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dribaby
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posted August 10, 2019 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dribaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it really hard to stay in a committed relationship with this aspect?

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Randall
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posted August 11, 2019 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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MJ82
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posted August 12, 2019 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MJ82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Warren Beaty and Annette Bening have this in their composite and have been together for decades!

I think his link discusses their composite and synastry (can’t reopen it now for some reason to check though):
https://star4cast.com/warren-beatty-aries-sun-scorpio-moon-with-an-airy-wife/

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Chaitaly
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posted August 12, 2019 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this but in synastry DW (each Saturn square the other's Sun); it was my longest relationship, almost 9 years; but in the end we were feeling very restricted by the other and still the bond was hard to break; there were a bunch of Saturn aspects in synastry and composite. Also what was initially a committed loving relationship (there were other romantic aspects, and smooth aspects between Sun-Moon, Moons, Venus, etc. we were also living together since the 5th year - Saturn-Sun-Pluto conjunct in compo 4th house), after some years turned out to be quite cold, and still there was this sense of responsibility and we shared our duties but there was also inability to express anything else, and as far as I can remember, the last 2 years I didn't feel free to be myself - being constantly judged by the other, and I felt colder and colder. I think Saturn works like this but over time and I don't know if we can really predict when true commitment will just transform into a cold habit. It was worth it anyway, a very important and serious rel.

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dribaby
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posted August 13, 2019 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dribaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
I had this but in synastry DW (each Saturn square the other's Sun); it was my longest relationship, almost 9 years; but in the end we were feeling very restricted by the other and still the bond was hard to break; there were a bunch of Saturn aspects in synastry and composite. Also what was initially a committed loving relationship (there were other romantic aspects, and smooth aspects between Sun-Moon, Moons, Venus, etc. we were also living together since the 5th year - Saturn-Sun-Pluto conjunct in compo 4th house), after some years turned out to be quite cold, and still there was this sense of responsibility and we shared our duties but there was also inability to express anything else, and as far as I can remember, the last 2 years I didn't feel free to be myself - being constantly judged by the other, and I felt colder and colder. I think Saturn works like this but over time and I don't know if we can really predict when true commitment will just transform into a cold habit. It was worth it anyway, a very important and serious rel.

Did you still love each other or fell out of love?

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Chaitaly
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posted August 13, 2019 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by dribaby:
Did you still love each other or fell out of love?

At the end there was still a sort of affection -in fact we still talked after the break up, and he wanted to see me the next year, but I refused- but love was gone.
I don't harbor resentment but the relationship just continued to deteriorate with time for various reasons, and it was also quite toxic towards the end, just a lot of coldness and anger (for him, Cancer Mars squared by Pluto - he had outbursts, so scary xD).

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