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ana_bee
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posted October 21, 2019 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One of the original topics is closed, so I’ll start a new one.

I’ve never had anyone’s Venus in my 12th house, but I’m Venus in someone’s 12th house, so here‘s what it feels like to me. Maybe you can also share your experience, whether you‘re the house or the planet person.

I have this particular aspect with my boss, who happens to be a public personality in my country. (My Venus is in his 12th house; his Moon is in my 12th)
I admire him very much. His character and what he does. The first time I met him, years ago, I was crushing on him pretty badly for months. We met on a parking lot, I was introduced to him, we shook hands, that’s all. Funny thing is, he’s since following me on Instagram. He followed me the moment I followed him, which is rather unusual, because I’m one of the few ‘civilians’ he’s connected to, on social media, and he’s a very private person. People always ask me, if I know him personally. I don’t. And tbh, I first thought it was a mistake on his part! But he’s friends with me on social media ever since and he’s been watching every single story, I’ve posted so far! LoL
He’s like the Jimmy Fallon of our country! So just imagine Jimmy Fallon watching every single stupid photo you ever posted of coffee cups, cute babies, puppies and holidays.
I feel oddly connected to him. I admire him. I find him attractive in an odd way. I once sent him a pitch of an idea I had, which he basically ignored. I also once sent him a PN, in which I let him know, how much I admire him professionally. Which he also ignored. LoL
I sometimes anonymously comment on videos he’s posting on YouTube.. I’m giving him genuine praise and often write how attractive I think he is..

That’s how far my outreach went, so far. He will probably never know how much I actually like him, and I will probably never know why the hell he’s watching me on social media! LoL
I would love to be with him, and I often wish he was less famous.
So yeah this is my 12th house experience.

Tell me yours

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LaceyLeigh
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posted October 21, 2019 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is your Venus close to his ascendant? If so it would explain the adoration you have for him, as well as why it has been going “ignored”. I’m sure he sees it, he just can’t respond to everyone.

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posted October 22, 2019 05:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No it’s more at the beginning of the 12th house.
His Venus/Mercury conj my IC in Aqua pretty exact, though. My Saturn squares this point.

I was wondering about that energy as well.
From my POV: Me as the Saturn Person, I admire his whole persona and love his controversial nature. He‘s a trail blazer, for what he’s done so far. People either love or hate him. BUT... I’m not always on the same page with him, politically. I often think he’s over-doing it, being too extreme in his approach! This is also the way I experience him. One moment I find him funny and genius, the next moment I find him ridiculous and over the top. He‘s also too anti-establishment for my liking. I‘m not a conservative person at all, but he brings out the conservative side in me.

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posted October 22, 2019 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No it’s more at the beginning of the 12th house.
His Venus/Mercury conj my IC in Aqua pretty exact, though. My Saturn squares this point.

I was wondering about that energy as well.
From my POV: Me as the Saturn Person, I admire his whole persona and love his controversial nature. He‘s a trail blazer, for what he’s done so far. People either love or hate him. BUT... I’m not always on the same page with him, politically. I often think he’s over-doing it, being too extreme in his approach! This is also the way I experience him. One moment I find him funny and genius, the next moment I find him ridiculous and over the top. He‘s also too anti-establishment for my liking. I‘m not a conservative person at all, but he brings out the conservative side in me.

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posted October 29, 2019 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 04, 2019 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 05, 2019 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for H20AC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 05, 2019 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for H20AC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’ve had other people’s Venus in my 12th conjunct my ascendant in Aquarius. What I have noticed is that they usually don’t try to talk to me, they just look at me from far away (at work, school etc) and don’t say anything. They tend to act super awkward 🤣 and when I make eye contact with them they look very much intimidated. Or if I try to talk to them they just stutter a lot, we can never get into a friendly/normal conversation. Like they feel attracted but blocked. Like they can’t act natural around me.

Even when they are popular or known to be very extroverted, they always try to avoid looking directly at me. Unless I am looking away.

It’s kind of funny to me but probably not so funny for them. When they are around I always feel their eyes on me.

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posted November 05, 2019 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FmVenusWLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with the man I am dating now. His Venus is loosely conjunct my ASC (9 degrees) in my 12H - it also exactly opposes my Sun/Merc conjunction AND conjuncts the ruler of my ASC...so that might effect the energy a bit.

I don't think the 12H overlay has much to do with how he behaves toward me but rather how his actions effect me. For example, he seems able to express his Venus just fine - he was the one who approached me in a crowded bar and asked me for my number. That's how we met - no hiding or pining in a corner.

In my mind, someone who is admiring you from afar probably has a 12H Venus natally or some other configuration that prevents them from expressing themselves.

Anyway, I feel beautiful/desired around him because I can tell he finds me physically attractive. I feel very needy for his affection - I'm not normally a clingy person, but it literally makes me anxious to be around him and not touch him in some way - like he might disappear or something if I'm not holding his hand. He makes me feel super feminine without acting like a "Type A male" all he time if that makes sense.

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