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Sorcha
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posted October 14, 2019 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi guys. I’m wondering about this entire chart to be quite honest however my main question is about the Moon. The only aspect that I can see is one quincunx to the North Node. There are no parallels or contra parallels that I’ve seen either. What does this mean exactly? The only other connection I see is that the Moon rules the Ascendant so I’m also wondering if that would be considered in this case.

Some more information that might be pertinent is that we have never met in person but have a very deep and intense relationship over the phone - talking, texting, video calls. I’m assuming that this unaspected Moon (assuming it is one?) means we never will meet.

Any thoughts or observations would be very much appreciated. I can say that there is a huge emotional connection and we talk about our feelings often. Just trying to understand this chart.

I’m not sure how to post the chart. I’m sure it would help to see it.

Edit: lmk if this link to the chart works? Hopefully

https://s695.photobucket.com/component/Download-File?file=%2Falbums%2Fvv319%2FLoversAstrology%2FC4C6889B-800C-4038-A98B-512566E70B82_zpsaexioc6r.jpeg

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intheknow
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posted October 14, 2019 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intheknow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My main "problem" with this composite is that then sun, venus and mercury are not aspecting each other at all. I have seen composites of succesful long-term/marriage relationships with none or minor aspects between composite sun/moon but sun/mercury or sun/venus or even mercury/venus is always part of the mix. Also, the composite planets are too dispersed.

My guess would be that if you take the time to check if the composite planets are touching by conjunction/square/opposition any of your natal planets, you will understand why you find the possibility of a relationship so attractive.

I am not sure if a composite can be activated without a physical meeting taking place but I will trust your judgement on that.

For sure the Composite Venus opposition Pluto is hot and addictive.

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Sorcha
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posted October 14, 2019 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the response. I’ve wondered the same thing about not having met in person. I’m used to intense relationships but this one is a bit different and since I’ve been unable to totally figure it out on my own, I thought I’d get some astro back up lol.

Yeah I tend to agree with you in regards to the personal planets not aspecting each other. It’s certainly the weirdest composite I’ve ever had with another person.

As for checking the personal planets being activated by the composite (or is it vice versa?) the two that come to mind are his natal Saturn/NN (and more widely, his natal Sun as well) conjuncting the comp Descendant. And the comp Saturn/Pluto conjuncting my natal Vertex. So maybe karmic.

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intheknow
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posted October 14, 2019 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intheknow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is my pleasure.

Check the progressed composite chart. Something big might be in the works, hence the feelings etc. Or perhaps the synastry itself is that addictive.

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Sorcha
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posted October 14, 2019 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks! I’ll definitely have a look.

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Hikaru29
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posted October 15, 2019 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The mystic rectangle can be binding. The trine/sextile from Venus to Neptune/Jupiter give the feeling of love and enjoyment, and Jupiter-Saturn/Pluto signify balance and growth. The key in this formation is to manage the 2 oppositions.

Usually I don't like Moon unaspected in Composite. It shows a lack of emotional connection. Sun is also only forming a square with Mars which is a typical combative aspect.

You said you feel very connected right now but you haven't met in person... haven't spent real time together so I won't bet my money on it.

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Sorcha
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posted October 15, 2019 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for your reply.

Yes, I definitely agree about the unaspected Moon being problematic. I’ve never had a relationship with anyone before with a composite like this so I’m assuming it’s a short term growth thing for both of us at this point. Definitely no money being placed anywhere lol.

I just find the experience to be very unusual and as you mentioned, it does feel a bit binding. So thanks for that take.

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Ami Anne
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posted October 15, 2019 08:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think it can work.

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posted October 15, 2019 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by intheknow:
My main "problem" with this composite is that then sun, venus and mercury are not aspecting each other at all. I have seen composites of succesful long-term/marriage relationships with none or minor aspects between composite sun/moon but sun/mercury or sun/venus or even mercury/venus is always part of the mix. Also, the composite planets are too dispersed.

My guess would be that if you take the time to check if the composite planets are touching by conjunction/square/opposition any of your natal planets, you will understand why you find the possibility of a relationship so attractive.

I am not sure if a composite can be activated without a physical meeting taking place but I will trust your judgement on that.

For sure the Composite Venus opposition Pluto is hot and addictive.


I agree with this, as I've seen it/experienced it for myself. Usually there has to be some other balancing factors adding to the attraction and pull to be together. It can definitely work.

I would also say the composite doesn't mean much until you are fully experiencing the dynamic of the physical (in-person) relationship. Until that happens I wouldn't bet on anything. The physical reality could be a real game changer.

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Sorcha
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posted October 17, 2019 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Margym,

Thanks for your reply. Sorry, I’ve been sick for the last two days and just saw it now.

So just to clarify, you think that it can definitely work or did you mean that it could if there were other factors?

As for meeting in person I 100% agree that it could change things. Just curious how you meant that? As in the composite would then technically be active and those relationship energies/aspects would begin to manifest?

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posted October 18, 2019 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sorcha:
Margym,

Thanks for your reply. Sorry, I’ve been sick for the last two days and just saw it now.

So just to clarify, you think that it can definitely work or did you mean that it could if there were other factors?

As for meeting in person I 100% agree that it could change things. Just curious how you meant that? As in the composite would then technically be active and those relationship energies/aspects would begin to manifest?


I am just sharing from personal experience having gone through a similar situation with an online relationship. We had been only talking and exchanging photos for a couple years before finally meeting in person. Fortunately for us, it went better than I could have imagined, but if I'm being honest it was a LITTLE weird at first, because you're finally experiencing their aura...their scent...their personal mannerisms etc. for the first time which can be jarring when you've built up this "image" of them in your head after so long. I really believe the composite doesn't take full effect until you are experiencing the "real life" day to day with that person.

And yes there would have to be a balance of other factors to compensate for a lonely Moon, I think. The relationship would have to be compelling enough to stay in.

I don't think astrology is ever so fatalistic to say "this can never work" because that's not taking into account the reality of the personal experience. You have to LIVE IT to really know.

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Sorcha
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posted October 18, 2019 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
I am just sharing from personal experience having gone through a similar situation with an online relationship. We had been only talking and exchanging photos for a couple years before finally meeting in person. Fortunately for us, it went better than I could have imagined, but if I'm being honest it was a LITTLE weird at first, because you're finally experiencing their aura...their scent...their personal mannerisms etc. for the first time which can be jarring when you've built up this "image" of them in your head after so long. I really believe the composite doesn't take full effect until you are experiencing the "real life" day to day with that person.

And yes there would have to be a balance of other factors to compensate for a lonely Moon, I think. The relationship would have to be compelling enough to stay in.

I don't think astrology is ever so fatalistic to say "this can never work" because that's not taking into account the reality of the personal experience. You have to LIVE IT to really know.


Omg yes. The three things you wrote are exactly what I would be personally paying attention to if we met - his aura, his smell and his mannerisms. And I imagine it would be A LOT weird because suddenly that person is real. We have had a few long video chats which did give me a bit of that energy but it’s not the same thing.

As for the Moon issue, I went through every composite I had in my files yesterday looking for one that might match or at least be similar enough to compare but I couldn’t find one.

My main personal issue/biggest point of confusion has been the fact that there is a lot of emotion between us that we have both felt and shared with each other and so seeing that lonely Moon in the composite isn’t making real world sense to me. Maybe it’s the fact that we can share this emotional energy as two people but it wouldn’t translate within a relationship somehow? I know in natal charts that if a planet is mostly unaspected then it doesn’t mean that the person has no access to that energy but I’m not an expert on composites whatsoever.

It’s definitely a situation I’ve never encountered before so I’m trying to understand it using every tool at my disposal at this point. I appreciate your replies and thank you for sharing your own personal experience.

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