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Topic: What do you think of this synastry
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Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 04, 2019 05:09 PM
Hey everyone! Would anyone mind having a look at this synastry and tell me your thoughts? I can’t seem to keep away from this man. I’m inside - Pisces sun Forgive me I am having trouble attaching my chart
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 117505 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 05, 2019 12:43 PM
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Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 05, 2019 03:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Welcome!
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Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 08:22 AM
BumpI’d be grateful of any insight if anyone wouldn’t mind looking IP: Logged |
roseblue Newflake Posts: 14 From: UK Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 08:34 AM
I’m still learning to read charts visually but if you post some of the aspects I might be able to take a look IP: Logged |
Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 10:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by roseblue: I’m still learning to read charts visually but if you post some of the aspects I might be able to take a look
Thank you that’s really kind do you know the best we site to get those. I have them on an app so could just type them out if that’s easier IP: Logged |
roseblue Newflake Posts: 14 From: UK Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 10:16 AM
Hey Yeah I'm still learning too but if you post the aspects from the app I can look into them for you IP: Logged |
Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 10:32 AM
Aww thank you much appreciated My sun trine his Saturn My mercury square his mercury My mercury square his Neptune My Venus Sextile his sun My mars Conjunct his Venus My Jupiter sexile his mercury My jupiter trine his Mars My Jupiter trine his Pluto My Neptune opposite his moon My Pluto trine his moon My Midheaven opposite his moon My Midheaven Conjunct his moon My sun square his venus My moon Conjunct his sun There’s loads there forgive me IP: Logged |
roseblue Newflake Posts: 14 From: UK Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 10:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by Skeletonb0nes: Aww thank you much appreciated My sun trine his Saturn My mercury square his mercury My mercury square his Neptune My Venus Sextile his sun My mars Conjunct his Venus My Jupiter sexile his mercury My jupiter trine his Mars My Jupiter trine his Pluto My Neptune opposite his moon My Pluto trine his moon My Midheaven opposite his moon My Midheaven Conjunct his moon My sun square his venus My moon Conjunct his sun There’s loads there forgive me
Okay babe. I've picked out some aspects to look into. I'd love to know more about this relationship. Whats the story here? what are your sun signs etc? My sun trine his Saturn A lovely aspect to have - mutual trust and respect which will hit you strongly. This is a a good friendship aspect. Is your Saturn partner older than you? Maybe wiser? My mercury square his mercury This is powerful and will be strongly felt between you - This suggests a difference of ideas and how you express yourselves. Do you find you argue a lot? It suggests to me that you may fight over your communication styles. My mercury square his Neptune
Again communication issues coming up - this suggests that you may find his style of expressing himself at odds with hoe you like to talk. Is he ever evasive? My Venus Sextile his sun A lovely aspect - Romantic, you relate well to each In areas of romance. This is often an aspect I see in romantic partnerships. My mars Conjunct his Venus Oh boy! This is a hot one. I’ve had this aspect before and you are in for some hot sex. This is great passionate, sexual aspect. My Midheaven opposite his moon
This is an interesting one - relates to domestic affairs. Its a good aspects for business partners. Maybe something to do with childcare or family My sun square his venus
Powerful sexual vibes here again, you two will be VERY attracted to each other. My moon Conjunct his sun This is powerful too - ying and yang. You will feel like you both complete each other. I would say that without any more background this looks like a powerful match - karmic or soulmate is hinted. I need to know some more on the backstory though IP: Logged |
Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 12:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by roseblue: Okay babe. I've picked out some aspects to look into. I'd love to know more about this relationship. Whats the story here? what are your sun signs etc?My sun trine his Saturn A lovely aspect to have - mutual trust and respect which will hit you strongly. This is a a good friendship aspect. Is your Saturn partner older than you? Maybe wiser? My mercury square his mercury This is powerful and will be strongly felt between you - This suggests a difference of ideas and how you express yourselves. Do you find you argue a lot? It suggests to me that you may fight over your communication styles. My mercury square his Neptune
Again communication issues coming up - this suggests that you may find his style of expressing himself at odds with hoe you like to talk. Is he ever evasive? My Venus Sextile his sun A lovely aspect - Romantic, you relate well to each In areas of romance. This is often an aspect I see in romantic partnerships. My mars Conjunct his Venus Oh boy! This is a hot one. I’ve had this aspect before and you are in for some hot sex. This is great passionate, sexual aspect. My Midheaven opposite his moon
This is an interesting one - relates to domestic affairs. Its a good aspects for business partners. Maybe something to do with childcare or family My sun square his venus
Powerful sexual vibes here again, you two will be VERY attracted to each other. My moon Conjunct his sun This is powerful too - ying and yang. You will feel like you both complete each other. I would say that without any more background this looks like a powerful match - karmic or soulmate is hinted. I need to know some more on the backstory though
Oh my good you literally read the situation like a book. Yes he’s older.We’ve known each other and spoke on and off for 8 years. Always been massive sexual chemistry between us but we haven’t had sex. We’ve always gravitated to each other but one of us has always been in a relationship. We are like magnets. Can’t stay mad at each other for long. But you’re so right about communication. I find him very irritating because I’m very forthright with how I feel and about everything really and he’s very evasive and guarded although he has opened up to me so deeply at times but he closes off again almost like he’s like oh god I’m vulnerable where as I don’t care about being vulnerable I’m a typical Pisces sun. I have cap moon, Aries rising. He’s Capricorn sun cancer moon and sag rising. As much as I hate to admit it I think it’s karmic and I hate that because I’ve never felt this way about anyone. It’s like we’ve met before, heart racing, lump in your throat, sexual tension annoying as hell dynamic haha. I appreciate you doing this so much
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roseblue Newflake Posts: 14 From: UK Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 12:34 PM
Yay i'm so glad I could help. I can feel from your description that this is a powerful bond. It s actually super similar to a situation I'm going through as well - even the timeframe haha. I can tell a soulmate connection I thinkWhats stopping you guys getting together? because there is clearly a strong pull between you both. I'm also aries rising, so we like to get things moving and out in the open. Evasive commuication is so tricky for us. x
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Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 01:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by roseblue: Yay i'm so glad I could help. I can feel from your description that this is a powerful bond. It s actually super similar to a situation I'm going through as well - even the timeframe haha. I can tell a soulmate connection I thinkWhats stopping you guys getting together? because there is clearly a strong pull between you both. I'm also aries rising, so we like to get things moving and out in the open. Evasive commuication is so tricky for us. x
Is a crazy feeling to explain but you seem to know what I mean from your own experience. We haven’t actually physically spoken in all those years but we’ve video chatted and spoken lots on messenger. We have seen each other and we both froze it’s honestly like a movie but we were both with people and going the opposite way but it was like time just froze. We are both in relationships at the minute and have always been respectful of that. We’ve always sort of missed each other like timing was wrong and one of us or both was involved. He always says to me that he is sure we will end up together. It’s otherworldly without sounding too in my head which I know I can do as Pisces. But the communication is a massive problem for me. He can hurt me and I’ve told him when he avoids things or ignores me because he doesn’t want to answer something and yet he still does it. But I think it’s just the differences between us as I imagine if he’s more closed off and doesn’t want to be vulnerable I must do his head in too. Ah really I’m intrigued so tell me a little about your situation if you feel comfortable. What are your signs? X
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roseblue Newflake Posts: 14 From: UK Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 01:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Skeletonb0nes: Is a crazy feeling to explain but you seem to know what I mean from your own experience. We haven’t actually physically spoken in all those years but we’ve video chatted and spoken lots on messenger. We have seen each other and we both froze it’s honestly like a movie but we were both with people and going the opposite way but it was like time just froze. We are both in relationships at the minute and have always been respectful of that. We’ve always sort of missed each other like timing was wrong and one of us or both was involved. He always says to me that he is sure we will end up together. It’s otherworldly without sounding too in my head which I know I can do as Pisces. But the communication is a massive problem for me. He can hurt me and I’ve told him when he avoids things or ignores me because he doesn’t want to answer something and yet he still does it. But I think it’s just the differences between us as I imagine if he’s more closed off and doesn’t want to be vulnerable I must do his head in too. Ah really I’m intrigued so tell me a little about your situation if you feel comfortable. What are your signs? X
I know that feeling of time freezing when you see each other! its like being in a dream. I would look to the moon aspects to learn more about how you relate to one another. Cancer moon is a very sensative placement, easily hurt and I can imagine thats why he gets evasive. Whereas your moon in Cap is much more straightford. Are you okay with being friends for now? because with aspects like you two have you still have a super great connection that doesnt have to be romantic. What is your current BF/GF's chart? we could look at that too if you wanted? My situation is that we met 8 years ago, both very commited to other people so became best friends. There was always a super strong sexual desire though and honestly it did effect our relationships. About a year ago we finally found ourselves both single at the same time but he keeps going hot and cold on me. One minute he wants to get married the next he is distant. So as of last month we are not together. Its complicated.
I am Taurus sun, aries rising and gemini moon He is pisces sun, libra rising and aries moon. IP: Logged |
Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 02:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by roseblue: I know that feeling of time freezing when you see each other! its like being in a dream.I would look to the moon aspects to learn more about how you relate to one another. Cancer moon is a very sensative placement, easily hurt and I can imagine thats why he gets evasive. Whereas your moon in Cap is much more straightford. Are you okay with being friends for now? because with aspects like you two have you still have a super great connection that doesnt have to be romantic. What is your current BF/GF's chart? we could look at that too if you wanted? My situation is that we met 8 years ago, both very commited to other people so became best friends. There was always a super strong sexual desire though and honestly it did effect our relationships. About a year ago we finally found ourselves both single at the same time but he keeps going hot and cold on me. One minute he wants to get married the next he is distant. So as of last month we are not together. Its complicated.
I am Taurus sun, aries rising and gemini moon He is pisces sun, libra rising and aries moon.
I would love to be friends with him but he said he would struggle with it because there is too much between us. We aren’t actually talking at the minute as he started to ignore me again for days and to me you don’t care if you can do that so I probably immaturely blocked him from social media. He has my number though and hasn’t reached out. He always starts these weird situations between us when we are getting on well and ruins things. I can never seem to keep away though. Oh that’s so kind of you I’ll write down some aspects again of my current bf thank you.
His moon opp my asc His Mars square my Mars His Mars opp my sun His sun opp my venus His venus opp my asc His asc trine my Mars His Mars trine my moon His sun opp my mercury Ah our situations are quite similar in some regards then. I hate that hot and cold thing and I get it from him too. Are oh talking at the moment then or just keeping away for now. I mean in both our situations if it’s gone on for 8 years that has to be something right? X IP: Logged |
roseblue Newflake Posts: 14 From: UK Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 02:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Skeletonb0nes: I would love to be friends with him but he said he would struggle with it because there is too much between us. We aren’t actually talking at the minute as he started to ignore me again for days and to me you don’t care if you can do that so I probably immaturely blocked him from social media. He has my number though and hasn’t reached out. He always starts these weird situations between us when we are getting on well and ruins things. I can never seem to keep away though. Oh that’s so kind of you I’ll write down some aspects again of my current bf thank you.His moon opp my asc His Mars square my Mars His Mars opp my sun His sun opp my venus His venus opp my asc His asc trine my Mars His Mars trine my moon His sun opp my mercury Ah our situations are quite similar in some regards then. I hate that hot and cold thing and I get it from him too. Are oh talking at the moment then or just keeping away for now. I mean in both our situations if it’s gone on for 8 years that has to be something right? X
Im not talking to him at the moment (its been a week) because he needs to sort his head out! I cant babysit him all the time. If he wants to commit then he needs to be 100% and right now he keeps going back and forth. but you know, they always come back haha. Ohh okay, just right off the bat I can see it looks on paper more of a struggle than your other relationship but of course, astro charts are not always the be all and end all. Lots of mars aspects though, quite intense and good sex wise. how long have you been together? Let me look at this and get back to you. IP: Logged |
Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 29, 2019 03:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by roseblue: Im not talking to him at the moment (its been a week) because he needs to sort his head out! I cant babysit him all the time. If he wants to commit then he needs to be 100% and right now he keeps going back and forth. but you know, they always come back haha. Ohh okay, just right off the bat I can see it looks on paper more of a struggle than your other relationship but of course, astro charts are not always the be all and end all. Lots of mars aspects though, quite intense and good sex wise. how long have you been together? Let me look at this and get back to you.
Hate the whole steamroll you over with their feelings then disappear in the next breath. Nope! Yes for sure they come back. This guy is very stubborn but that’s caps for you. I hope you get some sort of answer or some relief from your situation. We’ve been together for 5 years. He’s a lovely good hearted man but we also are very different and can butt heads I suppose like everyone. I’ve never had such an intense connection like I do with the 1st guy though. And just wondered what on earth it is about him. God damn him lol
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2093 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 30, 2019 06:57 AM
Try posting the chart using "Synastry chart (2)" option. Easier to read and you can see the red person's houses. Both ToBs correct? IP: Logged |
Chaitaly Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Italy Registered: Aug 2016
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posted September 30, 2019 07:18 AM
Interesting things to note already like that Pluto of him falling in your 7th house where you have your own Pluto (transformative relationship for sure but quite a ride ) and nodal contacts...But you need to post the chart with his outer circle as well or we can't see his houses... IP: Logged |
GalacticCoreExplosion Knowflake Posts: 173 From: Somewhere Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 30, 2019 09:00 AM
Chaitaly, that is a very generational interaspect. It doesn't mean much in and of itself. Probably everybody in her high school had their Pluto in her 7th. The faster moving the symbols involved, the more intense and personal it will be. Especially so when between the Ascendant/1st House, Sun, Moon, IC/4th House, Venus, Descendant/7th House, Mars, and Nodes. To a slightly lesser extent when Jupiter and Saturn are thrown in the mix. More so if these rule the 7th or 1st especially (also pretty noticeable if they rule the 5th, 4tth, or 8th). IP: Logged |
Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 30, 2019 09:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Try posting the chart using "Synastry chart (2)" option. Easier to read and you can see the red person's houses. Both ToBs correct?
Thank you I appreciate you helping. Hopefully this is right. Yes time of birth is correct IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 117505 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 07, 2019 01:17 PM
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Chaitaly Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Italy Registered: Aug 2016
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posted October 07, 2019 07:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion: Chaitaly, that is a very generational interaspect. It doesn't mean much in and of itself. Probably everybody in her high school had their Pluto in her 7th. The faster moving the symbols involved, the more intense and personal it will be. Especially so when between the Ascendant/1st House, Sun, Moon, IC/4th House, Venus, Descendant/7th House, Mars, and Nodes. To a slightly lesser extent when Jupiter and Saturn are thrown in the mix. More so if these rule the 7th or 1st especially (also pretty noticeable if they rule the 5th, 4tth, or 8th).
Yes it’s generational, I didn’t explain myself well, sorry, I was just commenting about having Pluto in 7th house - this is not generational , so that’s the kind of people she probably attracts or the rel she looks for -plutonic. Or she attracts plutonic people or someone with Scorpio placements. In fact... I’ve just seen that Mars-Pluto conjunction in Scorpio 7th house... some powerful conjunctions here... and the attraction seems huge with mars-pluto and venus-mars/uranus conj. Moon-Ic conj is just lovely and gives a “familiar” vibe to the connection. I haven’ t got time to look at this now in depth, I’ll come back tomorrow.
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Skeletonb0nes Newflake Posts: 16 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2019
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posted October 10, 2019 08:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Chaitaly: Yes it’s generational, I didn’t explain myself well, sorry, I was just commenting about having Pluto in 7th house - this is not generational , so that’s the kind of people she probably attracts or the rel she looks for -plutonic. Or she attracts plutonic people or someone with Scorpio placements.In fact... I’ve just seen that Mars-Pluto conjunction in Scorpio 7th house... some powerful conjunctions here... and the attraction seems huge with mars-pluto and venus-mars/uranus conj. Moon-Ic conj is just lovely and gives a “familiar” vibe to the connection. I haven’ t got time to look at this now in depth, I’ll come back tomorrow.
Thank you so much for taking the time to look. There is this overwhelming connection for sure and I’ve become so interested in astrology and what our charts may show. If you do happen to see anything else please let me know IP: Logged |