posted August 20, 2019 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by SadalSuud211:
Hahah I have this exact same setup with my bf of 8yrs whom I live with.. His pluto rests in my 4th house in Scorpio and is squaring my Sun/mer/des conjunction in Aqua, and ofc also squaring my asc in leo but im not done its ALSO opp my moon!!.. Boy lemme tell you, weve had ALOTTA verbal fights, there is always a disagreement about who wears the pants. I think having the aspects in fixed signs makes it worse too.. Usually what happens is Sometimes one of us will be forced to give up our power through circumstances. For instance I used to be jobless and he paid for everything so basically he got to make all the rules but for the last year or so its been flipped and Im the main breadwinner now. But we still argue about whos in control and he is constantly trying to tell me what to do - he doesnt like me to go out the house he wants me at home right up under him at all times, I cant even sit in another room he will constantly come in as he says, "just to check on me" but hey scorpio/pluto is intense like that so if you dont like intensity dont move in with this person thats all I can say lol love him to death though I think its probably a karmic that I cant let go..

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posted August 20, 2019 09:15 PM            

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Originally posted by SadalSuud211:
At first it was mutual and I enjoyed staying home, Im still a introvert as an aqua sun but I NEED to be free, no strings attached kinda thing, which if it wasnt for that pluto shouldnt be too hard for a sag and aqua to achieve right? But unfortunately yes, now it does bug me, but I remind myself that Im lucky to not be out on the dating scene right now and that I have someone who is home with me everynight, I dont have to worry about what hes doing out with the boys or wondering why he never wants to spend time with me. Its quite the opposite in fact, throughout all the power struggles and arguments were still each others best friends and we even say so to each other.

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posted August 22, 2019 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by SadalSuud211:
Nope definitely not the worse, very intense but at the same time id say its also very bonding (:

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posted August 22, 2019 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by SadalSuud211:
Im warning you now though this relationship will transform you lol at least it was very transformative for me in the way that, alot of those power struggles I mentioned had to do with certain habits each of us had that the other didnt like but, that in the end werent really good for us.. For example I used to be really lazy and didnt care about having a job but he pushed me to be more of a go-getter hard-working type of person, which is in line with my capricorn north node. He had alot of emotional/anger issues that I helped him work through and now hes alot calmer and relaxed and has learned to control himself a bit more through me. We also helped each other open up emotionally, I can come home sit down and tell him anything under the sun. I can also completely be my totally true weird self in front of him and he doesnt care, hed never judge me. If youre interested in a chart swap just let me know Im actually kind of curious what your synastry looks like compared to ours now lol theyre probably pretty similar Id bet

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Wow I love how this relationship really transformed both of you in extreme ways. It sounds beautiful to be able to be yourself around someone and not feel judged or misunderstood. I know both of you grew to become so comfortable with one another and that's what relationships are all about. Growing with each other.

posted August 22, 2019 01:56 AM            

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Originally posted by dribaby:
Wow I love how this relationship really transformed both of you in extreme ways. It sounds beautiful to be able to be yourself around someone and not feel judged or misunderstood. I know both of you grew to become so comfortable with one another and that's what relationships are all about. Growing with each other.

And lol yes we can swap but me and his synastry is very strange. I honestly think it's the venus sextile pluto in our composite that keeps us binded and close together but I will post both the synastry and composite. You can do the same

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posted August 22, 2019 04:17 AM            

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Originally posted by SadalSuud211:

Hahahha we have venus conjunct pluto!! Heres links to the charts -
Synastry: https://imgur.com/cWPlnzF
Composite: https://imgur.com/QvBa4sY

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posted August 22, 2019 04:24 AM            

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Hahahha we have venus conjunct pluto!! Heres links to the charts -
Synastry: https://imgur.com/cWPlnzF
Composite: https://imgur.com/QvBa4sY

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posted August 22, 2019 04:47 AM            

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Hahahha we have venus conjunct pluto!! Heres links to the charts -
Synastry: https://imgur.com/cWPlnzF
Composite: https://imgur.com/QvBa4sY

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posted August 22, 2019 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by dribaby:
And I see he has multiple planets in your 4th house which probably lightens the pluto being in there. I can understand why he's so attached and want you underneath him! So beautiful. Also, how do you feel about his Saturn in your 5th? I had that aspect with my ex and it was horribleee 😩 but then again we did have a lot of hard saturn aspects so that made it even worse.

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posted August 22, 2019 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by SadalSuud211:
Saturn in 5th I do notice as hes not very romantic and I get on him about being more affectionate (my ven/mars in cap needs physical attention) but it doesnt affect the fun we have together, we have similar interests and hobbies so theres no problem there. Weve been arguing alot lately though, Ive just had mars, sun, ven, and juno transit my asc and all are still currently hanging out in my 1st house AND pluto and saturn rx in my 5th, and not gonna lie its got me a lil worried!!

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Okay that makes sense!! But you're Pluto going thru your 5th can play out as you having a child as well so don't be worried. It probably won't happen until Saturn leave out of your 5th.