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Topic: What Do You Think of Our Synastry?
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CuriousV
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posted November 25, 2019 03:57 PM
  
Hi guys,Can you please give me your insights about our synastry? I see some positives but wondering if the squares and Mars/Pluto opposition are something to be concerned about? I am in Blue, he is in Red. TOBs are correct. Thank you!  IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted November 26, 2019 01:16 AM
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CuriousV
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posted November 26, 2019 01:41 PM
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Stoika7
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posted November 26, 2019 02:03 PM
Hi CuriousV,
there are some strong intimate/emotional aspects and the nodes contacts suggest a deep bond, those aspects concerning you show that self-defensive/aggressive reactions are possible, his Sun/Chiron opposite the Sun/Moon/Pluto conjunction can be very intense and passionate but can also arise sensitive issues... he might be unconsciously intimidated by your straightforward attitude and self-assertiveness, while he has some unclear direction and emotional insecurity. the whole feeling with Uranus quincunx Saturn and Sun/Moon/MC square Neptune/Vesta is that things might not easily take off the ground, maybe cause of different directions in your lives, so things dont look so stable between you two... do you work together? Can you post a Composite chart? IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted November 26, 2019 02:45 PM
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi CuriousV,
there are some strong intimate/emotional aspects and the nodes contacts suggest a deep bond, those aspects concerning you show that self-defensive/aggressive reactions are possible, his Sun/Chiron opposite the Sun/Moon/Pluto conjunction can be very intense and passionate but can also arise sensitive issues... he might be unconsciously intimidated by your straightforward attitude and self-assertiveness, while he has some unclear direction and emotional insecurity. the whole feeling with Uranus quincunx Saturn and Sun/Moon/MC square Neptune/Vesta is that things might not easily take off the ground, maybe cause of different directions in your lives, so things dont look so stable between you two... do you work together? Can you post a Composite chart?
Hi Stoika! Thank you for your input. No, we don't work together. It's a romantic interest. Interesting that you said that he may feel intimidated by my straightforwardness. Actually it's me who feels this way. He seems to be on a much higher spiritual level than I am and although I consider myself very up there in terms of spiritual growth and awakening, when we met I started to feel nervous and insecure which NEVER happens to me on dates. At the same time, he is almost a reflection of me in terms of his wants, values, beliefs and views about life. When he talked, he was saying everything I already knew, but I just sat there quiet and in awe, not daring to interrupt him because it was as if I was listening to my own soul. We definitely want the same things and I can tell that we have attracted each other because we are vibrating on the same frequency. It's almost as if I've been going through years and years of unsuccessful bs dating, meeting all these karmic people who have taught me some invaluable lessons and right about when I said enough, I give up, don't wanna put myself out there in hopes of meeting my life partner, the Universe goes - here you go, meet your divine counterpart... Anyways, here is our composite. I can somewhat read certain synasty aspects but have no idea what I am looking at here. So would appreciate a detailed interpretation. Thank you!  IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted November 26, 2019 03:55 PM
Hi again :-)
I see the spiritual link/interest from your Neptune on his 12th and his Neptune on your 12th conjunct your ASC. Those Neptune trines show a mutual admiration and familiarity. I think he has some self-assertiveness issues cause he has Neptune square Mercury and Aries Saturn opposite his MC/SN... Also, his ASC is square to his Sun and his Pluto, so it is an inner issue he carries on a very subconscious level while his Pisces Sun in 3rd house and his Sagittarius ASC express in a very comfortable way on philosophical/spiritual areas, and probably this is his comfort zone where he finds his self-assertiveness the most... with his Leo Jupiter 8th house square Neptune, he might be good at appearing much more self-confident than he actually is subconsciously.
His Saturn opposite your Pluto might be why you felt insecure in your first date, even so your natal chart looks much more balanced than his in straightforwardess terms, but I see you have also Neptune square Sun/MC that could give you some insecurity in how you envision your direction and future... but since your NN is in your 10th trine to Moon in your second, I believe you know what is good for you deep inside and can safely follow your intuition.In Composite, this relationship looks like a highly significative bond can be established, but it looks more intellectual than emotional, and from this perspective it looks challenging with Pluto square Saturn and Venus, and with NN square MC it doesnt look promising for long term. Also, the Mars/Uranus/Chiron can manifest in aggressive, abrupt ways and arguments can arise in the long run, this looks very instable... with Moon square Jupiter and quincunx Chiron in 4th house, arguments can become divisive or can trigger bad self-worth issues. Even so, a deep love bond based on mutual admiration and learning can develope with the Sun/Saturn/Lilith conjunction, so since Chiron is trine to Jupiter and Pluto in 9th house sextile Neptune and Mercury, it seems that it all depends on how you both are willing to be very open about working on your own inner wounds/past issues that can be triggered here but also possibly carrying awareness and trasformation. Currently, transiting NN is coming conjunct to Composite NN in 7th house so I think you will see how this relationship developes during the next month, with transiting Pluto conjunct Comp. Mars you might experience an intense attraction and strong sexual drive and actual sexual meetings are possible in the near future. I assume that some issues might arise around May 2020, as transiting NN is conjunct to Comp. Saturn and tr. SN to Comp. Venus, triggering the Saturn/Pluto/Venus t-square. IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted December 02, 2019 06:22 PM
Hi Stoika! Sorry I didn't comment back, I was away for the holidays.I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving.Thank you so much for such a detailed description. Wow, that does sound like a significant connection. So....We had another date and maaaannn, do we connect spiritually/intellectually. This was another date that lasted over 6 hours!! However, I can't help but feel insecure around him at certain moments and that's never happened to me, such a weird feeling. There are times when we are connecting deeply and the conversation just flows and then there are other times when I feel triggered by the things he says. I feel like he is judging me about certain values/beliefs. I usually have no problem whatsoever expressing my stand on certain things but with him, it's like I am chocking on words or can't find the right words to come out...He also said he doesn't think that he wants a 3D relationship at this point, saying that he doesn't want all the drama that comes with it. The "let's just become friends first" phrase came up a few times as well as "if you are coming into this with the "where is this relationship headed" then maybe I am not the right person"....which made me think whether or not he has some commitment issues, although the way he puts it it's more about finding a person who is ready for the 5D relationship. Which brings me to your comment about a possibility of sexually charged meetings in the future...he has mentioned it a few times saying "I am not going to have sex with you", although jokingly, I think that he really means it. It's like I feel that he has this wall up or resistance towards me and not allowing himself to just go with the flow, although I can sense that he is definitely sexually attracted to me and we have this invisible charge going between us. At the same time, he says that I need to go into this with a totally open heart and that he is completely open as well. I don't know...it's so hard to explain, but I just feel something is off, yet the way we have connected on the intellectual level is something I have never experienced with anyone before and I can tell that he is intrigued by our interactions as well. I looked at our composite again with added Nessus and it was bunched up right there in the 7th H with Sun/Saturn (although rather a wide orbit like 5-6 degrees). Does that signify abuse? Also, in our Synastry chart, we have his Chiron & my SN conjunction and I think I read somewhere that it's a past life link and that the Chiron person was hurt by the SN person. Could it be that somewhere on the subconscious level, he feels it and that's why I am sensing his resistance to allowing himself to come closer to me emotionally/physically? IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted December 03, 2019 03:36 PM
Hi CuriousV :-)it is weird cause with SN conjunct Pluto and his Chiron conjunct your SN opposite the Sun/Moon conjunction, it seems he's the one more affected/intimidated by the relationship, and his Saturn/Mars opposite your Pluto actually looks like rejection from his part, or fear, but this is also the aspect that can trigger your insecurity with him, but probably more your ASC square to his Jupiter and his Mercury, and moreover his Saturn square to your Ceres/2nd house. Be careful cause his Leo Jupiter 8th house square Neptune (conjunct your ASC) and opposite his Mercury can be manipulative in subtle ways, not necessarily in a deceitful way, but certainly as a way to boost his ego and rule/control the relationship, as Neptune involved in this picture attached to your ASC you're fascinated and might not see him for who he really is or you might just idealize him too much and put him on a pedestal that doesnt fit reality, especially cause you also have Neptune square his Sun conjunct your Moon.
Yes his SN is conjunct your Pluto and his Chiron is conjunct your SN, these are both aspects pointing to a deep intimacy but at the same time this is why I think he might be intimidated by you more than he appears, it looks like his subconscious fears you might lead him to expose his weakest sides and (well hidden) poor self-worth.
It is possible he's not up for committment on his own cause his 7th ruler Mercury is square to Neptune and his Sun in 3rd house is square to his DSC. Also, his Saturn is opposite his Libra MC, and this might make his relationships unstable. Then you have Composite Saturn in 7th house ruled by Mercury in 12th house, Saturn being opposite Venus and square Pluto, and the Nodes square to MC, so I think he won't seriously commit in a romantic way and if he does it is not going to be emotionally stable/long term. In Composite again Jupiter in Leo 8th house square Moon and Saturn square Pluto looks he would rule the relationship for his own selfish purposes especially cause Comp. Mars is quincunx Saturn. If Nessus in that placement you mentioned is square to Pluto/opposite Venus, there might be an abusive hook and since there's also Lilith involved sextile to Chiron, it might manifest in subtle/psychological ways. I suggest you to follow your intuition with this person rather than letting yourself sweep off by fascination. The more things are clear between you two, the better, you certainly share deep spiritual/intelletcual/other worldly connection with Mercury/Neptune 12th house sextile Pluto, but this can become a love/hate relationship, so I suggest you to trust your "uncomfortable" feelings and ask yourself what this person is triggering deep down yourself.
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CuriousV
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posted December 04, 2019 04:10 PM
OMG, thank you so much Stoika! You are an incredible well of knowledge and I greatly appreciate your interpretation of our charts.Well, it's been 4 days since our last date and he hasn't reached out...odd considering we spent 8 hours connecting the last time we saw each other. I am not sure if it was just him looking for a willing listener to all of his spiritual talk or what but I just decided to let it be. I guess maybe I was picking up something intuitively and he is not really looking for a serious relationship because to me, if a man is interested, he makes it known. Thanks again for your input!! IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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posted December 04, 2019 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by CuriousV:
OMG, thank you so much Stoika! You are an incredible well of knowledge and I greatly appreciate your interpretation of our charts.Well, it's been 4 days since our last date and he hasn't reached out...odd considering we spent 8 hours connecting the last time we saw each other. I am not sure if it was just him looking for a willing listener to all of his spiritual talk or what but I just decided to let it be. I guess maybe I was picking up something intuitively and he is not really looking for a serious relationship because to me, if a man is interested, he makes it known. Thanks again for your input!!
You are welcome ❤️ Transiting Pluto is currently conjunct Composite Mars, so it is still possible you have another intense meeting/exchange in the close future, which might play out somehow shocking and arise some tension with Mars square to Uranus and Chiron being triggered.
Meanwhile transiting SN/Venus is lurking towards Composite SN, so it is possible that you might detach from this around december 20. It is also possible (but not necessarily) you will have a new unexpected connection with this person later next year, as NN will be transiting composite Saturn/Sun... IP: Logged | |
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