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FireAndEarth
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posted October 24, 2019 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireAndEarth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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So, this isn't a current or future relationship. Too many obstacles and age is just one of many. I can't help but be curious about it though.
There's this “heat “. I’m fairly certain that it's mutual. It was absolutely instant. In a heartbeat. Within 1-2 minutes of meeting we were talking, laughing, and in each other's bubble. I never talk to people much right away. I feel them out and at arm's length. (Thanks 12th)
So? Where’s the heat coming from??
In one way it’s mysterious and another way like a freight train. I don't even know why. It's like, I just gotta have it. But, I really can't. It's an internal tug of war.
Is it just me or could she have felt it also? It's like it's grown into a small obsession from one meeting.
I have had a history of much younger women specifically with early to mid Libra going after me. Some aggressively.
Your input?

EDIT: Took the chart down for privacy.

Thanks for having a look!

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Stoika7
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posted October 24, 2019 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's plenty of "hot" aspects, your Pluto square her Venus and opposite her Moon, your Moon opposite her ASC/Venus, her NN/Mars conjunct your ASC, Uranus square Uranus... but yes, it looks more like a short affair, it's mutual but you might get more "obsessed".

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HelixID
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posted October 25, 2019 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HelixID     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You felt an instant pull due to her Asc ruler Saturn being conjunct to your Descendant.
Your Ascendant is in the same sign as her Mars so she probably finds you attractive, too.

But I'm afraid it will wear off pretty quickly. Your Sun and Moon are practically unaspected in the synastry. That's not a good sign.

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Graham
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posted October 25, 2019 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

The (165) "degree of obsession" for your natal Saturn is at 24Cap22 (and 24Aqu22). ... Her Sun is at 24Cap22.
http://hniizato.com/quindecile-aspect/

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FireAndEarth
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posted October 26, 2019 06:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireAndEarth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It’s fading but probably only because I don't see her. If there's a chance then yeah, I'll wonder if I'll see her. I think it will eventually fade away.

The quendicile, would that be more me or her that feels that? I'm thinking her since it's sun and perhaps more personally felt.

Either way, I think it'll pass. Maybe linger for a long long time but weaken. I've had that. One person it was 8 years!!

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