone at the intimacy level, which can be deep. But you have DW Saturn square Uranus and DW Pluto square Moon, so such intimacy can have a dark and oppressive side. He especially has a deep self-worth issue and a certain level of selfishness in demanding your support and devotion that can drain your energy and might lead you to emotionally detach. This is also shown from the Composite, where Pluto square Moon can become abusive and Uranus/Saturn opposite Sun/Venus can potentially destroy the bond. This is very unstable, there are trust issues and it all can become stressful. Your Sun/Mercury in 3rd house trine Jupiter suggests that communication is the key you should work about in this relationship, to develope mutual understanding, otherwise yes, I think this rs might become "toxic". IP: Logged |
ktmiuna
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posted August 06, 2019 10:36 PM
Thank-you for your help. ♥IP: Logged |
todd
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posted August 09, 2019 01:34 PM
hi ktmiuna
I would classify this as toxic as the mars/Venus midpoint is conjunct to chiron and opposed to Neptune.this shows he is unfaithful and deceptive .in addition with chiron ,he is going to criticize and denigrate you .especially when he is looking for others.he will blame you for everything that is wrong and claim he is good for you while he tears you down emotionally. he uses sexuality for some purpose besides affection.
with the vertex square to chiron and Neptune ,he can e totally evil and betray you.he is untrustworthy and can't be trusted. the vertex adds a otherworldly energy, so sometime the relationship might feel destined to be, but the vertex can also bring perverse energies that don't really have anything to do with you or the relationship with him todd
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