posted December 10, 2019 05:23 AM            

I'm wondering if this can be shown in our synastry chart (yes, both birth times are accurate) - as to why he seems to be so infatuated with me, yet I feel nothing for him romantically?
I feel more of a sisterly/brotherly love for him than anything more.

Here is our synastry chart (he is red/outside): http://imgur.com/IGTG9CD

posted December 10, 2019 07:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Sinder:
Can you the other type of synastry.. doesn’t show his houses

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posted December 10, 2019 08:59 AM            

What he may really like is your Mercurial energy which matches his 5th & 7th house. Virgo Moon/Mars with Moon in 3rd/Gemini house and your 6H stellium. Also, his 5th & DSC rulers in Cancer and you put your ASC there.

posted December 10, 2019 09:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
With your Capricorn/Virgo/6th stellium, you're more serious natured than him while his Gemini Venus, Sag Moon and Aries Mars are all flirty/amorous signs, so I suggest you don't take his love declaration too seriously unless he has proven otherwise.

What he may really like is your Mercurial energy which matches his 5th & 7th house. Virgo Moon/Mars with Moon in 3rd/Gemini house and your 6H stellium. Also, his 5th & DSC rulers in Cancer and you put your ASC there.

As for you... I'm thinking you're not so attracted because he's not matching your Virgo/6H energy. You also like someone strong Saturnine (Cap DSC with ruler in 10H) but he does not have it (Saturn hidden 12H not touching ASC or Sun).

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posted December 10, 2019 09:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Can you explain why your chart looks different here and on the other thread? I noticed your ASC is Cancer here but Gemini there.

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posted December 10, 2019 06:30 PM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
As was already mentioned, you are hitting him on multiple levels, his 5th and 7th romantic/relationship houses and their rulers. It really struck me that your ascendant is conjunct both his 5th and 7th house ruler sun and mercury. YOur outer packaging, how you behave is just what his 5th and 7th house looovves. Your moon (emotions) and mars (sexual desire nature/ expression) in his 7th house...again, you are also at your core perfection to him...and his 8th house ruler venus opposite your venus..again strong connection.

With you on the other hand, yes his ascendnat is in your 8th house, so no doubt he was sexy to you and also some strong connections to your 8th house ruler..but in terms of your 7th or 5th houses, he just does not really fulfill them. If I see this correctly your 7th house ruler saturn is completely unaspected by his planets. Ok your 5th house ruler venus is in saggi and he is moon in saggi, but very very widely conjunct. Also, again, I hope I see this correctly, your mars doesnt seem to be aspected by his planets at all. Indirectly his cancer planets match your mars in 4th house, but I find that way to indirect to light your fires for him (especially with the lack general meaningful type matching for you). I did have an acquaintant who was quite enarmoured with me and I really forced myself to like him because he seemed perfect in so many ways (matched my 7th house to some extend).I liked him as a person and objectively speaking he was a goodlooking man, but he just didnt do it for me...I put it down to the fact that his planets didnt make a single major aspect to my mars. And I do feel mars is quite significant for women when it comes to deciding who is their type.

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