posted October 29, 2019 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
These are my parents. In their case it did not work. I do think it could though with some compromise. There is common ground with the fixed element even though they are square. It would help if there are good aspects to one another moons.

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posted October 29, 2019 09:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Sinder:
Sorry meant to say.... Why? What do they each wanted?

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posted October 30, 2019 01:02 AM            

If so, then yes, it can work, though it may take work. Besides, just as we canīt judge a person in their natal by one position/condition, neither can we judge a synastric comparison by one comparison.

Also, same symbol to same symbol is not as telling and strong, generally speaking, as comparing two different symbols. Thatīs why in some (or even many?) synastric delineation type books, they donīt even include same symbol to same symbol.

posted October 30, 2019 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
Do we have freewill?

If so, then yes, it can work, though it may take work. Besides, just as we canīt judge a person in their natal by one position/condition, neither can we judge a synastric comparison by one comparison.

Also, same symbol to same symbol is not as telling and strong, generally speaking, as comparing two different symbols. Thatīs why in some (or even many?) synastric delineation type books, they donīt even include same symbol to same symbol.

I know someone with Libra Sun and Cap Moon. I have Cap Sun and Libra Moon. If I was only judging it by our Moons, I would say there might not be much attraction and/or harmony. But in actual practice, there is definite attraction and connection.

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When you say the same symbol do you mean comparing the same planets? Like Moon to Moon? Most people say it's important that two people have compatible Moon signs. Otherwise, they won't understand each other emotionally.

posted October 30, 2019 08:20 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
When you say the same symbol do you mean comparing the same planets? Like Moon to Moon? Most people say it's important that two people have compatible Moon signs. Otherwise, they won't understand each other emotionally.

But of course, you wouldn't feel that it's enough attraction. Libra Moon and Cap Moon aren't compatible. The only reason why I think I can understand someone emotionally with a Taurus Moon. Is because it's my Sun sign otherwise I don't think I would.

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Yes, I mean the same Planet to Planet or point to point. Some of the Synastry books I have, donīt even go into these. Sun to Moon or Rising to Moon, is often more affecting than Moon to Moon.

To the 2nd part, of course, and itīs because we are not just our Moons. My Cap Sun is generally square people who have Aries Sun, and yet, Iīve been close to and/or very attracted to people people with Aries Sun, Rising, or Moon, and itīs because I have Libra Moon and strong Venus.

posted October 30, 2019 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
Yes, I mean the same Planet to Planet or point to point. Some of the Synastry books I have, donīt even go into these. Sun to Moon or Rising to Moon, is often more affecting than Moon to Moon.

To the 2nd part, of course, and itīs because we are not just our Moons. My Cap Sun is generally square people who have Aries Sun, and yet, Iīve been close to and/or very attracted to people people with Aries Sun, Rising, or Moon, and itīs because I have Libra Moon and strong Venus.

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posted October 31, 2019 08:27 AM            

Emotional connection can be seen through not just Moon-Moon but also Moon-Sun, Moon-ASC and Moon to the angles especially IC & DSC. Moon-MC is good as well but it's more of one's support to another's aspirations. Your Moon square his stellium in Scorpio is attraction but not harmony, unfortunately. Your Moon opposite his Jupiter indicates indulgence and forgiveness but this aspect doesn't describe compatibility.

Romance wise, he's matching your 5H with his ASC in Sag quincunx your Sun. Your 5th ruler is also activated with a sextile to his Mars (as mentioned above this is hot), trine his Jupiter (ASC ruler), square his Uranus/Neptune (IC ruler) and quincunx his Sun. Most of your 5th house is in Capricorn and he has a stellium in Cap falling in your 5th aspecting your personal planets.

posted October 31, 2019 11:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
@CoV, when you say you really want to be with him, do you mean sexually or emotionally? I asked this because you often said you don't want any commitment + you do have some hot aspects with him (Mars conjunct Mars falling in his 7H, your Moon trine his Mars, your Pluto conj his Sun/Venus, his Pluto square your Moon, your Mars sextile each other's Jupiter considering Jupiter and Mars are both your 5th rulers...).

Emotional connection can be seen through not just Moon-Moon but also Moon-Sun, Moon-ASC and Moon to the angles especially IC & DSC. Moon-MC is good as well but it's more of one's support to another's aspirations. Your Moon square his stellium in Scorpio is attraction but not harmony, unfortunately. Your Moon opposite his Jupiter indicates indulgence and forgiveness but this aspect doesn't describe compatibility.

Romance wise, he's matching your 5H with his ASC in Sag quincunx your Sun. Your 5th ruler is also activated with a sextile to his Mars (as mentioned above this is hot), trine his Jupiter (ASC ruler), square his Uranus/Neptune (IC ruler) and quincunx his Sun. Most of your 5th house is in Capricorn and he has a stellium in Cap falling in your 5th aspecting your personal planets.

He's not really matching your 7H though except his natal Sun in 11H sextile Uranus and Venus sextile Uranus which gives him a Uranian vibe and his stellium in 12H sextile Neptune gives a Neptunian vibe and Neptune is part of your 7th & rules your 8th. But your DSC ruler being unaspected is not a good sign.

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I mean both yes I know I've said that I don't like commitment. But we have good communication when I allow it. I really do like him and I think he likes me too. I told him I wanted to be just friends.But I wish I would have just been honest intead of playing games. Because I was too afraid to admit how I really feel. I've been telling him that I really do like him though.

posted October 31, 2019 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So since my 5th house is activated does that mean the attraction is just one sided?

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posted October 31, 2019 12:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I did say you have a lot of hot aspects and his 5th ruler is activated too.

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posted October 31, 2019 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I would really be with him and not just for sex I mean long term.

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posted October 31, 2019 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
He matches what you want in romance but I feel that he won't be your long-term partner type based on what I said above. You may want to take some time to observe if what I said is accurate esp. if you still barely know him. To be able to know if someone is our partner type, we need to first enter a r/s with them for a period of time.

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posted November 01, 2019 03:38 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah but what if he actually is though? I think sometimes you have to experience things in real life. I've seen some people say that a couple wouldn't be together long term or that things wouldn't work out between them yet they are together.

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LOL, do you realise that YOU are the one stopping yourself here? I didn't tell you to forget this guy, did I? I said to take some time to observe. Anyway, in reality how can you tell if someone is your type when you barely even know them? Think about it. I'm just telling you what I see in your chart since you posted your synastry.

posted November 01, 2019 06:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
LOL, do you realise that YOU are the one stopping yourself here? I didn't tell you to forget this guy, did I? I said to take some time to observe. Anyway, in reality how can you tell if someone is your type when you barely even know them? Think about it. I'm just telling you what I see in your chart since you posted your synastry.

All the best to your new relationship.

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posted November 02, 2019 07:40 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yes I know I didn't mean it like that sorry. I was just saying in general. That it's best to see how things go in real life. Thank you for reading the chart for me I always appreciate your help.

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posted November 02, 2019 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
No worries. Try going out with him, follow your heart.

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posted November 03, 2019 01:36 AM            

Im a Pisces and they are all Geminis so I guess I should take that into consideration as well.

I think Taurus moon and Aqua moon CAN work out romantically if there are other aspects that support it. But I feel they are better platonically. Because even though I had my differences with my friend and mom I was the closest to them. They make great friends for me.
In your case you are a Taurus sun so even though it's not conjunct you can still work things out. I don't think the problem there so much isn't the Aqua moon - Taurus moon, but his Sun square your moon. That's where you might find problems, but I believe almost any relationship can work out as long as both people are willing to work things out.

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posted November 03, 2019 01:39 AM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
[b] Yes, I mean the same Planet to Planet or point to point. Some of the Synastry books I have, donīt even go into these. Sun to Moon or Rising to Moon, is often more affecting than Moon to Moon.

To the 2nd part, of course, and itīs because we are not just our Moons. My Cap Sun is generally square people who have Aries Sun, and yet, Iīve been close to and/or very attracted to people people with Aries Sun, Rising, or Moon, and itīs because I have Libra Moon and strong Venus.

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Funny enough, I am an Aqua moon like you and the guy I like has Scorpio Venus as well, which also is square. I am very attracted to him. I think even though the aspect is not supposed to be harmonious it still creates love and a bond.

And gurrrl you got your Pluto conjunct his Venus! No wonder you got the hots for him! That aspect is a huge indicator of sexual attraction! Plus his own Pluto is conjunct his Venus. Not to mention his Pluto square your Moon as well. He is very Scorpion. Your moon is being activated a lot by his chart so this is also maybe why you are attracted to him.
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posted November 03, 2019 01:53 AM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
[b] Yes, I mean the same Planet to Planet or point to point. Some of the Synastry books I have, donīt even go into these. Sun to Moon or Rising to Moon, is often more affecting than Moon to Moon.

To the 2nd part, of course, and itīs because we are not just our Moons. My Cap Sun is generally square people who have Aries Sun, and yet, Iīve been close to and/or very attracted to people people with Aries Sun, Rising, or Moon, and itīs because I have Libra Moon and strong Venus.

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Funny enough, I am an Aqua moon like you and the guy I like has Scorpio Venus as well, which also is square. I am very attracted to him. I think even though the aspect is not supposed to be harmonious it still creates love and a bond.

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"The fool who knows he is a fool
Is that much wiser.
The fool who thinks he is wise
Is a fool indeed."