posted November 28, 2019 05:10 PM            

I will look at the natals to the composite. In particular, how your natals may relieve some of those composite squares (eg, your Mars and Venus sextile to that square and adding weight to the already positioned Virgo Mars).

Or maybe, how the composite Juno adds relief to his natal and the composite Moon squaring his Chiron.

Chiron seems to play a prominent role. As is the case mostly with our generation.

Wow.. I'm remembering now how complex this was when we first looked at it a year or so ago. It's still complex! It will take me some time to check it again.

Incidentally, I was wondering too about your Nemesis and Dejanera.. Just saying (no pressure).

posted November 28, 2019 05:38 PM            

No, I'm just on a Nemesis and Dejaneira trip atm.

posted November 29, 2019 01:19 AM            

I have resumed dating after a pretty busy year. Those guys disappeared. I remain friends with one, though we haven't caught up much (he found out that he had a teenage daughter and has been attending to that, lol).

posted January 06, 2020 07:57 PM            

I am sure the composite still applies, but the Davison for the first time in my experience actually feels right too.

posted January 06, 2020 08:25 PM            

I was thinking about the whole *analysing relationship charts* thing and how it can get in the way and is annoying/destructive.

I must point out, something that is enjoyed from the experience and is not annoying/destructive is: getting into other people minds here on LL and how they do astrology. That's the fun bit.

I always enjoyed your methods SM. They were deep, interesting, and fun

Anyhow... I'm good to take a new look if you want. But, can I request if not a hassle:
Natals
Synastry
Comp and Davison
All with grids for sure

We have all of that somewhere in the belly of LL threads. But I cannot find it.

This is why I haven't responded - I need whole pic

posted January 07, 2020 07:58 AM            

him:

synastry:

posted January 27, 2020 07:55 PM            

Apologies in advance.. I tend to look at things from a deficit position and build on improvement strategies. I think it’s my MC Virgo Pluto. I am not meaning to sound negative!

And also please keep in mind I'm not very good at this

There is of course more - and more to follow. But I couldn’t keep it waiting any longer. I hope I haven’t repeated myself! It’s been a long time StoneMoon!

Ok.. here goes first bits ....

He is similar to you with the Moon/Sun opp - but: he is Uranian and you are Plutonian (Moon aspects); a question ensues in astrology if these two ever understand each other (I often find myself wondering when I encounter Pluto-types as an Uranian).

So his Uranus square to Moon can make him edgy emotionally.. afraid of intimacy, or closeness, as conditioned through care-giver rapport (Moon).

The Moon opposite the Sun deems a wavering between these two identity lights: on one hand he can be cold and authoritarian, and perhaps even border on cruel (Sun conjunct Saturn).
On the other, emotionally detached and relatively dismissive of emotions entirely (Moon square Uranus).

He likes to get on with his projects (Saturn/Sun conjunct; Sun trine Jupiter). And he would like an equal in this respect: someone who is also enterprising and ambitious (Jupiter/Juno), or/and an authoritarian in their field denoting a level of social status (trine Saturn/Sun). He would be attracted to power-focused, tough and resilient (square Pluto) individuals, as this is someone he would respect. Or/and who is in some manner "intense" when it comes to relating, and this is probably a feature he enjoys in you (with your Moon square Pluto).

He also expects/hopes them to be more communicative, extroverted, and sociable (Venus/Gemini) than his own reserved self (Sun/Sat square Pluto). And perhaps even take the limelight socially, and sometimes something they can do together to a degree (trine Mars/Leo which is trine Neptune denoting glamour).

With your Sun/Moon opposition (in the same signs (!) ) your Moon is square the other big bully, Pluto (not Uranus as is with him). When it comes to emotions and intimacy, there maybe a push-pull between you (which has and will continue to go on for eternity anyhow with men and women): you want closeness and depth (Pluto); he wants to pull away and be light-hearted and global-focused (Uranus). He may detach and points of contention could be that: you make too big a-deal of things and want too much closeness, and you find him shallow (you may not say it) and dismissive; there’s no depth with him.

Your Moons on each others within a degree brings intensity! At first it brings rapport and sympathy. And over time, you will feel each other quite well - you will feel the other’s aspects to their Moon. These aspects will either bring ease or challenge. Sometimes challenge can mean disappointment or frustration, after the initial surface sympathy reveals more complexity.

Examples:
You may have hoped that the conjunction (the feel of it I mean, like if you weren’t an astrologer) for someone who you can go the depths with. As is the template of your Moon. What you have instead though is a detached Uranian (as per noted above).

Depending on the level of maturity, age, social context (and so much more) this diversion from hopes and expectations may be acceptable and appreciated. Or it could bring a bitter pill of emotional disappointment, and practical disharmony as you reveal over time that you are innately on different pages.

I will write more soon!

This time I have taken to the process by analysing the natals. While I love synastry charts; they are lovely and simple, I am edging to push myself to get a deeper and broader assessment of relationship astrology.

As I said, there is so much more..

After looking more at the natal planets, I would like to do an appraisal of how each person relieves “stress points” in each other’s charts (the squares etc), like we have discussed before. I think that when this can happen it keeps people together in need and deep appreciation: it’s a healing element that keeps people in a reciprocal exchange.

posted January 29, 2020 04:30 PM            

I don't consider myself as having moon square pluto bcs it's 10 degrees. I do however consider myself plutonic due to 8th house sun and scorpio rising. I feel the mars trine to moon is more effective. And I also have a 72degree aspect between moon and uranus. I am a little tiny bit uranian in my ways.

My juno in Aqua 3rd house makes me appreciate his uranian ways, and his gem venus, I think. It's funny bcs you are right about much of it, but he is in no way cold or aloof. He is far less afraid of intimacy or commitment than I am. He calls his house "ours" and has treated me like his wife for a while now. N cruelness in him at all, but the Saturn Sun makes him check and recheck everything he does. He is thorough and diligent, and because of that slooooowwwwww moving. Maybe the 7th house moon? He doesn't necessarily go as deep as I would like, so you are accurate with that assessment.

At this point he keeps me from diving too deep, he keeps me grounded. And I push him to go a little deeper than he usually does. But you are right, we've only been together a year. I do feel that my completing and locking in to his t-square, making it a grand cross, is like glue. I feel so much more stable - in a way he's given me legs to my natal opposition. And he feels more stability and direction with my Sun completing his configuration.

posted February 07, 2020 12:15 AM            

I just wanted to take it from a few different angles this time. And also really home in on the details and the specifics - starting with that opposition.

Quickly - I was referring to that he has potential for coldness (/cruelty). But I did not mean toward you, just the range of potentials for the Sun/Saturn.