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posted November 15, 2019 12:20 PM            

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We've known each other from college since August 2019, she recently invited me for coffee. I feel powerful attraction. Here's our synastry overlay, her blue planets inside:

Our midpoint composite chart: note Juno conjunct MC.

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posted November 15, 2019 03:37 PM            

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Hi comdoc,

It seems there is a karma between you two, this relationship can potentially shake your world, psychologically and emotionally, in positive and negative ways, it can be enriching but potentially painful, this depends on how much you both accept change and compromise in controlling ego issues for both of you. You are a very open, outgoing and warm person and you ask for same honesty, heartedness and open-mindedness in a relationship. I see a lot of creativity and exciting exchanges between you two, she likely looks intriguing and charming to you, you might be romantically and sexually inspired by her. She has an "unstable" side that you might not completely grab and might be unbsettling to you, even though she seems to be quite focused on her future plans and clear minded, even so she has a lack of self-assertiveness in her relationship sphere, and so she might look distant or cold sometimes, but especially she might have some deep insecurity about committment, even though she has romantic dreams... She might also look self-centered sometimes and potentially this might hurt your self-worth. In synastry, there is an harsh aspect that can lead your two strong personalities to a clash or hurting eahc other, and this is her Pluto conjunct your Chiron square to your Mars, Pluto/Saturn conjunct her Chiron opposite to her Saturn... or, different expectations and strong personality traits might lead her to withdraw/be scared to commit.
The Composite looks very karmic and potentially intense for intimacy, sexual and romantic long term expectations, common creative/intellectual future projects might be strongly shared, but here again there might be an underlying instability paradoxically given by such intensity, since NN is in Pisces 8th house with with Pluto square Sun and opposite Uranus, while Venus is in 12th house, so there is a sense of "unattainable" here, or the risk of upheaval and/or a sudden (painful) separation.
Within the end of November, transiting Nodes will be square to the Composite t-square, so I assume this is when you will see if it is possible to start a relationship with her.

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posted November 16, 2019 12:38 AM            

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Hi Stoika, thanks much for your insights. Psychologically and emotionally I love her Taurus Moon (out-of-sign sextile my Moon 2* orb) and her Leo Sun conjunct my relocation ASC (also 2* orb) here. Her generational Capricorn Neptune/Uranus conjunct my 5H Vertex could be wildly exciting and unsettling. Seems a bit spacey at times (Neptune?). She's artistic, Bohemian, attractive to my Aqua 7H. I feel her ambition and smart focus (Gemini Mars/Juno conj my 10H Venus 4* orb). Her Scorpio Pluto/Pars conjunct my Psyche near SN and her Gem SN conj my 11H Moon both seem somehow familiar. Her Sag NN conj my 5H Jupiter feels good. My Leo stellium in square falls between her Mercury and Sun (mixed). Could our Comp 12H Venus be hidden love? If anything manifests by end of November I'll be surprised--but she's already surprised me with her approach.

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posted November 16, 2019 03:03 PM            

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Her Saturn opposite your Saturn/Pluto, and her Pluto squaring your Saturn/Pluto makes this a pass from me.

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posted November 16, 2019 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Hi Stoika, thanks much for your insights. Psychologically and emotionally I love her Taurus Moon (out-of-sign sextile my Moon 2* orb) and her Leo Sun conjunct my relocation ASC (also 2* orb) here. Her generational Capricorn Neptune/Uranus conjunct my 5H Vertex could be wildly exciting and unsettling. Seems a bit spacey at times (Neptune?). She's artistic, Bohemian, attractive to my Aqua 7H. I feel her ambition and smart focus (Gemini Mars/Juno conj my 10H Venus 4* orb). Her Scorpio Pluto/Pars conjunct my Psyche near SN and her Gem SN conj my 11H Moon both seem somehow familiar. Her Sag NN conj my 5H Jupiter feels good. My Leo stellium in square falls between her Mercury and Sun (mixed). Could our Comp 12H Venus be hidden love? If anything manifests by end of November I'll be surprised--but she's already surprised me with her approach.

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Yes Comp. Venus in 12th can be hidden love whether there's difficulties in expressing feelings openly or if the relationship can't manifest in the open and might stay behind closed doors for some reasons, or it might mean that the relationship has a unstable side due to very independent personalities cause Comp. Sun in 11th house is square to Uranus in Aries... or, again, it could even be about unrequitted love whereas she sees you more as a friend than as a lover... just assuming. Since Mercury is quincunx Jupiter, there might actually be a different way to interpret the relationship. Comp. Venus in 12th is always tricky and sometimes painful, here NN in 8 house Pisces square Vertex gives this sense of otherworldly again, with a very deep psychic communication and fated feeling, but together with Venus 12th house looks like something might be difficult to take off the ground, even thought feelings might be very intense. You have two Kites and a Mystic Rectangle, with the Venus 12th house and NN in 8th, so this is certainly about transformation and has a deep impact, it also looks "artistic" and it seems you might actually share some creative project or plan...

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posted November 19, 2019 08:30 PM            

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Spent a wonderful hour together today, with others present. Hidden love indeed. Strong attraction from both sides, so not really unrequited. She's a loyal Leo apparently already in a romantic relationship. Met her pet and he jumped all over me, expressing strong affection. Exactly what I want to do with her. I see 8H Venus in composite, but no square to Vertex? Artistic and deep psychic connection are direct hits. I'd love to share a creative project together, but she's super busy for the next month. Today she told me she'll miss me (my same sentiment) after our term ends in mid Dec. She still wants a private meeting then.

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posted November 19, 2019 09:53 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Spent a wonderful hour together today, with others present. Hidden love indeed. Strong attraction from both sides, so not really unrequited. She's a loyal Leo apparently already in a romantic relationship. Met her pet and he jumped all over me, expressing strong affection. Exactly what I want to do with her. I see 8H Venus in composite, but no square to Vertex? Artistic and deep psychic connection are direct hits. I'd love to share a creative project together, but she's super busy for the next month. Today she told me she'll miss me (my same sentiment) after our term ends in mid Dec. She still wants a private meeting then.

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You're right, I did not see well, it's not square Vertex but Vertex is square to Ceres, so an immediate and spontaneous feeling of affection can certainly be mutual. The fact that she's in a relationship can explain the 12th house placement, but it doesnt have to be doomed, you have a lot of strong positive aspects :-)
Are you sure about her TOB ?

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posted November 20, 2019 04:00 PM            

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Her TOB is from an approximate recall: between 3:30 and 4 AM. I split the difference, will see if she has a birth cert. We hooked up on social media, and are exchanging msgs. Asked her to get a secure private email account so we can msg minus prying eyes. I'm pleased that it's not doomed. My intuition is telling me that our future is much more powerful than our past. Merc goes direct today; I expect more clarity by Sat.

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posted November 20, 2019 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Her TOB is from an approximate recall: between 3:30 and 4 AM. I split the difference, will see if she has a birth cert. We hooked up on social media, and are exchanging msgs. Asked her to get a secure private email account so we can msg minus prying eyes. I'm pleased that it's not doomed. My intuition is telling me that our future is much more powerful than our past. Merc goes direct today; I expect more clarity by Sat.

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I totally agree about Mercury turning direct, especially since it's going back through Composite Saturn and Neptune in 4th house by early December.
Keep me updated! :-)

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posted November 21, 2019 06:21 PM            

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Hi Stoika,

I showed her our synastry and composite today in class: she wants to do our pvt meeting manana!(after my own heart) On Master Number date 11/22: Sag Sun Libra Moon. Something magical is manifesting: we are stoking each other's Fire! Already talking about a mutual collaboration and being onstage, sharing the spotlight. Comp Leo ASC. Law of Attraction pulling us together. *amazed* at speed.

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posted November 21, 2019 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Hi Stoika,

I showed her our synastry and composite today in class: she wants to do our pvt meeting manana!(after my own heart) On Master Number date 11/22: Sag Sun Libra Moon. Something magical is manifesting: we are stoking each other's Fire! Already talking about a mutual collaboration and being onstage, sharing the spotlight. Comp Leo ASC. Law of Attraction pulling us together. *amazed* at speed.

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eheh, you didnt believe it when I told you within the end of november, did you? :-D

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posted November 21, 2019 08:12 PM            

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"eheh, you didn't believe it when I told you within the end of november, did you? :-D "

Show off! OK, looks like you were right on. Lord knows what we'll be doing by then!

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posted November 28, 2019 03:59 PM            

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Bump!

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Bump!

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