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solarbry
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posted October 14, 2019 09:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for solarbry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m not usually attracted to Libras. But I noticed how much he didn’t notice me and it interested me (I’m an Aries sun + venus.) We hung out together for the first time the other day, and it went well; I found him to be a good conversationalist and interested in my hobbies, thoughts, and likes/dislikes. Only problem is I haven’t heard much from him since then? He said he would want to see me again, but ended up flaking on plans we made a few days ago. I don’t want to seem clingy and desperate (cancer moon) to see him again because I know he has so much air and earth that it’d turn him off. But our synastry is so poor despite that, I’m wondering if it’d even be worth it. What do you think?

Edit: I’m having trouble embedding images, so here are our inner planets:

Me-
Aries sun
Cancer moon
Pisces mercury
Aries venus (R)
Sagittarius mars
Aquarius rising

He-
Libra sun
Aquarius moon
Libra mercury
Virgo venus
Capricorn mars (Unknown TOB.)

As you can see, my moon opposes his mars + my sun squares his mars

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Hikaru29
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posted October 15, 2019 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm... flaking on plans is a big red flag to me. Perhaps he has a genuine reason so give him another chance and if he does it again, forget it no matter how good your synastry looks.

Anyway, you don't have his ToB so does he really have an Aquarius Moon? If yes then the conjunction to your Aqua rising (if there is) shows great emotional compatibility. Moon opposite Mars is quite attractive actually.

Your Fiery Venus/Mars makes you more impulsive than him so be careful don't end up as the pursuer.

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solarbry
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From: New York
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posted October 15, 2019 08:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for solarbry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Hmm... flaking on plans is a big red flag to me. Perhaps he has a genuine reason so give him another chance and if he does it again, forget it no matter how good your synastry looks.

Anyway, you don't have his ToB so does he really have an Aquarius Moon? If yes then the conjunction to your Aqua rising (if there is) shows great emotional compatibility. Moon opposite Mars is quite attractive actually.

Your Fiery Venus/Mars makes you more impulsive than him so be careful don't end up as the pursuer.


We are both college students living on campus. When we were together the other night we both mentioned we would be going home Friday (I live almost 3 hours from campus, him 20min.) Early Friday afternoon I told him he could stop by the campus apartment around 3 and he said “I’m leaving around 3, but it’s fine, I’m gonna try to come for you.” I said see you then but he never came. The no show isn’t what bothered me but him not letting me know he wasn’t coming did.

He is an Aquarius moon. I did think that my rising and his moon would provide a good connection, but not sure if it would be one strong enough to overpower the fact our moons are of polar opposite emotional nature.

I’ve decided I’m going to play it cool. Thank you so much for your response!

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