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Topic: Please compare these 2 synastries for me! Which one looks better to you?
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted October 24, 2019 04:14 PM
  
Me and him, synastry plus aspects grid. I'm on the inside, he's outside. Aspects - I'm horizontally, he's vertically.   Another woman and him, synastry plus aspects grid. She's on the inside, he's outside. Aspects - she's horizontally, he's vertically.   IP: Logged |
HelixID
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posted October 25, 2019 01:09 AM
Honestly, neither looks good.
Looking only at the charts I would have never thought that anyone out of you three is somehow romantically interested in one of the other two.
The synastries are just blah.I'd give a slight edge to the second synastry only because of the Sun-Sun square and only because I like that aspect. The first synastry shows two people who are alike (Aqua Asc / Asc ruler in Aqua) and they both want the same in a partner (Dsc ruler conjunct Mars / Aries Descendant). IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted October 25, 2019 01:05 PM
Thank you!Anybody else please? IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted October 25, 2019 09:38 PM
I’m not a fan of mercury/mars or mercury/saturn aspects in synastry, but I love compatible moons. Is the time of birth correct for both?In the second synastry you have Unaspected planets along with incompatible suns/moons, but I like how the Mercuries are in a favorable aspect, that’s one of my favorite aspects to have in synastry. If I had to choose one, however it would be the first. Your Moon/Mars are in the same sign as his ascendant, and you have compatible moons. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted October 25, 2019 10:05 PM
If all the TOB are correct, I can assure you he definitely likes you better. No doubt about it. His DSC is Leo, and you have a 5th house stellium including your asc ruler Venus. The other one has no Leo or 5th house. So automatically you win. He’s going to be a lot more drawn and attracted to your personality and energy than her. You’re way more his type and what he’s looking for/finds attractive. You also have your mars conjunct his asc which is going to add to the attraction.
And last by not least, his Venus is in Gemini. You have a 3rd house stellium. This other woman doesn’t have any Gemini or 3rd house either. Except her Saturn which is her asc ruler, so a bit of Gemini qualities to her. But not as much as you. So again, you win. Lol
Please believe me when I tell you he’s going to be that into her. Especially in comparison to you. You have nothing to worry about! And honestly, she’s not that into him either. Sure his moon is in saggy like her mars, but he’s not cancerian enough like she’s looking for with her cancer DSC. Her moon isn’t that aspected either. His Leo planets are falling in the end of her 7th and 8th sure, but is out of sign so not that strong.
You’re also a lot more compatible with him than the other woman. You have your moon conjunct his asc, probably the number one compatibility aspect you can have in synastry. It doesn’t equal attraction, chemistry, passion anything like that (unless the moon is a love house ruler) but it does show a lot of comfort, intimacy, emotional openness/sharing, trust and similarity, and similarity is what equals compatibility. 👍
Your Venus conjunct his asc is a very pleasant/harmonious aspect as well.
Like the others have mentioned, your moons are compatible too. Which is super important in any serious or long-term connection, so another big edge in terms of compatibility.
Your Venus are also trine. This is another big compatibility factor people overlook. Having similar Venus energy means you will find it easier to interact and socialize, and you usually have similar interests or like the same things and have compatible ideas of what love is. IP: Logged |
athenaia
Knowflake Posts: 1437
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Registered: May 2015
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posted October 25, 2019 10:06 PM
Not into the first one. Your Venus opposite their Mercury and square both your Saturns, a fixed t-square. That's bound to turn into something extremely unpleasant for both of you. Also his Sun is at the apex of a yod with your Sun and Moon, so while this may be compelling at first (especially since your Venuses are trine) I get the vibe this would turn ugly after a while. Your Venus in his 12th is not really something I'm thrilled with. Plus his Venus is in your 9th so I'm curious if this synastry even has longterm romantic legs. His Sun falls in your 10th and your Sun falls in his 11th only confirming this. You don't put anything into his 5th, 7th, or 8th house. He doesn't put anything into your 5th, 7th, or 8th house. Not counting the nodes here as that energy is a bit otherworldly and there are no planets to help modify the energy and bring it back down to earth. His Moon is unaspected so he will grow dissatisfied after a while The second one... also not something I like, really. But I would personally go for this one as I think there are a lot of fun sexual elements here. The Pluto conjunct her Sun, he will have the "upperhand" according to classic astrology. Plus her Sun/NN and Mercury fall into his 8th, so he will become obsessed with her on some level. But she also doesn't put anything in his 5th or 7th (not really going to count Chiron here as a positive) so yeah, she's not "the one" necessarily. Plus her Moon is in his 12th so I don't think he'll ever really understand her. And her Moon is unaspected at that. His Mars square her Sun, yeah, he's going to be extremely attractive to this Scorpio. His Saturn conjunct her Venus, both of which sit on his South Node.. super duper karmic stuff here. Because her Moon is unaspected so this is probably not really the relationship for her. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted October 26, 2019 09:57 AM
Thank you guys! I didn't even expect anybody else will reply. Really appreciate your feedback!IP: Logged | |
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