posted August 17, 2019 10:34 PM            

I slowly fell for the person.. what started off as a joke.
I know the synastry seems difficult. But, i need help from you experts. As in how to handle it. What should i Do so I can develop this further. Who feels what in this relationship? And I am the Capricorn.
I am willing to do the work. Right now I am taking a break from this. I want to know when can I reach out to the person again.
And how and what should I approach with?
This person has woken me up. I never felt this about anyone else. So, come what may, I am willing to do what it takes, and I am looking for your advice on how to approach. Thank you!

Our Duad/Dwad is also connected to Radix.

What do you see?

This is the Synastry

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Aspect List

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For if you want to use the parallel contra parallel

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Composite Davidson

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Aspect list for Davidson

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His Sun is conj the Composite north node

Composite Midpoint
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posted August 18, 2019 03:59 PM            

I have to admit I am having a hard time finding any lasting real compatibility in this composite.

I assume you haven't met them face to face yet. with Neptune square the sun,in a internet meeting, usually significant aspects are not fully revealed. there is usually something be held back. but in any composite with Neptune square the sun,one must be careful because deception of self deception is very likely. here with Neptune conjunct to Jupiter the likelihood is even higher that there are significant misrepresentations occurring. in terms of relationships this aspect most often shows insincerity toward a serious relationship.
here the juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct to Uranus which is unfavorable for a long term relationship..though this can give an excitement to your first meeting , especially as there seems to be a very open and alive mental connection between to you.

the venus/mars midpoint is opposed to chiron which also is unfavorable, though it can give a unusual eccentric attraction because this aspect shows that he is not the type of person you are usually attracted to. something is a bit quirky here, but maybe this is part of the attraction. but either way chiron does not give a very emotionally sensitive connection. it does give a very analytical appeal but Chiron tends to bring excessively judgmental viewpoints. it can bring s feeling that you are becoming intimate because the sharing of deep feelings and responses but the slightest arguments can turn destructive as you tend to know both your weak points and strengths.

pluto on the ascendant can be very selfish and relationship can be difficult because compromises seldom made.
in addition nessus is square to Saturn which shows he is particularly set in his ways and demands to control the relationship and the partner. I think your last relationship was abusive in some manner because you seemed to be attracted to the same potential here.

I don't intend to be offensive but I think your heart is in the clouds.the vertex/node is conjunct to vesta. this can give a supernatural feeling that the impulse for a family setting is somehow a foregone conclusion. but the vertex energy does not easily turn into a normal relationship.
this is overall not a nurturing chart. I speculate that you are talking things too serious or seeing you dreams rather than the reality before you with him.

the Jupiter/sun/Venus T square is about the only indication that there is a emotional potential here. but with so much illusion through Neptune and so much higher energy running through the chart, it is difficult to see a normal relationship developing...

I suggest you let him make the first move.

posted August 20, 2019 12:24 PM            

And do you guys go with Midpoint Composite or Davidson?

posted August 20, 2019 01:02 PM            

But there hasn’t been a day or a waking moment I didn’t think of him after that.
I even had a dream about him.. so yeah even when I am not wake.

posted August 20, 2019 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Sinder:
Todd.. well I kind of said that I am gonna stop talking to him..
And after that how can I do anything I don’t know😓

But there hasn’t been a day or a waking moment I didn’t think of him after that.
I even had a dream about him.. so yeah even when I am not wake.

Well I just checked my progressed chart.. the sun is training his sun to the exact.

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the node/vertex conjunction is a very powerful "psychic/ethereal connection" so it doesn't surprise me that you have such energies with him.but as I have said these "higher plane energies" are very difficult to translate into the human plane of reality

posted August 20, 2019 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
the node/vertex conjunction is a very powerful "psychic/ethereal connection" so it doesn't surprise me that you have such energies with him.but as I have said these "higher plane energies" are very difficult to translate into the human plane of reality

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Thank you.. does it feel it too? Or is it just me?
Since it’s his south node with my moon Pluto and Asc..
And it’s my vertex and his moon and Venus.. Have you experienced this before?

Also what do you think since I asked at 10:34pm voc moon...
actually it was voc moon exactly at that minute. Is it the question itself?

Do you see Davidson too? Or is it not relevant?

posted August 26, 2019 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Sinder:
Thank you.. does it feel it too? Or is it just me?
Since it’s his south node with my moon Pluto and Asc..
And it’s my vertex and his moon and Venus.. Have you experienced this before?

Also what do you think since I asked at 10:34pm voc moon...
actually it was voc moon exactly at that minute. Is it the question itself?

Do you see Davidson too? Or is it not relevant?

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I think you both would feel it but as I often caution,vertex aspects don't usually translate into the emotional responses you would think. that is even though there is attractive vibration,this "vertex" attraction might now act like a aspect that one would expect you bring you together if just to explore the feelings.

I don't sue synastry much when trying to understand relationships.
here with his SN on your pluto /ascendant, I would expect his energies to make you obsessive about him whether he reciprocates the feelings you have or not..

with your vertex on his moon and venus, one would expect that the has an attraction, but as I mentioned about,the vertex often shows that he will not react to these feelings as one would expect.

I don't know how asking while the moon is VOC would affect the answer, as you are exhibiting the obsessive qualities I mentioned, all you can do is as the question again after the moon has made an aspect.