posted October 28, 2019 02:46 PM            

Had a bit of a stalker during this time, among other things. Not sexual, as he is a straight male and so am I. But Plutonian/obsessional, and a underground seething rage and dislike of me who powerfully stirred up his rather strong and unconscious shadow. (In his chart, Sun Neptune Saturn conjunction with Sun closely cusped Scorpio, ruling Planet in Scorpio, Pluto closest planet to Ascendant, etc. and a whole lot of intense squares, oppositions, and conjunctions between Pluto, Saturn, Mars and personal/sensitive points (including Nodes) between our charts.

Thanks to intuition, found out exactly who he was. As he is well known (I guess rich people with too much time and money on their hands get easily bored at times?), when his identity was addressed, he finally disappeared.

posted October 28, 2019 11:36 PM            

He´s not a negative person in any extreme sense. He has many good and positive traits. He just doesn´t see himself too objectively. Interestingly, we both share difficult experiences/dynamics with father figures.

What´s interesting is that he tried to convince others that I am narcissistic, and yet he clearly has those traits within (especially when I found out his identity and did a little digging into things like how during an interview during a dinner, he pulled out a Guru based spiritual book and had the female interviewer read the disciple part and him read the ¨master¨ part to her, or that most his many relationships have been with women half to a third his age, that he followed some obviously and overtly fake arse Gurus [like Sri Chinmoy], etc). Yet, he´s a Hollywood type with Leo South Node, and the last thing he should have went into was acting (not really aligned with the Aqua North Node dharmic path).

He was projecting his own disowned/repressed/suppressed shadow onto me (happens a lot to those of us with Pisces and/or Jupiter and/or Neptune strong in our charts).

That combined with some difficult past life interactions that he was not consciously aware of, made it easy for him to both intensely dislike and yet be obsessed with me (he followed me onto another forum I was already on, after I had made the mistake of mentioning it on the forum we met, and after I left that one).

And, to be honest, much of our interaction happened when T. Saturn was in my 1st, and I was certainly in a slower vibratory phase and was more resonant with narcissistic type energies at the time. So he was not completely 100 percent off. But I was in my mid 20´s, going through a lot, having been through a lot, trying to find greater balance, and here is this guy more than twice my age following me around and making things more difficult while in his mind he was ¨helping¨ me. Tooĺ´s song 46&2 about ¨my shadow¨ comes strongly to mind. He was like the material manifestation of that. Yes, it was a very strange dynamic.

posted November 03, 2019 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by ShipwreckSiren:
I would say the worst of the worst is going to be Uranus touching personal planets and falling into certain houses. It's not uncommon for divorces to occur during these times. Uranus is the planet that shakes things up and forces you to let go of old stuff and embrace the new.

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posted November 04, 2019 03:37 AM            

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Originally posted by ShipwreckSiren:
I would say the worst of the worst is going to be Uranus touching personal planets and falling into certain houses. It's not uncommon for divorces to occur during these times. Uranus is the planet that shakes things up and forces you to let go of old stuff and embrace the new. It doesn't necessarily mean a divorce or breakup will happen, but if there is any weakness at all then Uranus is going to rattle things loose.

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I tend to agree with this as I've seen it happen to some couples. Uranus transit composite/natal 7th may not cause too much turbulence but if it's also making harsh aspects to personal planets (esp. Venus or chart ruler/DSC ruler) it can rattle an unstable relationship.

posted November 04, 2019 07:14 AM            

Transiting Uranus on Moon/Venus or going through the 4th/7th house.Circumstances beyond either of your control tend to crop up and establish physical distance that test the bond.