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posted October 31, 2019 02:49 AM            

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What do you think are the worst aspects to have in the Composite - for a long-term romantic relationship - and why?

From what I've seen... Pluto in close aspect to the personal planets takes the cake... and Neptune aspecting the personal planets runs a close second.

I'm curious what other people's experiences have been!

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posted October 31, 2019 04:18 AM            

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I think it depends on what people are personally capable of handling? My husband as an example has MANY Uranus aspects to personal planets and thus he is.....changeable and not really “in the box”, mentally. Not many people are comfortable with this constant change and thinking outside the box and therefore when he activates their composite with lots of Uranus, they don’t like it! It’s exciting in the beginning but after a while it’s graying.
I, also, have lots of Uranus in my Natal chart and in our composite it’s just URANUS. *We* like this and feel comfortable with this but to someone on the outside we probably come across as.....off, and if someone are to just look at our composite, they might say we are doomed..

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posted October 31, 2019 05:20 PM            

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This belongs in Interpersonal Astrology. Moving it there.

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posted October 31, 2019 05:32 PM            

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It really depends on what energy each person is comfortable with in their own chart. I have a strong Uranus in my natal so I'm very comfortable with a heavy Uranus composite/synastry. I also have moon conjunct Pluto so I'd pretty comfortable with that aspect in composite as well.

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posted October 31, 2019 05:52 PM            

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Saturn/Neptune square Mars, ASC/DSC or MC.

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posted October 31, 2019 06:15 PM            

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I can't really disagree with your original post.

IME oddly, Saturn doesn't seem to be that damaging in composite. Unlike synastry.

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posted October 31, 2019 06:33 PM            

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Why would Pluto be bad in composite? Conjunctions or squares, or any aspect?

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posted November 01, 2019 12:45 AM            

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I wouldn't say any particular aspect is the worst. I've seen stable relationships with dooming aspects - Uranus square Sun/Mars, Saturn square Mars/Venus, Pluto squares... Neptune squares... you name it.

What I see which can cause a r/s to fail easily is when there're very little supportive aspects but a lot of harsh aspects from outer planets (usually 2 or more) to inner planets so you see a lot of squares but very little conjunctions/trines/sextiles.

For a long-term romantic r/s, I think the worst is having the Moon afflicted with nothing much to cushion it. Sun receiving mainly harsh aspects also shows a difficult relationship.

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posted November 01, 2019 04:26 AM            

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Moon inconjunct Saturn. Just awful. You can never feel close to your partner. You will need to get emotional fulfillment outside your relationship. I have never seen this in a marriage composite that I know of but I have read it can be pretty bad.

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posted November 01, 2019 08:36 AM            

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Perhaps I would rather look for patterns. I've experienced for example Saturn/Pluto midpoint forming a tsquare with Nessus and Mercury/Psyche. It blocks sensitivity and is very critical and resentful. It specially surfaced during NN transits.

Patterns showing criticism, coldness and blocking of emotional connection and intimacy can be very hard to deal with.

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