posted September 12, 2019 01:28 PM            

Okay, here goes. I recently met a man through a mutual friend. The connection was instantaneous. The verbal and mental rapport felt effortless, and our senses of humor seem very much in line. But, while I was beyond attracted to him - and based on his body language he was feeling it too - I didn’t allow myself to be alone with him. He’s in an “exclusive” long-distance relationship. Though based on what I’ve heard about him he seems to struggle with monogamy. Which is no big deal for me. Emotional monogamy is much more important to me than sexual monogamy. But still, I don’t want to disrespect his girlfriend or their relationship by sleeping with him (and I have ZERO self control).

I’m pretty new to astrology, but our chart seems like a huge mess? It’s very Uranus and Saturn heavy (at least compared to my past relationships) so I’m wondering how that could potentially play out because those two planet seem like opposites based on what I’ve read. I would assume the start/stop nature of Uranus would manifest in his constant traveling for work. Which is also fine by me, I need a lot of alone time.

Or maybe I’m zeroing in way too much on those two planets, and there are bigger things I’m missing? I’m okay enough with interpreting single inter aspects, but really struggle putting the bigger picture together.

I’m completely fine with just being platonic friends with him. But like I said I have zero self control. So I’m trying to ascertain whether or not I should run for the hills and hide from him, or if that would even do any good lol