posted September 13, 2019 10:27 PM            

Her: March 14, 1991 12:26pm CST, Eau Claire, Wi, USA

Hes been my friend for a year now. I fought falling in love with him because hes your typical jovial "I'll have my way" little boy in a bad boys body. I dated older men and they broke my heart. When I told him he was upset and had an "I told you so" rant brewing when I told him the only reason I dated those guys was because he rejected me first. He stopped mid rant to tell me he never rejected me.

I asked him out once and he hesitated then said yes. So I assumed his hesitation meant no and he was being polite because were friends and agreed to dinner. He even said he was being polite when he hesitated later on. I said nevermind almost in tears on the phone. I really didnt think it mattered so much to me after all I expected him to be a jerk. Although he sent me signals... said he was thinking about his future when I asked why he wanted to talk to me among other reasons. I think he picked up on my sadness and told me over the phone not to be sad when I didnt get what I wanted. So I did. I didnt even cry. Next day I went out with a Leo and later a Sagittarius. He kept calling and texting so I remained friends. I thought that was clear rejection. He said he never rejected me. And then went on to say we should have a date. And got all excited. I was like, "huh" even confronted him and he said he was being polite. He also told me how to tell off (not so nicely) Mr. Sagittarius and went on to lecture me how he is the best for me and how hed said it many times for all kinds of reasons. Very arrogant.

So I decided I'll fall for him. But he hasn't committed. Wants to meet first. But constantly calls me babe, love, etc. Although hes said I love you and love you I feel it's not very deep. And told me he cant make any promises because he works often. But will call me daily before work and before bed at least. Talks on the phone for 3 hrs.

When I am quiet and just focus on him...he will become quiet and ask me to talk about myself and ask what my interests or desires are. He reminds me I am special to him. Tells me when we are together it will be perfect. Says he misses me. Calls and video chats often. Will visit me in my city in January. Wants me to come see him ASAP.

posted September 27, 2019 12:58 AM            

This Aries seems amazing. We became great friends through mutual respect and admiration. Which we oddly admitted to each other pretty quickly and easily. Additionally, we are different enough to challenge each other. At first it seems uncomfortable or impossible. But then it's like a spark and it's so easy to transition to his view. The other day he was very adamant about not wanting me to drive an hour and a half to another city to help someone out. He said they take advantage I should remain independent and it would be a hassle. I explained my viewpoint rationally and told him I wouldn't drive so far if he was so passionate. Within 3 days he said it wouldn't be a bad idea after all if it's what I wanted. It's quite refreshing he also is willing to put forth my wants and needs. He values them and I feel valuable.