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Somna7H
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posted August 11, 2019 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Due to some Privacy I'm unable to disclose detail info. But wanna hear basic results of the following relationship.

A Male and B Female

Now in Synastry A put his 5 Planets in B 7th House.Venus,Moon, North Node, Mercury and Sun in 7th House of B. Also Venus and Moon Conjunct Dsc without 3° Orb.
In Synastry Sun, Moon and Mercury of B in 6th House of A. Venus in 8th.

In Composite there are Sun, Mercury and Venus in 7th House. Moon in 6th but close to Dsc within 5° Orb.

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posted August 12, 2019 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It would be easier if we could see the charts - syn and compo.
Do you have exact TOB?
Can you post them here?

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posted August 12, 2019 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Blue Male and Red Female.

Synastry:

Composite:

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posted August 12, 2019 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, I'm coming back to this soon.

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posted August 13, 2019 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK.
I will wait.

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posted August 13, 2019 05:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

May I ask before posting the reply, just to be sure, this is a love interest right?

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posted August 13, 2019 05:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Chaitaly:

May I ask before posting the reply, just to be sure, this is a love interest right?

Yes...

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posted August 13, 2019 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Finally, I'm here.
So, I can see there's an age gap, the two Saturns are in opposition which shows that the difference may be of 14 years approximately. I would start from here, but I'll just go to the very point. Each Saturn is situated in the polarity point of the other, thus searching for its own wholeness in the other; there may be repulsion at first before learning to cooperate, or this aspect may not be noticed at first but then between the 2 people will start this dance of growth. Saturn is exalted in Libra (for the male), while it can be a little bit tougher for the Aries Saturn (lessons of confidence here involved); the aspect gives a lot of staying power, but it doesn’t necessary mean staying together. Expect the exposure of everything that Saturn has represented for each individual in life and a challenging of old patterns. There's usually a pull between the 2 but it takes maturity to handle this well and get the rewards. Communication is the key (male Mercury falls in this midpoint and makes soft aspect to her Moon-Mercury).

Talking about the 7th house. These overlays are seen as generally favorable for partnerships of any kind, and they can create attraction and a pull towards the person (the house person being activated by those energies), but let’s see. Now, the blue puts his Cancer Moon-Mercury conjunction in red 7th house, and blue Gemini Venus is conjunct red DSC, at the same time opposing red Venus and Mars and ASC in Sagittarius; a lot of attraction I would say between these opposites, and Venus can have a glimpse of wholeness through a polarity (and the DSC-ASC opposition creates a pull as well), but the 2 also love in very different styles; very significant contact also considering that for the male Venus is the ruler of his Asc (Taurus), so here's the attraction and compatibility. The red Mars in the 12th house though can be troublesome, issues with anger-management, the person can tend to flee from conflicts, and being conj the Asc it is very possible for the person to have gone through some difficult experience in life -possibility of feeling threatened or being bullied in younger years. Strong presence anyway and with that Venus-Asc falling on male 8th house cusp, the male is deeply attracted, and the overlay encourages intimate sharing, something that watery people (Cancer-Scorpio) treasure a lot. With natal Venus-Neptune opposition though the male is prone to idealization and being conjunct her planets and Asc the male is bewitched by her to say the least, watch out because here male idealism is on the forefront, and confusion may be as well, but, at its best, this can be also unconditional acceptance of Asc person.

Another intense contact comes with that female Pluto from the 12th house conjunct male Uranus-Dsc conjunction, and making an opposition to male Chiron on the Asc. Pluto-uranus-dsc: transformational, turbulent, intensely sexual, quite a ride. The inventiveness/individuality/erratic tendencies of the male in contact with female deepest essence, complexity and raw tendencies, while Pluto can be clinging and controlling, and in this natal position (Pluto in 12th house) the female needs to transform her own subconscious, a person that first and foremost needs to understand herself and embrace her darkest side. There can be many “deaths” and “rebirths” of the rel with this combo, and unexpected upheavals. Since this is in opposition to male Chiron, issues are related to healing the Asc person wounds through the Pluto depths and power, the male can sense the potential for healing from Pluto person. Soft Pluto aspects in synastry to Venus also point to this transformational effect of the rel through love, very attuned to what the Scorpio person seeks and needs. The composite is really strong I would say with that stellium (Sun-Venus-Mercury conj, the love stellium, so the 2 people should feel soo comfortable in each other’s company). With Sun-Moon conjunction on the Dsc, both feel bonded in this rel, blended, and Uranus square Venus suggests there was an immediate attraction, for one at least, or both. Again a strong plutonic theme with Pluto square the nodes, intense and challenging. I guess with Aqua-Leo nodes there can be a theme of the couple feeling they do not conform to norms, rel can be unconventional, couple is pushed forward to find authenticity (Leo), the issue may be about defining the relationship and finally being themselves, with Pluto intensifying the growth; with nodes in the 12th-6th houses though the rel requires a constant work and what comes out from this rel may not be for the mere individual benefit. Composite Chiron is also conjunct this Leo NN, there is a sense of uniqueness or nonconforming in this rel (maybe for the age difference?) and places a purpose on healing or “teaching” each other, this is definitely a theme in the rel I guess.

Don’t know if something resonates. Let me know. Hope it helps.

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posted August 13, 2019 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Chaitaly

First of all thank you very much for your valuable time and energy spent for me. I appreciate it.

At initial state before face to face meeting it repulsion. She is raw and physical and I'm totally opposite dreamy and sensual. My main fear is physical part but nothing. Don't know if that part can be seen from natal chart or not.
I may have Exalted Saturn but I always feel immature. If this relationship goes for long I'm sure I will never be the same again. I don't know if I have any capacity to change others. Yes, Communication is the key and I always trying to doing this correctly. I would say this is attraction in polarity. Love style different. Yes I don't like conflict at all and I'm still bullied by most.
This is less than a month and only a couples of meeting. So not everything unfolded yet. But I feel the challenge even at this very very beginning. I think I'm the doubtful person here.

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posted August 13, 2019 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
@Chaitaly

First of all thank you very much for your valuable time and energy spent for me. I appreciate it.

At initial state before face to face meeting it repulsion. She is raw and physical and I'm totally opposite dreamy and sensual. My main fear is physical part but nothing. Don't know if that part can be seen from natal chart or not.
I may have Exalted Saturn but I always feel immature. If this relationship goes for long I'm sure I will never be the same again. I don't know if I have any capacity to change others. Yes, Communication is the key and I always trying to doing this correctly. I would say this is attraction in polarity. Love style different. Yes I don't like conflict at all and I'm still bullied by most.
This is less than a month and only a couples of meeting. So not everything unfolded yet. But I feel the challenge even at this very very beginning. I think I'm the doubtful person here.


Somna,are you the female in this?
Sorry but from the nickname sometimes it can be misunderstood XD

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posted August 13, 2019 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
@Chaitaly

First of all thank you very much for your valuable time and energy spent for me. I appreciate it.

At initial state before face to face meeting it repulsion. She is raw and physical and I'm totally opposite dreamy and sensual. My main fear is physical part but nothing. Don't know if that part can be seen from natal chart or not.
I may have Exalted Saturn but I always feel immature. If this relationship goes for long I'm sure I will never be the same again. I don't know if I have any capacity to change others. Yes, Communication is the key and I always trying to doing this correctly. I would say this is attraction in polarity. Love style different. Yes I don't like conflict at all and I'm still bullied by most.
This is less than a month and only a couples of meeting. So not everything unfolded yet. But I feel the challenge even at this very very beginning. I think I'm the doubtful person here.


Yes the issue with Saturn in Libra can be an inferiority complex mostly regarding relationships (Libra) and fear of rejection. So it certainly gives you a cautious approach in these matters.

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posted August 13, 2019 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
Somna,are you the female in this?
Sorry but from the nickname sometimes it can be misunderstood XD

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Nope, unfortunately I'm the male here.

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posted August 13, 2019 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
Yes the issue with Saturn in Libra can be an inferiority complex mostly regarding relationships (Libra) and fear of rejection. So it certainly gives you a cautious approach in these matters.


My only fear is physical incapabilites right now. I'm not sure if I'm enough for her vigour. Before meeting her my fear was my poor economic and social status. Damn what a twist in my life. Don't know God have what plan for me. But may be there is fear of of rejection deep inside me cos I'm born unlucky person.

Note that I Never be 100% sure about anything in my life until I do it. It's my poor natural. I have doubts in myself.

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posted August 13, 2019 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to hear about you being bullied. I send love to you.
How do you live your Chiron conj Asc? Ii suggests a wound related to physical appearance, or you perceive difficulty in building up your self-worth?
A challenging aspect in your chart, since you asked, it's Venus opposite Neptune, so you can feel like struggling to get love or financial security; be careful with investing blindly both in love or financial matters so to prevent major losses; but you can heal Neptune fear bringing some beauty to your life.
Also for lack of sense of financial stability that you mention I see the 2nd house cusp in Gemini; Gemini may not know what to do in order to bring stability, and Cancer tends to let things flow. Mercury conj NN in 2nd house seems concerned a lot with matters of acquiring wealth, and self-esteem is connected to it.
With Uranus on your Dsc do you tend to attract unstable/erratic/unconventional partners?
I wonder also if the girl has expressed interest or if you've started as friends for now.

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posted August 13, 2019 09:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Sorry to hear about you being bullied. I send love to you.
How do you live your Chiron conj Asc? Ii suggests a wound related to physical appearance, or you perceive difficulty in building up your self-worth?

Thank you dear!
Bully ? Actually reason is opposite here. I'm way more beautiful, handsome with charms than most here. Even more than way younger guys. But people jealous and Envy of me. That's why they bully me.
Yes financial security is important for me. But what a tragedy. Even though I'm enough educated I'm poor.
The girl showing more and more interest in me day by day. First she will will say rudely than I don't like man without this feature. Next day when she find I have that good quality she will be more attracted to me. And hypnotized by her since day one. The girl interested in me. I'm the unfortunate who unable to help her yet. Note this is the first girl in my life and I have no problem spending rest of my life with her. I don't care about society if she support me. I just wanna know if we are match for each other or not through Astrology. Our birth time very very accurate.

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posted August 14, 2019 01:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do Lilith and Vertex consider in Composite Chart ? Lilith Square Node I just checked.
It means Lilith Conjunct Pluto too. Also her Vertex Conjunct my IC.

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posted August 14, 2019 05:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Do Lilith and Vertex consider in Composite Chart ? Lilith Square Node I just checked.
It means Lilith Conjunct Pluto too. Also her Vertex Conjunct my IC.

There are very significant interaspects between composite and natals too. I think the NN-Chiron conjunction in the compo is conjunct her Vertex and your natal IC. Vertex in general brings you a sense of a fated union and you are touched in your core (IC).
Lilith contacts are just plain hot, but also soulful, sexual and deep, possibly obsessive; it's our deepest desires coming to the surface when there's a contact with planets.

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posted August 14, 2019 06:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you very much!
I think it's fated too.
I never expected this type of relationship in my whole life. Let's see what God has for me.

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posted August 14, 2019 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Thank you very much!
I think it's fated too.
I never expected this type of relationship in my whole life. Let's see what God has for me.

Keep us updated
Blessings.

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posted August 14, 2019 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
Keep us updated
Blessings.

Is it possible to find male's physical capacity(sex) from natal chart ?
I'm talking about myself.

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My Chart :
http://imgur.com/hCRDawD

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posted August 14, 2019 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Is it possible to find male's physical capacity(sex) from natal chart ?
I'm talking about myself.


Mm you can try and start a new thread on this one, maybe here or in Personal Readings too, posting your natal chart.

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posted August 14, 2019 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
Mm you can try and start a new thread on this one, maybe here or in Personal Readings too, posting your natal chart.

No, its OK I will take the risk.

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posted August 15, 2019 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know why but our meeting plans getting cancelled one by one. She facing issues from her family. A day mom's health issue and day father etc. We are feeling invisible obstacles and obstructions.

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posted August 16, 2019 05:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chaitaly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I don't know why but our meeting plans getting cancelled one by one. She facing issues from her family. A day mom's health issue and day father etc. We are feeling invisible obstacles and obstructions.

Among other things, Saturn opposite Mars con bring frustration -something just doesn’t seem to happen, or it takes a long time to do so. Looking at the charts and noticing the 6th-12th emphasis I could sense something related to health could get in the way but it’s more a feeling I had; someone here has to look after someone else...

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posted August 29, 2019 12:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you!

She has Rx Saturn in 4th. Currently due to her parents we having meeting problem. And there are other obstruction. May be these are due to my Exalted Saturn Conjunct Mars(7th Lord) in Libra 5th House.


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