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Topic: Would this synastry have actually gone anywhere?
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blindbliss
Knowflake Posts: 28
From: Manchester, NH, USA
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 12, 2019 12:12 AM
  
There's a lot of lovely aspects as far as I can tell (There's Sun sq Neptune/Uranus, but I have that natally so it pops up a lot in synastry for me), but the man has flaked on our first date twice and I've since stopped replying to him. A part of me knows that I shouldn't waste my time on people who can't or won't make time for me, but another small part can't help wondering "what could have been." 
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vansio
Knowflake Posts: 602
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posted December 12, 2019 01:57 AM
What’s worth considering is just because you have the aspects natally doesn’t meant the other party is adept to performing the energy appropriately, hence creating a byproduct in relationships unless you’re highly self-aware, humbled, and autonomous. Don’t brush it off as ‘generational’ or that everyone around you makes this aspect—you, not them, have been set-up by the stars. Try to study your Sun aspects to get a handle on the type of men you’re currently attracted to, thus attracting in the lower forms until that inner-image evolves (deceptive, unavailable, erratic, obsessive, manipulative etc). This applies doubly-so because not only is your Sun afflicted, Neptune-Uranus sits in your Descendant, and Pluto is in your fifth house. Why are you ignoring that part of you that knows better? The part of you that wants close to nothing? His stellium scares me.. All around, he’s got major issues. Be this a warning that you’re already attracted to such a f*cked up person—considering his age I highly doubt he’s addressed any of those quincunx, squares or opposition to his Moon. In time sure, hopefully his soul evolution will pave the way for major transformation (or not) but he can’t even arrive to a date... highly doubtful he’s arrived anywhere else. Also his karma is not your problem? Don’t sympathize. If he’s still texting you after how he did you wrong twice already, block his damn number, or else he’ll be blocking you from getting what you deserve: a genuine partner, I can promise you that. I’m serious about warning you because of what I laid out earlier. You have an awesome chart... now just wake up. If I may add... transiting Uranus is coming to your Venus next year!! I’m excited for you. In the meantime, try going on a date with someone born end of October - December 1990. For a Cancer Rising with 4th House Jupiter NN, you’ll be happier with that. IP: Logged |
blindbliss
Knowflake Posts: 28
From: Manchester, NH, USA
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 12, 2019 10:18 AM
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Originally posted by vansio:
What’s worth considering is just because you have the aspects natally doesn’t meant the other party is adept to performing the energy appropriately, hence creating a byproduct in relationships unless you’re highly self-aware, humbled, and autonomous. Don’t brush it off as ‘generational’ or that everyone around you makes this aspect—[b]you, not them, have been set-up by the stars. Try to study your Sun aspects to get a handle on the type of men you’re currently attracted to, thus attracting in the lower forms until that inner-image evolves (deceptive, unavailable, erratic, obsessive, manipulative etc). This applies doubly-so because not only is your Sun afflicted, Neptune-Uranus sits in your Descendant, and Pluto is in your fifth house. Why are you ignoring that part of you that knows better? The part of you that wants close to nothing? His stellium scares me.. All around, he’s got major issues. Be this a warning that you’re already attracted to such a f*cked up person—considering his age I highly doubt he’s addressed any of those quincunx, squares or opposition to his Moon. In time sure, hopefully his soul evolution will pave the way for major transformation (or not) but he can’t even arrive to a date... highly doubtful he’s arrived anywhere else. Also his karma is not your problem? Don’t sympathize. If he’s still texting you after how he did you wrong twice already, block his damn number, or else he’ll be blocking you from getting what you deserve: a genuine partner, I can promise you that. I’m serious about warning you because of what I laid out earlier. You have an awesome chart... now just wake up. If I may add... transiting Uranus is coming to your Venus next year!! I’m excited for you. In the meantime, try going on a date with someone born end of October - December 1990. For a Cancer Rising with 4th House Jupiter NN, you’ll be happier with that. [/B]
Thank you for the honest reply and knocking some sense into me. Actions speak louder than words and when the two are inconsistent then it means bupkis. There's plenty of men out there, I just gotta keep it moving hah. If you don't mind taking another look at my chart, are there any sensitive aspects or parts that particularly stick out to you in terms of what will need to be "triggered" in synastry in order for me to have a successful relationship with someone? I feel like there's some contradictory energy in my chart in terms of romance: lots of saturn, but also some decent uranus as well. I'm serious-minded when it comes to romance and I want a monogamous, stable connection but on flip side I'm also very independent and hate feeling "chained" to someone. I find that it's difficult for me to like someone enough to see longterm potential with them, and doubly so when they start coming on too strong for my taste. On the flip side, there will be occasions - like with this past man - where I feel attracted to someone who is evasive and noncommittal. It sucks for a bit but I do move on.
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